Do I need (written) permission from ex partner to take kids abroad?

mr_stripey
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Do I need (written) permission from ex partner to take kids abroad?

I am a divorced father of two kids (15 and 12). Divorce was reasonably amicable, as far as these things can be and we share custody (if that's the correct term) 50/50. No court orders, disputes or issues.

Have taken the boys overseas before with no issue. Am due to take them to the US for a holiday later this year. To be clear, ex wife has no problem with this and is glad the kids are getting to go.

I wasn't even aware that it might be a "thing" that I needed her written permission? Last thing I need is some grumpy customs official to scupper things?

Any advice or guidance on if I need a letter from her, birth certificate etc for the holiday?

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  • marcia_
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     Id get it especially if you are on ok terms with the mother. The usa is very strict when it comes to kids, custody eyc 
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    marcia_ said:
     Id get it especially if you are on ok terms with the mother. The usa is very strict when it comes to kids, custody eyc 
    yes, getting the letter will not be a problem. Does the letter need to be "authorised" or witnessed by anyone else ?
  • marcia_
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    marcia_ said:
     Id get it especially if you are on ok terms with the mother. The usa is very strict when it comes to kids, custody eyc 
    yes, getting the letter will not be a problem. Does the letter need to be "authorised" or witnessed by anyone else ?
     No, just the letter with mum's phone number in case they want to verify.

    my friend now lives in Nashville, her kids and ex in Utah. She can't even take her kids across state lines as father won't agree. 
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