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Reducing house offer after months of waiting for completion
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If you are only considering staying a few years then I’d not buy anything. Depending on the size of your deposit you have a higher risk of negative equity and the costs of buying any property are not small.1
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RelievedSheff said:You were clearly happy with the price or you wouldn't have offered.
I come on here as I understand it to be a place where people can ask questions and get helpful advice - I hold my hands up to the fact I am a FTB and I am naive about the whole process, as any FTB is - we all have to start/ learn somewhere!
So I would like to hear advice on if a house is worth what it was a few months ago.0 -
comeandgo said:If you are only considering staying a few years then I’d not buy anything. Depending on the size of your deposit you have a higher risk of negative equity and the costs of buying any property are not small.0
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RelievedSheff said:This is exactly the reason that may buyers, ourselves included, will not entertain offers from first time buyers!!2
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So if there are no houses close by to compare is it a sort after area? Could the owners remark at a sane price or even higher and sell quickly? Two months seems ages to you but in house buying terms it really isn’t, if you pull out would you be upset to see this resold to someone else?Would you have to pay rent and save more to buy a bigger house and in that two years would you be ok with knowing the amount you paid on rent could of been paid on a mortgage and possible over payments? Nobody knows the future but maybe you are not ready for a big commitment quite yet if you are worried two months in?1
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It really doesn't sound like you actually want advice - anything that doesn't agree with the opinion you already have you are just dismissing out of hand.
As people who have been through this before, we are giving you the benefit of experience.
They are not unusually slow, you don't get a price reduction for a normal delay, and no, you are not being especially patient. You are being an impatient and overly optimistic FTB.
If you're that worried, pull out and start again. Don't blame it on the seller though.14 -
meeemee said:So if there are no houses close by to compare is it a sort after area? Could the owners remark at a sane price or even higher and sell quickly? Two months seems ages to you but in house buying terms it really isn’t, if you pull out would you be upset to see this resold to someone else?Would you have to pay rent and save more to buy a bigger house and in that two years would you be ok with knowing the amount you paid on rent could of been paid on a mortgage and possible over payments? Nobody knows the future but maybe you are not ready for a big commitment quite yet if you are worried two months in?
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LLM000 said:TheJP said:You are 2 months into a process that can take 4-6 months. Calm down. What is delaying the conveyancing? This is the very reason i don't sell to FTBs.
There was no real point in you getting your mortgage application in and starting the conveyancing until there was a full chain. It could have taken far longer than 2 months for each person in turn to have an offer accepted on a house.
2 months is nothing in house-buying terms. However, if the market has changed significantly in a way you couldn't have foreseen in April and such that you'd offer a lot less on the same house today, you can say you're changing your offer. Be prepared for the vendor to say no, though.0 -
lets turn it around another way if they got a valuation and it has gone up, are you happy to pay more? I have had this done across me this month I told the buyer where togoDon't put your trust into an Experian score - it is not a number any bank will ever use & it is generally a waste of money to purchase it. They are also selling you insurance you dont need.1
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If I'd bought and had an offer accepted on a house after being told the seller had no onward chain (as has been stated), and was now having buyers regret (which sounds like what's happening here), and was looking for a reason to pull out, I'd likely use the fact that I was told there was no onward chain as a reason to pull out.
As alluded to by others, I suspect the OP has already decided they want to pull out, but is looking for a crowd-sourced approval of that decision.0
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