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Transfer Assets now to prevent claim on will.
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GoldenOldy said:
As i say , its a strange world when you cannot decide for yourself where your money goes to!
I don't say this to minimise your distress, just to point out that in England most people are able to leave their assets to whomever they wish.
In your case: when was the child last financially supported by you? And do they, in your opinion, have the financial resources to bring a claim against your estate. If it helps a legal bill for such a case normally runs to 5 figures. Do they have that?0 -
Mands said:GoldenOldy said:
As i say , its a strange world when you cannot decide for yourself where your money goes to!
I don't say this to minimise your distress, just to point out that in England most people are able to leave their assets to whomever they wish.
In your case: when was the child last financially supported by you? And do they, in your opinion, have the financial resources to bring a claim against your estate. If it helps a legal bill for such a case normally runs to 5 figures. Do they have that?
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I think you're perhaps over thinking it and worrying unnecessarily. If you have your will properly drawn up by a suitably experienced solicitor and add a side letter to explain, there should be very little room for misinterpretation or challenge, in the circumstances you describe.If your current wife were very recent and it looked as though you had been strong armed into putting your house into joint names to the detriment of dependant offspring, your family might have cause for concern - but if she was a gold digger she's been playing a very, very long game.
Presumably, if you've been married for 38 years, your son from a previous relationship must be older than that. So they could probably only argue financial dependence, if they had difficulties that prevented them supporting themselves.Please don't do anything until you've taken proper legal and / or financial advice.1 -
Mojisola said:bobster2 said:Flugelhorn said:Hardship is not a reason for them to be able to claim against the estate - if they had been hard up for years and you had regularly sent them some money then it would be a very different matter
Take a look at Ilott v Mitson [2011]...
https://www.birketts.co.uk/legal-update/provision-for-family-and-dependants-act-1975/
Yes - the award was reduced on appeal - but there was still a substantial award.I think that case succeeded because all the estate was left to charities.If it had been left to a spouse, as in this situation, I don't think the claim would have considered to be so strong.Successful cases are rare, it’s mainly the cost and stress of defending them that is the real pain0 -
GoldenOldy said:Mands said:GoldenOldy said:
As i say , its a strange world when you cannot decide for yourself where your money goes to!
I don't say this to minimise your distress, just to point out that in England most people are able to leave their assets to whomever they wish.
In your case: when was the child last financially supported by you? And do they, in your opinion, have the financial resources to bring a claim against your estate. If it helps a legal bill for such a case normally runs to 5 figures. Do they have that?1 -
GoldenOldy said:Bobster..oh my goodness, bang goes my sleep tonight!
As i say , its a strange world when you cannot decide for yourself where your money goes to!No free lunch, and no free laptop0 -
macman said:GoldenOldy said:Bobster..oh my goodness, bang goes my sleep tonight!
As i say , its a strange world when you cannot decide for yourself where your money goes to!0 -
bobster2 said:macman said:GoldenOldy said:Bobster..oh my goodness, bang goes my sleep tonight!
As i say , its a strange world when you cannot decide for yourself where your money goes to!It is down to any claimant to show that they were financially dependant of the testator which is unlikely to succeed in this case. Having said that people do put in hopeless claims even if it is just to create problems problems for the executor and beneficiaries.
One thing it might be worth the OP looking at is to make sure he has no assets that require probate, as any challenge will put a spanner in the works as far as obtaining it in reasonable time is concerned. No probate also means no public record of his estate or his will.2 -
Keep Pedaling. No I dont have a terminal illness, just on the decline now.
My other half has left everything to me.
Re having no assets that require probate, …thats what I am thinking .
Put everything into joint names, or even transfer the lot over.although i cant avoid probate all together as have one little business asset with my old friends (its a little lock up worth about £150 ) which is still going ,and I understand you still have to list joint assets held as husband and wife anyway?
So maybe transfer in whole everything except the lock up?0 -
GoldenOldy said:Keep Pedaling. No I dont have a terminal illness, just on the decline now.
My other half has left everything to me.
Re having no assets that require probate, …thats what I am thinking .
Put everything into joint names, or even transfer the lot over.although i cant avoid probate all together as have one little business asset with my old friends (its a little lock up worth about £150 ) which is still going ,and I understand you still have to list joint assets held as husband and wife anyway?
So maybe transfer in whole everything except the lock up?1
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