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Should I default on my debts?

Verulamium_Vixen
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Hi
I would really appreciate some advice.
I am 59 and owe £35,000 across 3 credit cards and am repaying £850 per month. (Virgin, Barclaycard and John Lewis - the old one, I didn't order the new one so that account is closed.)
I am trying not to spend on the remaining 2 but want to clear them. I am planning to retire next year and my lump sum should clear them. (I plan to resurrect my nursing registration once retired and work as a nurse in addition to my pension)
We also have a mortgage of £220k fixed at 1.79% until 2027.
I really cannot afford the monthly card repayments and was going to approach the companies and ask them to suspend interest but I think even asking that question would affect my credit rating.
I want to pay them off, close them down and never have a credit card again.
I must protect my mortgage, I cannot lose my home.
All the cards are in my name only, none have an additional user.
The advice on here seems to be to simply default and wait for them to contact me.
I have a few questions:
Could they force me to sell our home?
Could they freeze my bank account?
Would they chase my husband? He is already retired and in very poor health.
When I do clear them off next year would I still have an adverse credit record which will prevent me renewing the mortgage in 2027?
Please don't attack me, I am more than happy to clear my debts, I just need some space.
V
I would really appreciate some advice.
I am 59 and owe £35,000 across 3 credit cards and am repaying £850 per month. (Virgin, Barclaycard and John Lewis - the old one, I didn't order the new one so that account is closed.)
I am trying not to spend on the remaining 2 but want to clear them. I am planning to retire next year and my lump sum should clear them. (I plan to resurrect my nursing registration once retired and work as a nurse in addition to my pension)
We also have a mortgage of £220k fixed at 1.79% until 2027.
I really cannot afford the monthly card repayments and was going to approach the companies and ask them to suspend interest but I think even asking that question would affect my credit rating.
I want to pay them off, close them down and never have a credit card again.
I must protect my mortgage, I cannot lose my home.
All the cards are in my name only, none have an additional user.
The advice on here seems to be to simply default and wait for them to contact me.
I have a few questions:
Could they force me to sell our home?
Could they freeze my bank account?
Would they chase my husband? He is already retired and in very poor health.
When I do clear them off next year would I still have an adverse credit record which will prevent me renewing the mortgage in 2027?
Please don't attack me, I am more than happy to clear my debts, I just need some space.
V
New Years Resolution (Jan 2023) was to take early retirement followed by a career change. Retired January 2024 - now working as a contractor
Aiming to be debt free and mortgage free. Currently on track for December 2030.
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Can you really afford to lose 35k from your pension? That seems quite a big hit.
It might be a better plan to default now, make payments of what you can comfortably afford, let them pass (sell) the debts to a debt buyer (Lowell, Cabot, PRA...) and then start talking about full & final settlement in a year or so's time.
You don't seem to have much understanding of the debt world. These are non-priority debts. If they were to see court action it would probably be after you have ignored them for many years (which I'm not suggesting you do) as they have 6 years to start a claim.
It's only when there is a county court judgement that you have not paid according to the court's instructions that the enforcement methods can be used.
No other person can be made to pay your debt, even if they are a second card holder, and your property is not in danger (happy to argue that if anyone thinks otherwise)
Having marks on your credit file is not a barrier to getting a new mortgage deal. Debt Camel (who is an excellent source of debt info BTW) has recently written about this here
https://debtcamel.co.uk/new-mortgage-fixed-rate-poor-credit/
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I strongly recommend you don’t use your pension lump sum to pay off unsecured debt. The mortgage should be your priority as it is still quite large. How do you intend to cover the mortgage repayments in retirement as very few lenders will lend past 70?No unsecured lenders cannot force you to sell your home.They cannot freeze your bank account
They won’t chase your husband if the debt is in your name.
if you default or ask for arrangements to pay lower amounts that will affect your credit record but if you stick with your current mortgage lender you should be able to renew the mortgage.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free Wannabe, Budgeting and Banking and Savings and Investment boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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Thank you both, the information you have given is really helpful.
The mortgage will be cleared in 2029 when I am 66.
I have bad memories of being broke in my early 20's back in the 1980's .
Those scary letters from the bank and a £22 charge for each letter. I assumed that was the way they still worked.
I don't plan to retire until my late 60's I just need to change direction as I want to find something useful other than my current pen pushing existence. It will take 3 months to recover my nursing registration. We can downsize should our children ever leave home. They are due to start A levels in September and hopefully go to higher education after that. I would prefer to invest a big portion of my lump sum in that direction to be honest but I really struggle with the idea of owing anybody anything.
VNew Years Resolution (Jan 2023) was to take early retirement followed by a career change. Retired January 2024 - now working as a contractorAiming to be debt free and mortgage free. Currently on track for December 2030.0 -
Things have changed a lot in the way creditors (banks in particular) are allowed to treat people and that is due to be tightened another notch with the FCA Consumer Duty that comes in on July 31..
You must do what's best for you, Credit card debts are a long way down the list of priorities, and if the minimum payments are not affordable then you should stop paying them2
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