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Closing bank accounts on behalf of survivor
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waveyjane said:Thanks. First tried Barclays Bereavement Team who say no can do as the account is now not in the name of the deceased. Put me on to Customer Services who demand password, phone app etc. she doesn't have so they won't speak to us. Same again for Lloyds who say it's not a Bereavement case. I'm assuming Nat West will say the same.
Looks like I'm going to have to take her into branches with her ID and see if we can get it done there. There is the PoA option (which I have) but that's a bit OTT just to close an account.
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waveyjane said:Sarahspangles said:It’s possible your father was spreading risk as FSCS only covers £85k per banking group.
Yes, I think you may be right. However, I think for the time my mother is alive I will recommend she consolidates to as simple an arrangement as possible.Fashion on the Ration
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Presumably, if the accounts were originally joint accounts, they are now sole accounts in your mother's name. If there are cheque books for the accounts, can't she just write out a cheque to herself for the balance and pay it into an account of her choice (assuming she doesn't want to maintain the original accounts)?#2 Saving for Christmas 2024 - £1 a day challenge. £325 of £3663
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JGB1955 said:Presumably, if the accounts were originally joint accounts, they are now sole accounts in your mother's name. If there are cheque books for the accounts, can't she just write out a cheque to herself for the balance and pay it into an account of her choice (assuming she doesn't want to maintain the original accounts)?Fashion on the Ration
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JGB1955 said:Presumably, if the accounts were originally joint accounts, they are now sole accounts in your mother's name. If there are cheque books for the accounts, can't she just write out a cheque to herself for the balance and pay it into an account of her choice (assuming she doesn't want to maintain the original accounts)?0
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JGB1955 said:Presumably, if the accounts were originally joint accounts, they are now sole accounts in your mother's name. If there are cheque books for the accounts, can't she just write out a cheque to herself for the balance and pay it into an account of her choice (assuming she doesn't want to maintain the original accounts)?
Indeed, I've just visited a branch of one of the banks myself to ask. I think (but I'm not sure) she has the cheque books. So they said the path of least resistance would be:
1. Call customer service and explain that she only wants to hear the balance and a list of any DDs and SOs on the account. This should mean they don't have to do all the security app code stuff that will confuse her (not least as she doesn't have a mobile nor does she have any telephone banking).
2. Put the phone down and write a cheque to herself. Pay that into her own account.
If she doesn't have a cheque book, then she can try writing to the bank to close the account instead. But her wet ink signature needs to match that of their records. I think it might as she presumably would have have had to give them a signature when Dad opened it as a joint account.
BTW I hear what others are saying about not having large amounts sitting in current accounts etc. All that's in hand.
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Brie said:If the account is no longer in your father's name then whose name is on it? Presumably it might be The Estate of "waveyjane's dad" or similar. As executor you could go into a branch (probably need an appointment, assuming you can get one....) and show the will and death certificate, possibly your parent's marriage certificate and other proof your mom's his wife. Frankly I can't see why any bank would NOT consider this as a bereavement case as that's precisely what it is.
fyi - if the PoA was for your dad it's not worth anything to you now. If it's for your mom then you could do everything without her attending with you - but best to ask when you make the appointments to avoid any issues.
When I mentioned PoA I was referring to hers (so many things to make clear in all this estate management business phrew!). But I don't want to invoke that just to close an account as they'll demand copies of the doc, we'll have to pay the solicitors - don't want to go there.1 -
waveyjane said:JGB1955 said:Presumably, if the accounts were originally joint accounts, they are now sole accounts in your mother's name. If there are cheque books for the accounts, can't she just write out a cheque to herself for the balance and pay it into an account of her choice (assuming she doesn't want to maintain the original accounts)?
Indeed, I've just visited a branch of one of the banks myself to ask. I think (but I'm not sure) she has the cheque books. So they said the path of least resistance would be:
1. Call customer service and explain that she only wants to hear the balance and a list of any DDs and SOs on the account. This should mean they don't have to do all the security app code stuff that will confuse her (not least as she doesn't have a mobile nor does she have any telephone banking).
2. Put the phone down and write a cheque to herself. Pay that into her own account.
If she doesn't have a cheque book, then she can try writing to the bank to close the account instead. But her wet ink signature needs to match that of their records. I think it might as she presumably would have have had to give them a signature when Dad opened it as a joint account.
BTW I hear what others are saying about not having large amounts sitting in current accounts etc. All that's in hand.#2 Saving for Christmas 2024 - £1 a day challenge. £325 of £3661 -
JGB1955 said:waveyjane said:JGB1955 said:Presumably, if the accounts were originally joint accounts, they are now sole accounts in your mother's name. If there are cheque books for the accounts, can't she just write out a cheque to herself for the balance and pay it into an account of her choice (assuming she doesn't want to maintain the original accounts)?
Indeed, I've just visited a branch of one of the banks myself to ask. I think (but I'm not sure) she has the cheque books. So they said the path of least resistance would be:
1. Call customer service and explain that she only wants to hear the balance and a list of any DDs and SOs on the account. This should mean they don't have to do all the security app code stuff that will confuse her (not least as she doesn't have a mobile nor does she have any telephone banking).
2. Put the phone down and write a cheque to herself. Pay that into her own account.
If she doesn't have a cheque book, then she can try writing to the bank to close the account instead. But her wet ink signature needs to match that of their records. I think it might as she presumably would have have had to give them a signature when Dad opened it as a joint account.
BTW I hear what others are saying about not having large amounts sitting in current accounts etc. All that's in hand.0 -
I think taking paperwork in to the bank and making an appointment might be the easier option if possible.My mother did that with my parents' business account as online and telephone attempts proved fruitless (they wouldn't deal with me despite being a director).May you find your sister soon Helli.
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