DebtDivorceDisaster

Jrcoal5

About 15 years ago I sat on our bedroom floor and cried, we had sold our house in the past to pay off debt, then bought another house and started again and guess what here I was again with about £45000 of debt thinking about having to sell the house again or even make myself bankrupt……in the end I asked my Dad for a loan which cleared a massive amount of the debt which all had interest being added to it at a rapid speed, paid him back every single penny and now we are on our last £7000 (2200 of this is for a sofa which is only a year old so new debt but budgeted for) all 0% interest and we have more savings that what we owe, it’s bloody hard and you have to do without things, but then you start to realise you don’t actually need those things anyway and then life becomes much simpler, keep going honestly it gets better xx

Jrcoal5

Snail30 said:

Thanks it has helped to hear some stories….if anyone know of anywhere to support with the none financial sode of divorce too, id appreciate it. 

Already down today i made the mistake of looking at social media…to find one of our oldest and who used to be closest had a baby shower today and i wasnt even invited….i heard yoh lose friends In divorce but this was a real low today, as well as feeling really lonely…..which is tough as i know all this is for the right reason 

You certainly do find out who your friends are in this situation, so sorry you have been let down, sending you a big hug and lots of love xx