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Savvy_Sue said:Ybe said:My boss said he was happy to give me a personal reference but I’m just a bit worried that if anyone asks for an HR reference, it might show that I was sacked or something.0
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What I’m worried about though is the manager who I reported to day to day (he works for a different employer - the joint venture partner). He was the one who my employer took my work performance feedback from. And if HR asks him for a reference, he might give a very bad reference. Or even HR might give me a bad reference based on what was in my letter0
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Ybe said:What I’m worried about though is the manager who I reported to day to day (he works for a different employer - the joint venture partner). He was the one who my employer took my work performance feedback from. And if HR asks him for a reference, he might give a very bad reference. Or even HR might give me a bad reference based on what was in my letter
Legally a reference must be true and not deliberately misleading (yes, with clever words it is possible give a very misleading picture without straying from the truth)!
Many firms, but not all by any means, limit themselves to giving only minimal "bare bones" type references. If that is your firm's policy then it may help.
Worse would be if they simply refuse to supply a reference or just ignore any request. That gives a terrible impression but is totally non actionable. If you push too hard there is a danger they may do that.
Then of course there is the "informal reference" over the phone or in the pub......0 -
Ybe said:What I’m worried about though is the manager who I reported to day to day (he works for a different employer - the joint venture partner). He was the one who my employer took my work performance feedback from. And if HR asks him for a reference, he might give a very bad reference. Or even HR might give me a bad reference based on what was in my letterFor your next job, is it likely to be a CV or application form? If you need to put referees down on either, then I would go with the manager who’s offered a reference for your current job plus one other. If they also want an HR reference after interview then there is a possibility that will be unhelpful. But I think that chance is slimmer than you think, and it’s on your mind because you’re having a really !!!!!! week.
You should never lie on CVs or in interviews but it’s fine to present things in a positive way. Reason for leaving: ‘Contract ended’. If probed, any company you interview for will understand that you had a permanent job but your contract was easy to end when the employer needed to reduce headcount significantly, to minimise redundancy payments.
Could you say “Yes I worked at X for Y months and unfortunately they downsized after losing a major client and those of us who had been there for less than two years were released first. While I was there I gained experience in Z and [positives]. I know I’m a good fit for this role because I especially like Z.
If you actually hate Z then ideally don’t apply for jobs with a lot of that but you can say things like ‘It was interesting to work in a job with a lot of Z, I believe I add most most value supporting the Z team with [favourite bit] where I really shine.’Fashion on the Ration
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Sarahspangles said:Ybe said:What I’m worried about though is the manager who I reported to day to day (he works for a different employer - the joint venture partner). He was the one who my employer took my work performance feedback from. And if HR asks him for a reference, he might give a very bad reference. Or even HR might give me a bad reference based on what was in my letterFor your next job, is it likely to be a CV or application form? If you need to put referees down on either, then I would go with the manager who’s offered a reference for your current job plus one other. If they also want an HR reference after interview then there is a possibility that will be unhelpful. But I think that chance is slimmer than you think, and it’s on your mind because you’re having a really !!!!!! week.
You should never lie on CVs or in interviews but it’s fine to present things in a positive way. Reason for leaving: ‘Contract ended’. If probed, any company you interview for will understand that you had a permanent job but your contract was easy to end when the employer needed to reduce headcount significantly, to minimise redundancy payments.
Could you say “Yes I worked at X for Y months and unfortunately they downsized after losing a major client and those of us who had been there for less than two years were released first. While I was there I gained experience in Z and [positives]. I know I’m a good fit for this role because I especially like Z.
If you actually hate Z then ideally don’t apply for jobs with a lot of that but you can say things like ‘It was interesting to work in a job with a lot of Z, I believe I add most most value supporting the Z team with [favourite bit] where I really shine.’0
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