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Friend's Will Has Expensive Unintended Consequence

My friend made his will 20 years ago, he has unfortunately died, and I am the executor. He left a large amount of money to his girlfriend (who has no living relatives), who was in excellent health when the will was made, but is now in a care home with stage 6 Alzheimer's disease. Her money has been spent paying for her care, which is now being paid for by social services. If the money is given to her, all that will happen is that it will be used to pay for her ongoing care. Her life won't change in any way.

I know my friend wanted to avoid paying for care. A few years ago, he had discussed with me in detail how to minimise the amount of his own money that would go to pay for care if he ever needed it (unfortunately, he died before that question ever arose). I am stone cold certain that he would have seen paying for his girlfriend's care as a waste.
Is it possible for me to do something different than exactly what his will states knowing that it would absolutely not be what he would have wanted if he had known the outcome?
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  • macman
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    edited 31 January 2023 at 11:33PM
    It is presumed that she does not have capacity to make a Deed of Variation, or perhaps someone has a PoA over her affairs if not?
    If so, all the beneficiaries have to agree to the variation.
    However, if she voluntarily surrenders her inheritance, then deprivation of assets would presumably apply?
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  • Keep_pedalling
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    You have no choice but to do as the will directs. As she has lost mental capacity her inheritance needs to be held in trust for her. Check with the LA if they have obtained deputyship for her.
  • Gavin83
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    As others have stated you have no choice than to execute the will as specified. If for whatever reason you decide not to do this then potentially the LA could sue you for the care home fees. Needless to say this could be a life changing sum of money.

    macman said:
    It is presumed that she does not have capacity to make a Deed of Variation, or perhaps someone has a PoA over her affairs if not?
    If so, all the beneficiaries have to agree to the variation.
    However, if she voluntarily surrenders her inheritance, then deprivation of assets would presumably apply?
    Whoever holds PoA wouldn't be able to authorise this anyway. They're obliged to act in the best interests of the individual and giving away a large sum of money to avoid care fees would almost certainly not be considered within their best interests.

    As you mentioned it would likely be considered deprivation of assets anyway.
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    Gavin83 said:
    As others have stated you have no choice than to execute the will as specified. If for whatever reason you decide not to do this then potentially the LA could sue you for the care home fees. Needless to say this could be a life changing sum of money.

    macman said:
    It is presumed that she does not have capacity to make a Deed of Variation, or perhaps someone has a PoA over her affairs if not?
    If so, all the beneficiaries have to agree to the variation.
    However, if she voluntarily surrenders her inheritance, then deprivation of assets would presumably apply?
    Whoever holds PoA wouldn't be able to authorise this anyway. They're obliged to act in the best interests of the individual and giving away a large sum of money to avoid care fees would almost certainly not be considered within their best interests.

    As you mentioned it would likely be considered deprivation of assets anyway.
    Would it not also be considered as an illegal act first.
  • Linton
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    edited 2 February 2023 at 9:59PM


    Ganga said:
    Gavin83 said:
    As others have stated you have no choice than to execute the will as specified. If for whatever reason you decide not to do this then potentially the LA could sue you for the care home fees. Needless to say this could be a life changing sum of money.

    macman said:
    It is presumed that she does not have capacity to make a Deed of Variation, or perhaps someone has a PoA over her affairs if not?
    If so, all the beneficiaries have to agree to the variation.
    However, if she voluntarily surrenders her inheritance, then deprivation of assets would presumably apply?
    Whoever holds PoA wouldn't be able to authorise this anyway. They're obliged to act in the best interests of the individual and giving away a large sum of money to avoid care fees would almost certainly not be considered within their best interests.

    As you mentioned it would likely be considered deprivation of assets anyway.
    Would it not also be considered as an illegal act first.

    Yes. 

    From a quick bit of research:

    Giving up an inheritance by Deed of Variation is equivalent in these circumstances to making a gift which would require the approval of the Court of Protection

    https://publicguardian.blog.gov.uk/2020/12/16/giving-gifts-as-an-attorney-or-deputy/ explicitly states that:

     Any gifts given should not impact on their ability to be able to pay for their care for the rest of their life and should be comfortably affordable. 

    Finally it should be noted that misuse of PoA is regarded seriously by the courts.  One particularly blatant case resulted in a 4.5 year jail sentance.
  • bobster2
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    Even if it was legally possible I'm wondering what alternative way of distributing the estate the OP was thinking of? They don't mention any other potential beneficiaries. If there were any financially dependent children I suppose they could take legal action if the will makes no provision for them. But the OP doesn't mention children.
  • Marcon
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    bobster2 said:
    Even if it was legally possible I'm wondering what alternative way of distributing the estate the OP was thinking of? They don't mention any other potential beneficiaries. If there were any financially dependent children I suppose they could take legal action if the will makes no provision for them. But the OP doesn't mention children.
    Doesn't matter what OP was thinking - he can't do anything but act in accordance with the content of the will. 
    Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!  
  • jackieblack
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    Marcon said:
    bobster2 said:
    Even if it was legally possible I'm wondering what alternative way of distributing the estate the OP was thinking of? They don't mention any other potential beneficiaries. If there were any financially dependent children I suppose they could take legal action if the will makes no provision for them. But the OP doesn't mention children.
    Doesn't matter what OP was thinking - he can't do anything but act in accordance with the content of the will. 
    Or renounce the obligation of being an/the executor
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