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Pension Payments after Death
tonynw
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why when you have lived with someone for over 30years does you pension die with you but is only paid to your partner if you have been married, this is so wrong to force people to have to get married to retain pension payments to your partner in the even of your death. why o they only accept that spouse payments only made if you get married.
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Depends on the pension scheme. Many DB schemes will pay to an unmarried partner living in a relationship 'akin to marriage' or where there is 'mutual financial dependency'. If your scheme doesn't do that, it's entirely up to you to decide whether or not to marry your long term partner - or to look at the possibility of transferring out to a DC arrangement. It's called freedom of choice.tonynw said:why when you have lived with someone for over 30years does you pension die with you but is only paid to your partner if you have been married, this is so wrong to force people to have to get married to retain pension payments to your partner in the even of your death. why o they only accept that spouse payments only made if you get married.
With DC arrangements, it's up to the individual member to decide what death benefits should be 'bought' with their pot (if buying an annuity), or to whom any remaining funds should be paid if they were in drawdown at the time of death, or hadn't started to access their pot.Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!0 -
As Marcon has said....
but be aware that it can be difficult to impossible to transfer out of a DB scheme as they are normally excellent value.
You may very well have an excellent reason for not getting married - still married to someone else for instance - in which case there's the potential that on death the DB scheme would pay to the legitimate albeit absent spouse rather than the person you choose to live with. Of course if you are both free and unattached legally you may want to consider civil partnership as I believe any scheme would accept that as spouse equivalent. But best to ask the scheme specifically.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Debt Free Wannabe, Old Style Money Saving and Pensions boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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Depends on the pension scheme. Many DB schemes ??????Marcon said:
Depends on the pension scheme. Many DB schemes will pay to an unmarried partner living in a relationship 'akin to marriage' or where there is 'mutual financial dependency'. If your scheme doesn't do that, it's entirely up to you to decide whether or not to marry your long term partner - or to look at the possibility of transferring out to a DC arrangement. It's called freedom of choice.tonynw said:why when you have lived with someone for over 30years does you pension die with you but is only paid to your partner if you have been married, this is so wrong to force people to have to get married to retain pension payments to your partner in the even of your death. why o they only accept that spouse payments only made if you get married.
With DC arrangements, it's up to the individual member to decide what death benefits should be 'bought' with their pot (if buying an annuity), or to whom any remaining funds should be paid if they were in drawdown at the time of death, or hadn't started to access their pot.
possibility of transferring out to a DC arrangement ??????
DB DC what do you mean ??0 -
Defined Benefittonynw said:
Depends on the pension scheme. Many DB schemes ??????Marcon said:
Depends on the pension scheme. Many DB schemes will pay to an unmarried partner living in a relationship 'akin to marriage' or where there is 'mutual financial dependency'. If your scheme doesn't do that, it's entirely up to you to decide whether or not to marry your long term partner - or to look at the possibility of transferring out to a DC arrangement. It's called freedom of choice.tonynw said:why when you have lived with someone for over 30years does you pension die with you but is only paid to your partner if you have been married, this is so wrong to force people to have to get married to retain pension payments to your partner in the even of your death. why o they only accept that spouse payments only made if you get married.
With DC arrangements, it's up to the individual member to decide what death benefits should be 'bought' with their pot (if buying an annuity), or to whom any remaining funds should be paid if they were in drawdown at the time of death, or hadn't started to access their pot.
possibility of transferring out to a DC arrangement ??????
DB DC what do you mean ??
Defined Contribution
Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!0 -
mine has been paying my pension for the last 5 yrs so i assume it is to late to transfer it anyway ?Marcon said:
Defined Benefittonynw said:
Depends on the pension scheme. Many DB schemes ??????Marcon said:
Depends on the pension scheme. Many DB schemes will pay to an unmarried partner living in a relationship 'akin to marriage' or where there is 'mutual financial dependency'. If your scheme doesn't do that, it's entirely up to you to decide whether or not to marry your long term partner - or to look at the possibility of transferring out to a DC arrangement. It's called freedom of choice.tonynw said:why when you have lived with someone for over 30years does you pension die with you but is only paid to your partner if you have been married, this is so wrong to force people to have to get married to retain pension payments to your partner in the even of your death. why o they only accept that spouse payments only made if you get married.
With DC arrangements, it's up to the individual member to decide what death benefits should be 'bought' with their pot (if buying an annuity), or to whom any remaining funds should be paid if they were in drawdown at the time of death, or hadn't started to access their pot.
possibility of transferring out to a DC arrangement ??????
DB DC what do you mean ??
Defined Contribution0 -
Yes, once your pension is in payment, that's it. If you do decide to get married, check your scheme's "post retirement marriage" rules so you know exactly how much your spouse would get in the event of your prior death.tonynw said:
mine has been paying my pension for the last 5 yrs so i assume it is to late to transfer it anyway ?Marcon said:
Defined Benefittonynw said:
Depends on the pension scheme. Many DB schemes ??????Marcon said:
Depends on the pension scheme. Many DB schemes will pay to an unmarried partner living in a relationship 'akin to marriage' or where there is 'mutual financial dependency'. If your scheme doesn't do that, it's entirely up to you to decide whether or not to marry your long term partner - or to look at the possibility of transferring out to a DC arrangement. It's called freedom of choice.tonynw said:why when you have lived with someone for over 30years does you pension die with you but is only paid to your partner if you have been married, this is so wrong to force people to have to get married to retain pension payments to your partner in the even of your death. why o they only accept that spouse payments only made if you get married.
With DC arrangements, it's up to the individual member to decide what death benefits should be 'bought' with their pot (if buying an annuity), or to whom any remaining funds should be paid if they were in drawdown at the time of death, or hadn't started to access their pot.
possibility of transferring out to a DC arrangement ??????
DB DC what do you mean ??
Defined Contribution
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As above each DB pension scheme have their own specific rules on this type of issue, so you need to find a copy of the scheme rules, or ask them a direct question on the subject.tonynw said:
mine has been paying my pension for the last 5 yrs so i assume it is to late to transfer it anyway ?Marcon said:
Defined Benefittonynw said:
Depends on the pension scheme. Many DB schemes ??????Marcon said:
Depends on the pension scheme. Many DB schemes will pay to an unmarried partner living in a relationship 'akin to marriage' or where there is 'mutual financial dependency'. If your scheme doesn't do that, it's entirely up to you to decide whether or not to marry your long term partner - or to look at the possibility of transferring out to a DC arrangement. It's called freedom of choice.tonynw said:why when you have lived with someone for over 30years does you pension die with you but is only paid to your partner if you have been married, this is so wrong to force people to have to get married to retain pension payments to your partner in the even of your death. why o they only accept that spouse payments only made if you get married.
With DC arrangements, it's up to the individual member to decide what death benefits should be 'bought' with their pot (if buying an annuity), or to whom any remaining funds should be paid if they were in drawdown at the time of death, or hadn't started to access their pot.
possibility of transferring out to a DC arrangement ??????
DB DC what do you mean ??
Defined Contribution0 -
why when you have lived with someone for over 30years does you pension die with you but is only paid to your partner if you have been married, this is so wrong to force people to have to get married to retain pension payments to your partner in the even of your death. why o they only accept that spouse payments only made if you get married.To be clear, that is only the case with a certain type of pensions and not all pensions. And the reason is obvious.
A defined benefit scheme is a range of defined benefits. Those benefits cost money. So, the scheme works out how much it costs and then charges the company. The company then agrees how much members are going to pay into it.
DB schemes are generations old. Back in the day when people got married and didn't "live in sin".
If you start increasing the benefits, the costs go up and members need to pay more.
HOWEVER, schemes do vary. Some have opened up the range of relationships they accept. Civil partnerships are accepted by all. Some consider financially linked unmarried couples. However, they need to be on guard for the 75 year old male who claims he has an 18 year old partner.
DB schemes are usually a lot better than the equivalent cost of a DC scheme. So, if death benefits are a concern when you have a DB scheme then take out a life assurance. You will still be much better off in many cases.
I am an Independent Financial Adviser (IFA). The comments I make are just my opinion and are for discussion purposes only. They are not financial advice and you should not treat them as such. If you feel an area discussed may be relevant to you, then please seek advice from an Independent Financial Adviser local to you.3 -
I understand all the answers are for private pensions but I am half thinking the OP ls talking about state pensionmake the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
and we will never, ever return.0 -
The state pension is not inheritable so it sounds to me like the OP was referring to a defined benefit pension and not the state pension or a personal/private pension.1
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