Some friends and I booked to stay in a nice house over New Year's, with me the only single person going. At the last minute, another couple joined us, and it was decided that they'd get my double room overlooking a lake as they're a couple, and I'd sleep on the sofa bed in the TV room as I'm single. I didn't want to kick off about it and spoil the stay, and I did have a good time, but since then no one has mentioned compensating me for not getting the room I paid for. Should I say something
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Money Moral Dilemma: Should I pay less after friends gave me a worse room at our New Year's getaway?

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It sounds to me like you've been treated a bit lousily by your friends and taken advantage of, along the lines of, "Oh, he/she won't mind." You paid for a double room overlooking the lake but you didn't get it, and I think your friends should club together and give you a partial refund.
If it was me and I'd been treated so shabbily, like some sort of convenience because you're single and they're all couples, I'd certainly think first before going away with them again.
It is difficult to ask for money, but you certainly have the right if you feel comfortable doing so. Especially as the two late comers would have chipped into the cost at the last minute, so you aren't taking additional money from others.
I think it is more important, after the event, to gently point out that being expected to be relegated to a sofa in a communal room, when you booked assuming you would have a private room, just because you are a single person, is demeaning and unfair.
State that you do not want to be placed in this situation again. You are not the spare.
You could speak to someone in the group who is more empathetic first.
I would be looking to get new "friends"