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good to have you back FG. I’ve been productive this morning making beetroot chutney . I cheated and used ready cooked beetroot, to go along with some apples I was gifted on Olio. Also collected lettuce, mini cucumbers, bananas (for banana bread) and lots of veg & bag of potatoes. That will supplement our food supply this week.Lots of laundry done today, and the sun is just starting to shine 👍
Leftovers from last nights meal for tea tonight, so time for a knitting hour before we eat.Not a no spend day, as I noticed someone had a discount on sock pattern I wanted to support, so treat myself to that. The designers are lovely ladies who donate lots of their income to charities.6 -
I feel the same as you @foxgloves. I have the same birthday in a year as I am 59 next week. I had the experience of losing my only sister 2 years ago. She had a brain tumour. I see how close you are with your sister and it reminds me of mine to be honest, but in lots of good ways as well as with sadness. It seems a cliche but I feel that every year is a privilege. I am now older than she was when she died so I'm not too worried at hitting another decade - looking forward to it to be honest. It will bring retirement for me at some point - as yet undecided as I love my job - and lots of other opportunities I'm sure. Mr L is already retired but that works well (a bit like you and Mr F in reverse - he took redundancy and took over the house - it definitely reflects our respective skills).
L x12 -
Am now picturing your car in a cafè sipping a coffee and telling a pal 'the stress I've been having!'
Looking forward to hearing what you decide for the trellis7 -
@marionmgcars - That was a good haul on the Olio!
@PennysIntoPounds - Well, the car had its first appointment today & there was some good news, which I will include in today's diary update.
@Less_Talk_and_More_Action - Yes, I can understand that losing your sister has made you regard getting older as a privilege she wasn't able to enjoy. I only have 1 sister & would miss her enormously if anything happened to her, even though we live a long distance apart & don't see each other often. We are a very small family. Our parents are no longer with us & Mr F & I don't have children. My sister has 2 boys so I do have nephews, whom I love to see. I have no cousins, as both my parents had no siblings. Re the privilege of getting older being denied to people we care about. I lost a dear friend at the age of 52. We'd known each other since university, met up regularly, as well as writing letters monthly. Her birthday was exactly 1 month to the exact day after mine, so we always joked about me hitting the big landmark birthdays first......until we didn't. She sadly died, so I reached the grand old age of 53 & she didn't follow with her birthday. She didn't have cancer or meet with an accident, she simply came home from work feeling ill, went to bed & didn't wake up again. So I do see where you are coming from, in that it doesn't behove one to fret about being 60 when people like my lovely, funny friend, who was (unlike me), a keen walker & twice-weekly gym-goer, didn't get to have the chance to make it to the same landmark. Difficult as it sometimes is, we don't know what's round the corner & should try to make the most of every day.
F x2025's challenges: 1) To fill our 10 Savings Pots to their healthiest level ever
2) To read 100 books (46/100) 3) The Shrinking of Foxgloves 8.1kg/30kg
"Life can only be understood backwards but it must be lived forwards" (Soren Kirkegaard 1813-55)15 -
Well, after a lovely week away on the coast for my birthday & the bank holiday weekend, it was time for Mr F to return to work this morning. Neither of us awoke feeling particularly bright-eyed & bushy tailed thanks to Soot's nocturnal shenanigans which resulted in me being out in the garden in my nightie at 2.20 & again 10 minus later! He has got around his own lack of sleep by snoozing in an armchair all bloody day whereas Mr F had to have an early start & I had got a lot more planned than I've actually done, grrrr.
Anyway, that's a digression, so onto today's small budget-helping things:
*Not quite as much ironing as anticipated so it wasn't plugged in for all that long. 3 garments went straight into my winter clothes storage bag so pointless ironing those, & there were 3 of Mr F's cruddy gardening items which don't need pressing either.
*Did belated Monday morning budget updates & it was good to see that we were just a little under target for Week 2's grocery shopping. Hope it continues for Weeks 3 to 5!
*Good car news first thing! Mr F called in at the garage as arranged for them to remove the locked info-tainment screen & send it off to Milton Keynes where we were told it would defo have to go to be unlocked & re-set. However, when he got to the garage, they had procured some info from the MK end of things & 'tried something', which unlocked the screen without it having to be removed & sent off. The best thing was that the quote on the MK solution was £120, but the garage staff in a neighbouring town did it for free. As I had already put the money aside, I was delighted to be able to reallocate it to the Clothes, Presents & Leisure/Entertainment Pots.
*Free fitness session trying out a 'Get fit with Rick' walking video. Spent most of it feeling glad I wasn't wherever he was, as it looked terribly hot! Didn't get puffed out. Either I am slightly less shockingly unfit than I think I am or I didn't put in sufficient effort. It was only 15 minutes. I felt I probably required 30, but will do this one for another fortnight or so to see how I feel giving it a bit more welly.
*Did a few surveys.
*Sorted out the triffid rhubarb as I could see it had developed a problem. Delved right underneath & discovered that with all the rain we have had over the past few months, there has been rotting & as stems have gone soggy, they have flopped down onto & around the crown & caused a general rhubarby sludginess. Cleared that away & composted, then harvested plenty of good stems......
*Made a base for a large rhubarb crumble for the freezer - I think we are due a nephews visit over summer so it will make a good dessert with some nice ice-cream. Another kg macerating in sugar with root ginger ready to make rhubarb & ginger gin.
*More sleeve knitting.
*Made tomorrow's packed breakfast & lunch.
Right, time to get myself moving.
F x2025's challenges: 1) To fill our 10 Savings Pots to their healthiest level ever
2) To read 100 books (46/100) 3) The Shrinking of Foxgloves 8.1kg/30kg
"Life can only be understood backwards but it must be lived forwards" (Soren Kirkegaard 1813-55)8 -
Rick lives in Dubai. He likes the sound of his own voice doesn’t he 🤣
Good news about the screen being unlocked without having to send it away and paying for it.I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)6 -
That was very sad about your friend, even though a long time ago. Was it a brain bleed? Someone we knew collapsed in our garden 2yrs ago, suffered a brain bleed at age 47 & passed away, despite DH's & the neighbours efforts at CPR. Certainly puts your life in perspective.Making the debt go down and savings go up
LBM 2015 - debt £57K / Now £27,644....its going down
Mortgage Free December 9th 2024! 18mths ahead of schedule.Challenges
EF #68 £1000/£3000
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Studies/surveys December £86.68
Decluttering items 1400/2025
Books read 23
Jigsaws done 19
My debt free diary...https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6396218/we-will-get-this-debt-d£own-the-savings-up5 -
@Makingabobor2 - No, it was an infection. V sad.
F2025's challenges: 1) To fill our 10 Savings Pots to their healthiest level ever
2) To read 100 books (46/100) 3) The Shrinking of Foxgloves 8.1kg/30kg
"Life can only be understood backwards but it must be lived forwards" (Soren Kirkegaard 1813-55)7 -
Thanks for the reminder - I must bottle my rhubarb and ginger vodka. (Have a feeling I said similar on someone else’s thread recently but still haven’t done it!)Mortgage free 16/06/2023! £132,500 cleared in 11 years, 3 months and 7 days
'Now is no time to think of what you do not have. Think of what you can do with what there is.' Ernest Hemingway4 -
Hello Sunbeams,
Fab sunshine here today, but well within my heat tolerance. Have been generally busy pottering about - today's money saving bits & pieces as follows:
*Added gin to overnight macerated rhubarb/sugar/ginger mix. Was 100ml short of the amount required for recipe, so instead of buying another bottle of much cheaper own-label (but still £15), I made up the difference with 100ml of my gin of choice. I shall doubtless be drinking plenty of the finished product. It will also provide a couple of presents as I've saved some small bottles.
*Started meals plans for next week, just need to get Mr F's input for his cooking nights.
*Started shopping list for town on Saturday.
*Did veg maintenance - watering mostly today as well as standing the outdoor tomatoes outside again. Some of them are already in bud. They are desperate to go outside, but I am giving them a little longer while I assess any ill effects on the couple which have been left out overnight since the weekend (like those poor canaries down the mines).
*Didn't fancy stepping with Rick this morning, so today's fitness has pretty much just been endless trips up & down the garden & a decent weeding session.
*Planted out another 2 trays of summer bedding. Hardened off & has survived a couple of frosts so I'm going for it as they (nemophilia 5-spot) are well ready to come out of their modules now.
*Made tomorrow's packed lunch & breakfast.
*Knitted a few more rows of sleeve & will get more done tonight while watching TV.
*A good often-used use-it-up recipe tonight - tamale pie. Feeds 2 people well on just 100g mince. I have chopped peppers in the freezer, half a tin of leftover cannellini beans, some of our home grown bottled tomatoes, other veg from stores & the cornbread topping is all store cupboard ingredients plus a tiny bit of milk & an egg. A Patrick Holford recipe - but much adapted with whatever veg I have to hand & have also made with lamb mince & quorn mince. Mr F has requested shredded spring greens stir-fried with garlic with his, which is just as well, as there are plenty of them for using up & that's what he was getting anyway!
*Did a couple of surveys, but not spending long on those today as have another job to do in the garden. My May PA earnings are currently at £28-11 (largely because I cashed out pre-holiday) so I am thinking I ought to meet my monthly target of £40.
And.....that garden job I'm just off to do is to plant out some autumn-sown hollyhocks, which were grown from saved seed, so that's defo a saving on buying a similar 5 from a garden centre.
Not money saving, but if I type it out, I will hopefully remember it.......it is cat flea treatment night, so we will doubtless be ignored until at least tomorrow morning.
Take care all,
F x2025's challenges: 1) To fill our 10 Savings Pots to their healthiest level ever
2) To read 100 books (46/100) 3) The Shrinking of Foxgloves 8.1kg/30kg
"Life can only be understood backwards but it must be lived forwards" (Soren Kirkegaard 1813-55)8
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