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she died at 31 years old

my beautiful, clever and talented daughter died on the 1/11/22, with us by her side and holding her hand.  we cannot begin to describe our loss. for all who have lost a loved one, we know how you feel. our lives will never be the same. god bless xx

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  • MrsCatz
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    So sorry for your loss.
  • silvercar
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    SO sorry to read your sad news.
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  • Torry_Quine
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    There are no words I can say to ease the pain. I'm so sorry.
    Lost my soulmate so life is empty.

    I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
    Diana Gabaldon, Outlander
  • Magnolia
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    There really are no words that can comfort.  I lost my husband on the 18th November.  I feel your pain.
    Mags - who loves shopping
  • Pennylane
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    Truly sorry to read your sad news.  May your lovely daughter now Rest in Peace. 
  • Silvertabby
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    I'm so sorry. 
  • I'm so sorry to see your devastating news. 
  • SevenOfNine
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    middlesis said:
    my beautiful, clever and talented daughter died on the 1/11/22, with us by her side and holding her hand.  we cannot begin to describe our loss. for all who have lost a loved one, we know how you feel. our lives will never be the same. god bless xx
    I am so very sorry. There are no words of comfort I can offer I'm afraid, cancer stole my own son, aged 35, 7 years ago next month, it still feels like only yesterday & I expect it always will.

    Perhaps I can direct you to a very helpful website if you haven't already found it. There is advice & leaflets, a telephone helpline, & links to forums & facebook pages. 

    It isn't a religious site, & locked specifically for bereaved parents, grandparents & siblings, no others. You do have to register to access it all, but you do NOT have to pay membership to join, there is no obligatory cost. There are monthly meetings held nationally & the various (sub divided) FaceBook pages are strictly private, what you post there cannot be seen anywhere else.

    I hope if you find the energy to take a look, you will find some comfort from being amongst others who walk in your torturous shoes.

    https://www.tcf.org.uk

    Seen it all, done it all, can't remember most of it.
  • Sorry for your loss
  • Stubod
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    edited 31 December 2022 at 10:08PM
    ...gutted for you, puts lifes other "problems" into perspective...cannot imagine how you must be feeling.....
    .."It's everybody's fault but mine...."
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