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Retirement - Live Life or Penny Pinch

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  • SarahB16
    SarahB16 Posts: 456 Forumite
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    For those with dc pensions it definitely is a conundrum, so many variables. Personally I will front load my spending, if I get to 85 and run out of money so be it. I'm starting to enter my twilight years, 58 soon so need to make the most of it, never know when the grim reaper is going to turn up

    Very true, we never know that and we really should take advantage of our GP services if we can get an appointment and get our blood pressure, cholesterol, etc, checked.  Perhaps invest in a smart watch too.  

    Any unexpected bleeding or pain that hasn't gone away after a fortnight make an appointment with your GP and don't put it down to just getting old.  
  • Albermarle
    Albermarle Posts: 29,068 Forumite
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    MikeJXE said:
    You will live as long as you allow yourself to live. I'm not rich by any means but not poor either. I lost my wife 10 years ago, lived in Gran Canaria for 18 months from 2016. In my life I have had many holidays and did mostly what my wife wanted to do, now it's all about me. 4 years ago I decided what my life was going to be like, I built a spreadsheet comparing if I sold and bought and if I sold and rented, how long would my money last that was the question. 4 years ago I sold £150,000 in the bank and rented, My spreadsheet tells me I could live how I want to for another 30 years, I'm 82 now and in reasonably good health, so last Christmas because I don't need it i gave my 2 kids and 4 grandkids £10,000 each and the look on their faces was priceless. I am very happy in doing what I do on my state pension and whats left of my savings, I do not have a worry in the world. My friend age 78 and loaded is worried sick on what life is costing, trying to save every penny for when he dies. Worried about his health, still worried about covid. I tell him he is shortening his life by worrying and I am more likely to go to his funeral than him to mine. Talk up your life not think of dying
    My only issue with this would be the rented bit. There is always the possibility you maybe turfed out by the landlord at some stage . There are plenty of stories of older people having to move at regular intervals and hating the lack of security. Otherwise you have a good philosophy .
  • 400ixl
    400ixl Posts: 4,482 Forumite
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    Whilst you can't spend it when you are dead, living in poverty because you spent it all is no life and a lot more painful.

    Get the balance right in the first place and retire when you can really afford to.
  • 400ixl said:
    Whilst you can't spend it when you are dead, living in poverty because you spent it all is no life and a lot more painful.

    Get the balance right in the first place and retire when you can really afford to.
    True, but then many people on here don't agree on what poverty means.

    I think we can all agree that living homeless on the streets would not be much fun, but personally, if I had a roof over my head and food on my table then I could do without many of life's luxuries.  Where as many couldn't possibly live without a car, meals out and a holiday every year.

    People just have to plan for what they think will make them happy and hope for the best.  Whether that might be retiring as early as possible, or doing a few more years to avoid the possibility of not being able to afford a new sofa when they are 93.
    Think first of your goal, then make it happen!
  • MikeJXE
    MikeJXE Posts: 3,902 Forumite
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    400ixl said:
    Whilst you can't spend it when you are dead, living in poverty because you spent it all is no life and a lot more painful.

    Get the balance right in the first place and retire when you can really afford to.
    True, but then many people on here don't agree on what poverty means.

    I think we can all agree that living homeless on the streets would not be much fun, but personally, if I had a roof over my head and food on my table then I could do without many of life's luxuries.  Where as many couldn't possibly live without a car, meals out and a holiday every year.

    People just have to plan for what they think will make them happy and hope for the best.  Whether that might be retiring as early as possible, or doing a few more years to avoid the possibility of not being able to afford a new sofa when they are 93.
    Lol you are so right in fact most people today don't know what poetry is. Born 1940 end of the war, no money little food but a roof over our heads, happy as Larry because we didn't know any different. 
  • MikeJXE
    MikeJXE Posts: 3,902 Forumite
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    MikeJXE said:
    Lol you are so right in fact most people today don't know what poetry is.
    I wandered lonely a a cloud.... ;-)

    Oops typo lol
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