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Neighbours Death

Surfbabe
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Last week we found our neighbour dead. He has only his elderly mother (83) who lives approximately 70 miles away.
He lived in rented accommodation, has no assets apart from the contents of his house and a bank account.He didn't leave a will, only an expression of wishes for his funeral.
So far my husband and I have been dealing with everything on behalf of his mum and we havent done anything that she hasn't agreed to be done.
It would appear that she doesn't need Probate or Letters of Administration but can just have a personal representative.
Can anyone help and advise if this is the case and whether she can nominate myself to to this ? If so does she have to see a solicitor or can she just provide a letter. I will be registering the death.
Been going round in circles on various websites etc.
Thank you very much for any help
He lived in rented accommodation, has no assets apart from the contents of his house and a bank account.He didn't leave a will, only an expression of wishes for his funeral.
So far my husband and I have been dealing with everything on behalf of his mum and we havent done anything that she hasn't agreed to be done.
It would appear that she doesn't need Probate or Letters of Administration but can just have a personal representative.
Can anyone help and advise if this is the case and whether she can nominate myself to to this ? If so does she have to see a solicitor or can she just provide a letter. I will be registering the death.
Been going round in circles on various websites etc.
Thank you very much for any help
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Slightly different circumstances but we didn't have probate for either FiL's or MiL's deaths. No solicitors involved at any point as they had simple mirror wills (leaving everything to the other) with my OH as the final beneficiary. So all straight forward. When MiL died all she had was some bank accounts, none of which had a fortune in them and all going to OH.
Obviously it's much more ordinary to have a next of kin registering the death but I've no reason to think you can't do it particularly if his mom provides a letter of instruction. Might be handy to have her include some sort of ID - something traceable like a passport, driving license or a blue badge would be great. But lots of people die with no kin of any sort and friends and neighbours have often picked up all the leg work so I doubt the registrar would be very surprised.
Frankly I'd call the registrar to make an appointment and ask what they require given your circumstances. They are very nice and understanding individuals who are used to coping with people at a dreadful point in their lives and will almost certainly be willing to help guide you better than any website. Ensure you have contact details for mom if she's going to become the first point of contact for all the government stuff - we've been getting letters from the local council about local taxes and from HMRC about income tax as well as DWP for other benefits. All of this has been generated by the "tell us once" service that is initiated at the registrar.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Debt Free Wannabe and Old Style Money Saving boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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Thank you . I've already spoken to the registrars and have sorted about registering the death so that isn't a problem.
What I really want to know is does his mum need to provide us with anything if we deal with his bank, landlady, emptying the house etc - lots of stuff to go to an auction house and be sold OR does she have to deal with it all. Just trying to make life a little easier for her really. Probate and letters of Administration are not needed. Its the Personal Representative bit I'm not sure about
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Who is the next of kin after his mother? Are you sure there is no-one else?
If the estate is potentially insolvent after funeral costs etc have been paid, then you would be best advised not to get involved, beyond registering the death. Do you know the approx balance in the bank?
The nearest surviving relative would normally be the Administrator/PR, but it would be possible for her to grant you a POA to act on her behalf. if needed.No free lunch, and no free laptop1 -
Personal representative means that you have letters of administration.
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Can I just say,Surfbabe, what a kind thing you are doing,to make it a bit easier for.his elderly mother.Not everyone would step in and do what they can like you are both doing.There are still nice people in this world.5
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Jacob_Jones said:Surfbabe said:Thank you . I've already spoken to the registrars and have sorted about registering the death so that isn't a problem.
What I really want to know is does his mum need to provide us with anything if we deal with his bank, landlady, emptying the house etc - lots of stuff to go to an auction house and be sold OR does she have to deal with it all. Just trying to make life a little easier for her really. Probate and letters of Administration are not needed. Its the Personal Representative bit I'm not sure about
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Jacob_Jones said:Surfbabe said:Thank you . I've already spoken to the registrars and have sorted about registering the death so that isn't a problem.
What I really want to know is does his mum need to provide us with anything if we deal with his bank, landlady, emptying the house etc - lots of stuff to go to an auction house and be sold OR does she have to deal with it all. Just trying to make life a little easier for her really. Probate and letters of Administration are not needed. Its the Personal Representative bit I'm not sure about
Thank you
I would be cautious when it comes to clearing other people's chattels.
Do you know a reputable house clearence company that is used to dealing with this situation?
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macman said:Who is the next of kin after his mother? Are you sure there is no-one else?
If the estate is potentially insolvent after funeral costs etc have been paid, then you would be best advised not to get involved, beyond registering the death. Do you know the approx balance in the bank?
The nearest surviving relative would normally be the Administrator/PR, but it would be possible for her to grant you a POA to act on her behalf. if needed.
No idea as to balance in bank -he did everything on line and everything is face id ( quite righty so).
just trying to see if it is feasible for us to act for her as she lives away away and is elderly. She trusts us to do everything correctly and we have kept her informed of everything we have done so far.0 -
You can apply for the LOA grant using the POA option.
not clear it will be needed.
If you have space clear the rental to get that cost terminated.
How much effort for nothing in return are you happy are you happy to do?0
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