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Post Stroke Financial Assistance

In August one week after receiving her first state pension payment my wife had a stroke, she is still in a rehab unit but expected to be discharge home end of November, where she will require permanent help with dressing and toileting and even standing and I will have to give up my job to look after her. I'm told there is no benefit available until February (6 months rule) when she could claim attendance allowance, and then I could claim carers allowance BUT only until I get my state pension in May. She needs a stair lift, bathroom converted, standing aids, adjustable bed. Is there any financial help with this? In addition she cannot access the car and I will need to buy a larger one to get her about. However again I am told she cannot get a Motability Car because she's a pensioner. Does the government think pensioners don't need to go out?  There is a lot of information on the web but much of it is confusing and I've tried almost every day to get through to CAB. Can anyone point me in the right direction.

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