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RE: Tenants old Mail

PierremontQuaker03
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HI all, thanks for looking. I am selling my house, which has previously been rented. The sale is going through and the house is empty. I have noticed I am getting lots of mail from Santander from a previous tenant - she must have left the house over 3 years ago. Anyway I opened one of the letters and it was a loan - only a small amount - but it had recently been taken out. I have email the lady (with the email address I had for her at the time), I also have a forwarding address but I am not, after 3 years, going to forward the the mail, it should have been sorted out. Anyway, she has not responded to the email (I was not surprised, due to the sort of person she is - she left the house with issues, which I did not charge her for, because I was too soft).
What are my options here? I could go to her forwarding address and speak to her, or is there an alternative - say contact Santander (I have been returning the mail back to Santander saying "No longer at this address", but that has not worked). I know its only a minor issue, but I want it sorting out before the new home owner moves in.
What are my options here? I could go to her forwarding address and speak to her, or is there an alternative - say contact Santander (I have been returning the mail back to Santander saying "No longer at this address", but that has not worked). I know its only a minor issue, but I want it sorting out before the new home owner moves in.
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I used to cross out the address, write ‘not known at this address’ and pop them back into the post, in the spirit of good citizenship.
Can’t say it made a blind bit of difference though - still get letters through after 2 years. For right or wrong, they just go in the recycling bin, unopened, now.
If I were you, I’d do the same - don’t go harassing random women with potential mental health problems. Your buyer won’t care if they occasionally get mail for a person who isn’t them.‘When you only have two pennies left in the world, spend one on bread and the other on flowers. The bread will sustain life, the flowers will give you a reason to live.’Frugal living in 2024.
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You can't really do anything unfortunately. I'm still getting mail 2 years on, and keep returning it marked either "no longer at this address" or "addressee deceased" depending on who it's addressed to... and they're still coming. In fact I get around 25% of the marked letters back, even with the address crossed out
It has happened everywhere I've ever lived, so I think most people are used to it, annoying though it is£12k in 25 #14 £6,633.88/£18k 24 #14 £15,653.11/£18k 23 #14 £17,195.80/£18k 22 #20 £23,024.86/£23k1 -
If you mark the letter "Gone Away" or similar, and re-post it - it will go back to Santander and they will mark the account as 'suspicious'.
If it was an ordinary bank account, Santander might just block the account, and wait for the account holder to phone them to explain what's happened.
But Santander need to consider the possibility that it's a 'prankster' or 'angry partner' who's written "Gone Away", in order to cause hassle for the account owner.
However, as it's letters about a loan - Santander will also consider the possibility that the borrower is writing "Gone Away", in an attempt to avoid paying back the loan. So they might continue to send 'threatening letters'.
But overall, perhaps the best advice is to keep marking them "Gone Away" or similar and re-posting them - or just ignore them.
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"Gone Away" is a weird thing to write. It implies someone's on holiday, or spending some time at His Majesty's Pleasure."No longer at this address" is the norm.2
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newsgroupmonkey_ said:"Gone Away" is a weird thing to write. It implies someone's on holiday, or spending some time at His Majesty's Pleasure."No longer at this address" is the norm.
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user1977 said:newsgroupmonkey_ said:user1977 said:theartfullodger said:It is unlawful to open someone else's mail.There is, however, another line in the same law talking about opening mail not in your name."(3)A person commits an offence if, intending to act to a person's detriment and without reasonable excuse, he opens a postal packet which he knows or reasonably suspects has been incorrectly delivered to him"Royal Mail themselves say...."If you receive mail intended for another person, such as a previous owner, it should be returned by marking the envelope ‘Return to Sender’ and placing it in any postbox."As above though, is it to the detriment? It's a very grey area. I would very much doubt anyone would be prosecuted unless they were applying for loans or whatever0
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theartfullodger said:It is unlawful to open someone else's mail.
My experience of these matters is that the quality of glue on envelopes these days is terrible and it's amazing how many "fall open on the mat". 😇
I am sure it can be seen if inspected, but not noticeable if you are just going to put it back in a post box. Nothing wrong with opening mail, you will not get locked up.0 -
user1977 said:theartfullodger said:It is unlawful to open someone else's mail.
Others may hold alternative views.0 -
SecondStar said:I used to cross out the address, write ‘not known at this address’ and pop them back into the post, in the spirit of good citizenship.
Can’t say it made a blind bit of difference though - still get letters through after 2 years. For right or wrong, they just go in the recycling bin, unopened, now.
If I were you, I’d do the same - don’t go harassing random women with potential mental health problems. Your buyer won’t care if they occasionally get mail for a person who isn’t them.
Incidentally, I was plagued with junk mail addressed to the previous owner when I bought my flat. The couple seemed to have signed up to every nonsense catalogue and mailing list known to man, and didn't bother telling any of them. I started by sending things back, but eventually grew tired and took to throwing the stuff away unopened. It went on for years.1 -
newsgroupmonkey_ said:user1977 said:newsgroupmonkey_ said:user1977 said:theartfullodger said:It is unlawful to open someone else's mail.There is, however, another line in the same law talking about opening mail not in your name."(3)A person commits an offence if, intending to act to a person's detriment and without reasonable excuse, he opens a postal packet which he knows or reasonably suspects has been incorrectly delivered to him"Royal Mail themselves say...."If you receive mail intended for another person, such as a previous owner, it should be returned by marking the envelope ‘Return to Sender’ and placing it in any postbox."As above though, is it to the detriment? It's a very grey area. I would very much doubt anyone would be prosecuted unless they were applying for loans or whateverThat's Royal Mail guidance though, not the law.There is no legal requirement for the occupier of a property to do what RM suggest. If it has been delivered to the correct address, there is nothing unlawful about simply opening items of mail addressed to a person who no longer lives there.0
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