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Is it acceptable to address someone as "slacker" in the workplace?

Superfuse
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edited 17 September 2022 at 11:41AM in Employment, jobseeking & training
Is it acceptable to address someone as "slacker" in the workplace?

Is it acceptable to address someone as "slacker" in the workplace? 74 votes

Yes
21%
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No
47%
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Depends on the situation
31%
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  • Brie
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    No
    There's all sorts of ways to talk about someone's lack of motivation without resorting to being rude.  Doesn't matter if it's to their face or behind their back.
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  • elsien
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    edited 15 September 2022 at 6:10PM
    So being said as a joke, not to address performance issues or to pull someone up about something?  
    Or basically  telling you that you should be in your office, not in the corridor?
    All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.

    Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.
  • robatwork
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    Sounds like your team leader doesn't have the "appropriateness" chip installed. In this case it isn't acceptable, even more so that it's said without a smile. As your colleague got it too it's probably your TL's inept way of trying to ensure you stay focussed. 

    Tell them straight that you'd like them to stop using that particular term. If they don't then it's time to escalate.
  • No
    I clicked "no", not because I'm a sensitive Suzie, but because I have worked with people who get offended at the slightest thing, sometimes to avoid work. 

  • Superfuse said:
    I think you've probably hit the nail on the head. It's an insulting term. If productivity is an issue, there are better ways to address it.
    But is it true? If the boss is just trying to hurry people along, it's not a swear word.
  • Brie
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    No
    Superfuse said:

    I was addressed as slacker whenever seeing my boss outside of the office. I don't think I'm a slacker. Happy to test this! 🤣. Code of conduct; don't swear. It's a interesting approach.
    I'd be tempted to respond in kind calling him a made up derogatory term of your choice.  I like the work "twonk".  But if I decide to not be polite I might use something stronger but I know that would not be very helpful to me or my colleagues as I suspec the manager would pull me up on it not realising that he was being a twonk.
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  • prowla
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    It's probably not symptomatic of a motivational management style.
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