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Seller won’t break the chain!
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pinkteapot said:You may find that if you go so far as to pull out the seller may change their mind and sort temporary accommodation. If you pull out, they'll probably lose their new-build as they're unlikely to find a new buyer who can complete quickly enough. Depends on the new-build - if it's a really popular site the developer will have no qualms about selling to someone else.
But it depends whether you're genuinely prepared to pull out as the seller might just say "Ah, shame. Oh well, bye then."
If you absolutely don't want to rent (which is your call - nothing wrong with it), avoid chains involving new-builds as someone in those chains will often have to break it.
Emily is in a much stronger position than her seller.No reliance should be placed on the above! Absolutely none, do you hear?0 -
Not an option as we have 7m old baby! They have gone back on their word, not us.
We moved into my Mum's dining room for five weeks, as our sale and buy were not going to match up. Two children under 3 years, but mobile and all the 'stuff' that goes with. I packed up our whole house on my own (hubby working all hours) with two mobile children under 3 years and it went into storage. Fortunately, all went to plan and new house had integral appliances as the removal co. couldn't deliver all our worldly goods until five days after completion. I then unpacked the vast majority, on my own with two mobile children under 3 years.
I'm sorry, harsh, but if I can do it with two very small children, why can't you do it with one baby? Any family nearby? Look on the AirBNB website. Not helpful that the sellers renegaded but as others have said, that's the risk with a new build.10 -
The person who holds the power is the person who is least fussed about the chain collapsing. You say you can't move into rented with a small baby, are you expecting your buyers to wait and move with a small child of their own?You pretty much have three choices - wait for your seller and hope that your buyers don't pull out, break the chain yourself and move into rented (maybe look at other properties), or threaten to pull out if your sellers don't break the chain. Or you could tell your sellers that you will break the chain and go into rented but you will be reducing your offer to recover the costs of moving twice etc.But that goes back to the idea of the person who is least fussed about the sale holding all the cards.1
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thegreenone said:Not an option as we have 7m old baby! They have gone back on their word, not us.
We moved into my Mum's dining room for five weeks, as our sale and buy were not going to match up. Two children under 3 years, but mobile and all the 'stuff' that goes with. I packed up our whole house on my own (hubby working all hours) with two mobile children under 3 years and it went into storage. Fortunately, all went to plan and new house had integral appliances as the removal co. couldn't deliver all our worldly goods until five days after completion. I then unpacked the vast majority, on my own with two mobile children under 3 years.
I'm sorry, harsh, but if I can do it with two very small children, why can't you do it with one baby? Any family nearby? Look on the AirBNB website. Not helpful that the sellers renegaded but as others have said, that's the risk with a new build.This. Our sellers did something similar and our buyers threatened to pull out. So we exchanged with our buyers on a 4 week exchange. Told the sellers they had three choices: exchange and match the completion date, withdraw from the sale or we would go into rented and reduce our offer to cover the costs of a 6 month rental.We don't have children but we do have two cats and lots of landlords won't take pets. But I wasn't prepared to lose my buyers and was prepared to lose the purchase.3 -
GDB2222 said:emily451 said:DE_612183 said:New Builds to sometimes tend to over-run - it's something you should bear in mind when there is one in the chain.
What are you expecting your seller to do between end of September and November - bearing in mind this could be as little as 4/5 weeks?I expect them to find alternative accommodation as why should we wait any longer? They have been pushing for us to exchange for weeks and wouldn’t discuss completion and as the chain hasn’t stood for it, they’re now going against their word.
If she has already exchanged contracts to buy her new build, which is highly likely, that would then leave her in a very, very difficult position, as she won't find a new buyer able to complete by November. When she realises the bind she is in, she might agree to break the chain as originally promised.1 -
Flugelhorn said:GDB2222 said:emily451 said:DE_612183 said:New Builds to sometimes tend to over-run - it's something you should bear in mind when there is one in the chain.
What are you expecting your seller to do between end of September and November - bearing in mind this could be as little as 4/5 weeks?I expect them to find alternative accommodation as why should we wait any longer? They have been pushing for us to exchange for weeks and wouldn’t discuss completion and as the chain hasn’t stood for it, they’re now going against their word.
If she has already exchanged contracts to buy her new build, which is highly likely, that would then leave her in a very, very difficult position, as she won't find a new buyer able to complete by November. When she realises the bind she is in, she might agree to break the chain as originally promised.1 -
DE_612183 said:Flugelhorn said:GDB2222 said:emily451 said:DE_612183 said:New Builds to sometimes tend to over-run - it's something you should bear in mind when there is one in the chain.
What are you expecting your seller to do between end of September and November - bearing in mind this could be as little as 4/5 weeks?I expect them to find alternative accommodation as why should we wait any longer? They have been pushing for us to exchange for weeks and wouldn’t discuss completion and as the chain hasn’t stood for it, they’re now going against their word.
If she has already exchanged contracts to buy her new build, which is highly likely, that would then leave her in a very, very difficult position, as she won't find a new buyer able to complete by November. When she realises the bind she is in, she might agree to break the chain as originally promised.0 -
thegreenone said:Not an option as we have 7m old baby! They have gone back on their word, not us.
We moved into my Mum's dining room for five weeks, as our sale and buy were not going to match up. Two children under 3 years, but mobile and all the 'stuff' that goes with. I packed up our whole house on my own (hubby working all hours) with two mobile children under 3 years and it went into storage. Fortunately, all went to plan and new house had integral appliances as the removal co. couldn't deliver all our worldly goods until five days after completion. I then unpacked the vast majority, on my own with two mobile children under 3 years.
I'm sorry, harsh, but if I can do it with two very small children, why can't you do it with one baby? Any family nearby? Look on the AirBNB website. Not helpful that the sellers renegaded but as others have said, that's the risk with a new build.1 -
emily451 said:pinkteapot said:You can't force the seller to break the chain. If they flat-out refuse, your only options are to exchange with completion on notice or to pull out.1
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Of course you can move to something temporary with a baby, why on Earth not?It’s not ideal, but easily do able.2
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