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Can the council rehome
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This may be a long term commitment though, so no point not taking this into consideration.macman said:
He's only just retired, no mention of him requiring care in the near future.CKhalvashi said:The other thing that would worry me in this situation would be care costs.
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bravolima said:
I am looking to give him the money to buy it and have it left in back to me in his will to make sure he can continue to live there.
Assuming your dad isn't getting a mortgage, you could lend him the money, rather than give (gift) it to him. For example, it could be an interest free loan that's repayable on his death.
You could even put a charge on the house, if you want extra security.
That way, even if he says in his will that he's leaving his entire estate to a cat's home (or to somebody he meets on the internet), you'll get your money back.
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If you give him the money to buy it then it will be his house. To live in, to sell, whatever. And that includes being forced to sell if he needs to go into a care home. And none of that money will come back to you, no matter what he says in his will or what his intentions are.
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The OP says the money would be gifted on the expectation that it is left in his will. If in the future he needs care then they could take funds from the house, meaning there is nothing left to inherit.macman said:
He's only just retired, no mention of him requiring care in the near future.3 -
Thanks for the comments so far, nothing is final yet but to clear a few things up.
He still pays full rent and c-tax due to a pension draw down (but it wasn't a load of money). Only just retired, maybe works one day now and then, is in good health and the situation of the buying and the will is solid. We have a good relationship.
We understand that all maintenance costs etc would be his responsibility, the house is in reasonably good condition.
We were just worried that he may be forced to downsize as he doesn't want to move.0 -
They won’t force him, but in the future it may be a good option for him if for instance he developed mobility issues and could no longer manage the stairs. A smaller house would also be cheaper to rent and heat.0
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No, the bedroom tax wasn't a concern it was the number of bedrooms that I was concerned about and if they'd make him move. Thanks.Alderbank said:
Is your concern about the so-called bedroom tax?bravolima said:
We were just worried that he may be forced to downsize as he doesn't want to move.
People over pension age are exempt from it.0 -
Thanks for the info. I think he's stuck in his ways and enjoys where he lives and does want to move.Keep_pedalling said:They won’t force him, but in the future it may be a good option for him if for instance he developed mobility issues and could no longer manage the stairs. A smaller house would also be cheaper to rent and heat.
I can understand the views of people who talk about trying to make money from a council property but on the flip side my dad also sees it as an investment to pass on. He's not materialistic in the slightest but would like to 'pass on something' as there's nothing else to pass on. Bless him.0 -
My mother and step father were in a similar position, they stayed put until his health issues left him sleeping in the sitting room and his beloved garden started to run wild when they finally agreed to move to a LA bungalow in the same village.bravolima said:
Thanks for the info. I think he's stuck in his ways and enjoys where he lives and does want to move.Keep_pedalling said:They won’t force him, but in the future it may be a good option for him if for instance he developed mobility issues and could no longer manage the stairs. A smaller house would also be cheaper to rent and heat.
I can understand the views of people who talk about trying to make money from a council property but on the flip side my dad also sees it as an investment to pass on. He's not materialistic in the slightest but would like to 'pass on something' as there's nothing else to pass on. Bless him.
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