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Scam cleaned out my bank account

My son was contacted by phone by some scammers who said his bank (Starling) had just been bought and they made him part with his security details and cleaned out his bank account of over £10,000, his life savings. Starling say they can't take responsibility as my son gave out his security details. He's totally distraught. There's a 28-day period of investigation. 

Can anyone give some constructive advice on how/if we can get his money back?
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  • theoretica
    theoretica Posts: 12,691 Forumite
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    How old is your son?  I expect banks have a higher duty of care for minors.
    But a banker, engaged at enormous expense,
    Had the whole of their cash in his care.
    Lewis Carroll
  • [Deleted User]
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    It's very unlikely. Your best hope is that the bank are able to trace and recall some of the cash, but it tends not to stay in the receiving account for long.
  • pd1000
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    Thanks - he's 18. He's Aspergers too.
  • pd1000
    pd1000 Posts: 8 Forumite
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    Yes, the bank know and will let us know in 28 days. We are a quite distraught. 
  • pd1000 said:
    My son was contacted by phone by some scammers who said his bank (Starling) had just been bought and they made him part with his security details and cleaned out his bank account of over £10,000, his life savings. Starling say they can't take responsibility as my son gave out his security details. He's totally distraught. There's a 28-day period of investigation. 

    Can anyone give some constructive advice on how/if we can get his money back?
    I hope you can get some form of compensation because this is a horrible situation but I think the bank might well stick to their initial conclusion if he did provide his details over the phone, I've found banks are fairly clear in their communication that they would never call out of the blue and request account details. 
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  • xylophone
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    I think the bank might well stick to their initial conclusion if he did provide his details over the phone, 
    Perhaps not in view of his youth and in particular in view of his condition.

    Thanks - he's 18. He's Aspergers too.

    Anybody can fall prey to a convincing scammer - I know one very sophisticated and experienced  man who only avoided the trap by the skin of his teeth.

    A person with Asperger's ( the son of a lifelong friend has this condition), can be socially very naive and trusting and easily panicked.

    One would hope that the bank would take this into account.

  • Olinda99
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    Banks should really introduce a rule that you have to wait 24 hours before being able to make a payment of over (say) £500 to a newly set up payee.
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