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Scam cleaned out my bank account
pd1000
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My son was contacted by phone by some scammers who said his bank (Starling) had just been bought and they made him part with his security details and cleaned out his bank account of over £10,000, his life savings. Starling say they can't take responsibility as my son gave out his security details. He's totally distraught. There's a 28-day period of investigation.
Can anyone give some constructive advice on how/if we can get his money back?
Can anyone give some constructive advice on how/if we can get his money back?
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How old is your son? I expect banks have a higher duty of care for minors.
But a banker, engaged at enormous expense,Had the whole of their cash in his care.
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It's very unlikely. Your best hope is that the bank are able to trace and recall some of the cash, but it tends not to stay in the receiving account for long.0
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How many times have people been told ......banks don't ask for your security details over the phone, I'm sorry your son has been scammed but believing your bank has been sold with no notifications about it on his banking app should have been a big red flag5
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Thanks - he's 18. He's Aspergers too.2
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Have the bank been notified of the Aspergers? It may put you in a stronger position.5
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Yes, the bank know and will let us know in 28 days. We are a quite distraught.1
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I hope you can get some form of compensation because this is a horrible situation but I think the bank might well stick to their initial conclusion if he did provide his details over the phone, I've found banks are fairly clear in their communication that they would never call out of the blue and request account details.pd1000 said:My son was contacted by phone by some scammers who said his bank (Starling) had just been bought and they made him part with his security details and cleaned out his bank account of over £10,000, his life savings. Starling say they can't take responsibility as my son gave out his security details. He's totally distraught. There's a 28-day period of investigation.
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I think the bank might well stick to their initial conclusion if he did provide his details over the phone,Perhaps not in view of his youth and in particular in view of his condition.Thanks - he's 18. He's Aspergers too.
Anybody can fall prey to a convincing scammer - I know one very sophisticated and experienced man who only avoided the trap by the skin of his teeth.
A person with Asperger's ( the son of a lifelong friend has this condition), can be socially very naive and trusting and easily panicked.
One would hope that the bank would take this into account.
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Banks should really introduce a rule that you have to wait 24 hours before being able to make a payment of over (say) £500 to a newly set up payee.0
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Please don't make things even more difficult for normal people, because of a minority who can't handle their responsibilities (which perhaps they shouldn't have in the first place).Olinda99 said:Banks should really introduce a rule that you have to wait 24 hours before being able to make a payment of over (say) £500 to a newly set up payee.
I need to use my card and PIN and a card reader to set up a new payee on my bank.
I then get a text immediately.
Whatever systems you put in place, people still have to take personal responsibility for not giving out the details.
If they aren't capable because of a condition then perhaps they should have been given more help or less responsibility.
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