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NEED HELP ON BUYING MY EX OUT OF THE HOUSE

Hi Everyone,

Hope you can help - This is really for my partner - He has been separated from his Wife for 12 years - She has not paid into the house since she left.

He now needs to buy her out so they can get divorced - He does not want to sell the house because of work and location - the only two options he can see are Equity Release or Re - Mortgaging to a Interest only Mortgage - there is only 10 years left on the existing Mortgage.

Can anyone give any advice of which one would be the better one to go for ?

Thanks in Advance 

Lisa

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  • user1977
    user1977 Posts: 18,997 Forumite
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    Why only those two options? Is an interest-only mortgage actually available to him, and if so, what's going to be used to repay the capital?
  • canaldumidi
    canaldumidi Posts: 3,511 Forumite
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    How much rent has he been paying for her half of the property that she's allowed him sole use of...?
  • Larac
    Larac Posts: 958 Forumite
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    What I did when I divorced 18 years ago, was to get the house valued, then knock off the outstanding mortgage and then pay the other half 50% of what was left.  I had to remortgage to pay him out at the time and reset the mortgage.  All very painful but now in a position where I can do what I like with the property.  
  • comeandgo
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    Is the wife in agreement with this?  Has he looked at all the marriage assets?  Maybe there could be a set off of some of the assets to allow him to keep the house with no money changing hands.  Would he have a pension that he could give her and he keep the house?
  • p00hsticks
    p00hsticks Posts: 14,826 Forumite
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    comeandgo said:
    Is the wife in agreement with this?  Has he looked at all the marriage assets?  Maybe there could be a set off of some of the assets to allow him to keep the house with no money changing hands.  Would he have a pension that he could give her and he keep the house?

    ^ This.
    Ownership of the house really needs to be considered alongside all other assets when coming to a financial settlement.
    If they've been separated for twelve years, it sounds as if the two parties have rather had their heads in the sand in getting it sorted......
  • dimbo61
    dimbo61 Posts: 13,727 Forumite
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    You talk about your partner's Ex ? wife ?
    Are they still married ?
    Courts would work on 50/50 IF No kids involved.
    So she has paid None of the mortgage for the last 12 years but she has had to pay rent elsewhere !
    If her husband has a job and pension she maybe able to claim against that.
    Time to sort this out.
    Solicitors needed 
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