We'd like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum... Read More »
PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING: Hello Forumites! In order to help keep the Forum a useful, safe and friendly place for our users, discussions around non-MoneySaving matters are not permitted per the Forum rules. While we understand that mentioning house prices may sometimes be relevant to a user's specific MoneySaving situation, we ask that you please avoid veering into broad, general debates about the market, the economy and politics, as these can unfortunately lead to abusive or hateful behaviour. Threads that are found to have derailed into wider discussions may be removed. Users who repeatedly disregard this may have their Forum account banned. Please also avoid posting personally identifiable information, including links to your own online property listing which may reveal your address. Thank you for your understanding.
We're aware that some users are experiencing technical issues which the team are working to resolve. See the Community Noticeboard for more info. Thank you for your patience.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
Asking price offer
Options
Comments
-
eidand said:
You really need to chill a little bit and don't show the raging side to the vendors, because no one wants to deal with a buyer like that. For most of us this is the biggest sale / purchase we will make in our lives and it is stressful enough.
17 -
You have to put yourself in the position of the vendor. What if they accepted your offer, cancelled all the other bookings, then come Monday you've changed your mind, lost your job, got hit by a bus, etc etc. They've just pee'd off a whole load of people who could have bought their house just to make you happy. It's also not fair to cancel people who may have had to make arrangements to travel a long distance.One day you'll probably be in the position of the vendor when trying to sell on your largest asset. You make think differently about things when the boot is on the other foot.Make £2025 in 2025
Prolific £229.82, Octopoints £4.27, Topcashback £290.85, Tesco Clubcard challenges £60, Misc Sales £321, Airtime £10.
Total £915.94/£2025 45.2%
Make £2024 in 2024
Prolific £907.37, Chase Intt £59.97, Chase roundup int £3.55, Chase CB £122.88, Roadkill £1.30, Octopus referral reward £50, Octopoints £70.46, Topcashback £112.03, Shopmium referral £3, Iceland bonus £4, Ipsos survey £20, Misc Sales £55.44Total £1410/£2024 70%Make £2023 in 2023 Total: £2606.33/£2023 128.8%5 -
felicityBD15 said:I’m about to go on the market and will pick a buyer who is able to be patient as I find my new home. I will accept less than asking for someone who can work on my timeline - especially if they’ll exchange quickly with a long stop for completion so I can buy a new build.
0 -
Agree with other posters that expecting a response to your offer so soon is rather optimistic. Some buyers like to wait a little while to think about an offer before submitting one. Waiting until after the weekend allows enough time to do this, and the EA knows this - so is probably allowing time for other offers to come to the table.
I purposely offered late on the first working day (Monday) after viewing after everyone else had placed their offers and I knew how many offers were on the table. Turns out 13 people offered before me. I then knew for sure that a higher than asking price offer was the way to go. Offering late gave me the opportunity to be more informed.
It went to best and final - offers in by 1 pm Tuesday. Was supposed to hear the decision by end of Tuesday, didn't get confirmation of acceptance of offer until Wednesday at 2 pm. Why did this happen? Well the vendor wanted time to think and discuss with a sibling. So there's lots of reasons for the delays between you submitting an offer and hearing feedback.
Good luck!1 -
Slithery said:felicityBD15 said:I’m about to go on the market and will pick a buyer who is able to be patient as I find my new home. I will accept less than asking for someone who can work on my timeline - especially if they’ll exchange quickly with a long stop for completion so I can buy a new build.
Estate agents in the town are only letting you view if you’ve sold as well, and the only properties that aren’t selling quickly (ie are being listed on right move as SSTC immediately) are the ones where the top of the chain are also trying to buy a new build. I figure if I’m getting in a chain with a new build, might as well be me buying it!
So, I figure I can’t really do anything til I’ve sold. So, let’s put it on the market and see what that takes me.
(sorry OP for derailing conversation… I wish you luck and hope they accept your offer soon!)Challenges:
January NSD: 4/10 days
Pay Your Debts in 2025: 0/£15,0000 -
Deleted_User said:powerful_Rogue said:Deleted_User said:I didn’t say it was personal.I see from the sellers perspective they are greedy and want to try to squeeze more than they advertised for and from a buyers perspective it is unfair to have them waste time looking at a property which is advertised for a price and to then be expected to offer more than that.Again thank you for your thoughts, I have mine and you have yours
Talk about being impatient! If this is your first time buying, good luck!
It's not "end of story". The asking price is not fixed, they're not obliged to accept it even if nobody else submits an offer.
They may have decided to hold off on accepting an offer until they have completed the viewings, rather than cancel them as soon as the asking price is met. That is quite common for sellers to do and there's nothing unethical about it. It would be bad form if they accepted your offer under the condition that viewings were cancelled, but continued with the viewings anyway - but they didn't do that. It's not unethical for somebody to give themselves a few days to review options, especially for a 6 figure transaction.
If you can't wait a weekend how are going to survive the next 3 months or so? The buying process can easily get far more stressful as it's goes on. My seller wouldn't take the house off the market (wouldn't do viewings but would take names of those interested) until I had my mortgage offer - that was stressful!
2 -
Seller doesn't have to sell to you no matter what you offer. Nothing wrong with them holding out for more.
Such a weird post.4 -
If their house has been on the market for a year then they should be biting your hand off.
If it's just come on the market (as looks obvious) then put yourself in their position.
"We've had a/several asking price offer/s already"
"Yes dear, and it's only been on the market 2 days"
"Perhaps we underpriced"
"How exciting"
"Let's hold off for a couple of days as we have more viewings on Monday"
"Yes, if we get £10k more we can do the extension on the new place immediately"
This wouldn't be money-grabbing or unusual - perfectly normal.4 -
It isn’t necessarily about the vendor wanting more money. Even if several people offer the same price, buyers may be in different positions.1
-
andyf1980 said:It isn’t necessarily about the vendor wanting more money. Even if several people offer the same price, buyers may be in different positions.
OP - You are being impatient. House buying is a slow process. As a vendor in a market where people are paying over the odds, I would be trying to get as much as I reasonably could for my property. EA are going to be telling vendors there are far more buyers than available properties so accepting the first offer (asking or not) is a not a smart move if the EA can have several other viewings lined up.
From the vendors perspective, one of those viewings could be a cash buyer who is also happy to offer asking or perhaps someone down/upsizing with a bigger LTV etc. Its not just about the offer price but about how complicated the chain might be etc.
If the OP is a FTB and bottom of the chain, the vendors may need to find a new property to buy which means they need a patient buyer as it could take a while.1
Confirm your email address to Create Threads and Reply

Categories
- All Categories
- 350.9K Banking & Borrowing
- 253.1K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
- 453.5K Spending & Discounts
- 243.9K Work, Benefits & Business
- 598.7K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
- 176.9K Life & Family
- 257.1K Travel & Transport
- 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
- 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
- 37.6K Read-Only Boards