Name change after divorce

This is such an odd question....

My parents got divorced around 35yrs ago-is (I'm in my mid-40s (cough cough)) but my mother, bless her, didn't want me to have to go through a name change while I was in school (I was bullied enough already) she also never spoke about my biological father so we (mother & I) kept her name.... which we still have. She is now changing her name back to her maiden name. 
My question: I'd also like to change to my mother's maiden name, do I have to change my name via deed poll because it was sooooo long ago? 

Thank you

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  • Savvy_Sue
    Savvy_Sue Posts: 47,122 Forumite
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    No, but you may find a deed poll is the simplest way to do it. 

    You can use any name you like, as long as it's not for fraudulent purposes. The deed poll may be the simplest way of notifying and confirming the name change with banks, employers, official bodies.
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  • Dannii75
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    Savvy_Sue said:
    No, but you may find a deed poll is the simplest way to do it. 

    You can use any name you like, as long as it's not for fraudulent purposes. The deed poll may be the simplest way of notifying and confirming the name change with banks, employers, official bodies.
    Savvy_Sue said:
    No, but you may find a deed poll is the simplest way to do it. 

    You can use any name you like, as long as it's not for fraudulent purposes. The deed poll may be the simplest way of notifying and confirming the name change with banks, employers, official bodies.
    Thanks Savvy Sue. I thought that may be the case! 
  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,571 Forumite
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    A relative has used the wording on the gov site and had no problem changing their name on passport, driving licence, banks, utility companies, etc.
    www.gov.uk/change-name-deed-poll/make-an-adult-deed-poll

  • Ms_Chocaholic
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    Sorry I'm confused by your initial post.  What is your name on your passport, bank accounts, driving licence etc, is this the name that you want to be known by now, if so there's no need to do anything.
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  • maman
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    Sorry I'm confused by your initial post.  What is your name on your passport, bank accounts, driving licence etc, is this the name that you want to be known by now, if so there's no need to do anything.
    My understanding is a step father's name. Mother is now divorced and mother and daughter want to use mother's maiden name.🤔

    Although it's true that you can call yourself what ever you like, without intention to commit fraud. then deed poll seems the most generally recognised document for official purposes. 
  • GrumpyDil
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    maman said:
    Sorry I'm confused by your initial post.  What is your name on your passport, bank accounts, driving licence etc, is this the name that you want to be known by now, if so there's no need to do anything.
    My understanding is a step father's name. Mother is now divorced and mother and daughter want to use mother's maiden name.🤔

    Although it's true that you can call yourself what ever you like, without intention to commit fraud. then deed poll seems the most generally recognised document for official purposes. 
    Nope. OP has her father's surname but no longer wants to use it. 
  • bouicca21
    bouicca21 Posts: 6,670 Forumite
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    If OP can crack the passport office without a deed poll then the rest is easy.

    A basic deed poll is cheap but you have to be careful to keep it safe.  A more expensive but safer route is to have the deed poll enrolled which means you can always get a certified copy.
  • Dannii75
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    GrumpyDil said:
    maman said:
    Sorry I'm confused by your initial post.  What is your name on your passport, bank accounts, driving licence etc, is this the name that you want to be known by now, if so there's no need to do anything.
    My understanding is a step father's name. Mother is now divorced and mother and daughter want to use mother's maiden name.🤔

    Although it's true that you can call yourself what ever you like, without intention to commit fraud. then deed poll seems the most generally recognised document for official purposes. 
    Nope. OP has her father's surname but no longer wants to use it. 
    that's right, thank you. 
  • Dannii75
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    OK, thank you @bouicca21 I'll go for the safer option, I didn't even know that existed so I'll do that. 
  • smudge56
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    bouicca21 said:
    If OP can crack the passport office without a deed poll then the rest is easy.

    A basic deed poll is cheap but you have to be careful to keep it safe.  A more expensive but safer route is to have the deed poll enrolled which means you can always get a certified copy.
    You need a change of name deed or a statutory declaring plus evidence that the new name is in use to change the name on a passport if it not by marriage.  You don’t have to pay for the change of name deed - www.gov.uk/change-name-deed-poll/make-an-adult-deed-poll and a statutory declaration is free in Scotland 

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