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Buying into partners house

Hi all,

Just looking for advice on how people would deal with this to make sure everything is fair.  My partner and I are looking to move in with each other, into my partners current home. We both have properties, and I have a child from a previous relationship.

My info

House value £200k
Outstanding mortgage £60k

His
House value £350k
Outstanding mortgage £70k

We would want to build an extension/improvements that we estimate at around £100k.

We both work with a joint income of £55k although I do earn around £8k more..

Comments

  • MovingForwards
    MovingForwards Posts: 17,164 Forumite
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    You put in £175k, then you both own 50% each.
    £50k each for the extension / improvements.

    Alternatively, sell both properties and buy a new one 50/50 each.
    Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.
  • You put in £175k, then you both own 50% each.
    £50k each for the extension / improvements.

    Alternatively, sell both properties and buy a new one 50/50 each.
    Thanks for this, are you suggesting that I don't pay anything towards the mortgage when I move in? He's still got £70k left so if I did I'd actually end up with more % of the house if that makes sense?

    I have suggested selling both houses as an option but he's put a lot of effort into renovations already so is keen to stay if we can make it work.
  • hazyjo
    hazyjo Posts: 15,475 Forumite
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    You don't mention savings. How will the £100k work be funded? From savings or mortgage increase? Any mortgage on the house will be split equally. You'll each be liable for the whole amount not part.

    2024 wins: *must start comping again!*
  • hazyjo said:
    You don't mention savings. How will the £100k work be funded? From savings or mortgage increase? Any mortgage on the house will be split equally. You'll each be liable for the whole amount not part.

    Probably from a remortgage but then my partner says he'll have money to use (from my buy-in) and it seems silly to borrow when he's got it there but that's not fair on him
  • Thrugelmir
    Thrugelmir Posts: 89,546 Forumite
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    You use the £140k equity from selling your property to buy in into your partners, i.e. a 40% share. Settle your partners existing mortgage in the process. You can then proceed forward from a base point. 
  • Emmia
    Emmia Posts: 6,247 Forumite
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    Given you're not married (I'm presuming from the use of partner rather than husband/wife) whatever you do I'd get a proper agreement drawn up (using a solicitor) setting out what happens to money if you split up.
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