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Charities sending unsolicited trinkets following donations

FatherTireseus
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Is it just me, or does anyone else get annoyed about charities wasting money I've donated on sending me things I don't want?
I donated recently to a hospice in memory of an aunt who'd ended her days there. They have a Christmas campaign to raise funds each year.
Each year they have sent out a plastic credit card sized card with the dedication I'd made printed on it (also visible on the website). This year it came with a pin badge. I didn't want either and they've gone in the bin, being made of stuff that would be rather difficult to compost.
Now I know that one or two fewer bits of plastic aren't going to solve the climate emergency but I have in the past asked them to at least give donators the option of whether or not to receive this stuff. When I made my donation online there was no mention of receiving anything (some years they gave you the choice of bits of plastic stuff) and I thought 'great, maybe they've stopped sending stuff out'. Alas today the plastic card and pin badge arrived and I've now asked them to take me off their mailing lists.
If they at least gave the choice it wouldn't be so bad but I hate the thought they've spent some of my money on sending me things I don't want without giving me the option to opt out.
So go on, tell me I am the biggest Christmas Grinch out there... ;-)
I donated recently to a hospice in memory of an aunt who'd ended her days there. They have a Christmas campaign to raise funds each year.
Each year they have sent out a plastic credit card sized card with the dedication I'd made printed on it (also visible on the website). This year it came with a pin badge. I didn't want either and they've gone in the bin, being made of stuff that would be rather difficult to compost.
Now I know that one or two fewer bits of plastic aren't going to solve the climate emergency but I have in the past asked them to at least give donators the option of whether or not to receive this stuff. When I made my donation online there was no mention of receiving anything (some years they gave you the choice of bits of plastic stuff) and I thought 'great, maybe they've stopped sending stuff out'. Alas today the plastic card and pin badge arrived and I've now asked them to take me off their mailing lists.
If they at least gave the choice it wouldn't be so bad but I hate the thought they've spent some of my money on sending me things I don't want without giving me the option to opt out.
So go on, tell me I am the biggest Christmas Grinch out there... ;-)
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I used to donate items to my local Cancer Research shop and used their gift aid system thinking it would help in some small way.
This resulted in letters arriving by post telling me that certain items had raised £5.60 or whatever amount it was. These letters would appear from time to time.
All I could think of is someone had to process the letters, the charity had the cost of paper, envelope and postage which used to annoy me so I donated elsewhere without giving them my details.
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Some charities give you the option to not correspond after the donation. Normally if there's an option "do you need a receipt" and you say no this helps.
But I get completely what you mean. MiL made a small donation a few years back to a charity that provides Christmas dinners to homeless - might have been £10 donated. Along with the pens and return address labels she's been getting begging letters from them ever since which must have cost them more than she actually gave - we still haven't figured out how to get her off the mailing list - you know how persistent some organisations can be!!!I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Debt Free Wannabe, Old Style Money Saving and Pensions boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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Most charities don't have a box on the paper forms to unsibscribe from their mailings. You normally have to phone or email. There should be contact details on the letter.
If it sticks, force it.
If it breaks, well it wasn't working right anyway.1 -
Don't think it costs the charities anything. They can claim the money back via the taxman (legitimate expenses).
It does seem strange to send plastic garbage that nobody asked for though1 -
I don’t think your being a grinch. The ocean is full of plastic that people don’t want.
I would make your feelings known to the charities concerned,
reminds me of the rubbish cheap biros they used to send.2 -
I called one charity to tell them that if they kept sending me rubbish I'd stop donating. They took me off their mailing list. It annoys me intensely when you make a donation to find that they use the funds to keep marketing to you when you are already giving.
I also hate the charities that send out pre-filled 'suggested donation' pages, which increase year on year beyond reason. Crisis did this when I signed up to give the price of one person's dinner etc. Next year it was two people. Then three, then four, which at that point was over £100. Nope. Emotional blackmail isn't a good look. And the cheap biros were also terrible.Some days, it's just not worth chewing through the leather straps....
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oxroxx said:Don't think it costs the charities anything. They can claim the money back via the taxman (legitimate expenses).
It does seem strange to send plastic garbage that nobody asked for though2021 GC £1365.71/ £24003 -
We had a guy authenticate something for us a few months back, he always refuses payment and asks for a donation for Guide Dogs for the blind.
Sent a donation and since then receive a letter a month asking for more.
It did annoy me that funds were seemingly being spent on begging for more funds.1 -
Over 30 years ago, the ex and I were at a country show and gave a local animal charity exhibitor a small donation. For some years after we would receive a regular newsletter and small pamphlet about their current "residents". Just the total postage must have well exceeded our donation!If you are querying your Council Tax band would you please state whether you are in England, Scotland or Wales1
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Thanks for the comments. Just to update, I received a call yesterday from a lady who worked for the charity, in response to my email asking to be taken off their mailing lists and the reason why.
She apologised and said she could see on my donor record that I had asked not to receive 'gifts' in the past but it was probably human error that meant something got sent out.
She also said the team had had a debate when I sent my original request in two years ago about whether they should have something on the website at the time of making the donation to opt out of receiving anything. But the manager at the time didn't want to go down that route as some people valued getting a plastic card with a few words remembering a loved one.
She went on to say the team were going to have a meeting later in December to discuss the fundraising campaign and the issue of opting out of receiving gifts would be raised again. There is a new manager so maybe they will have a different attitude. I did say the whole issue of climate change was being ramped up considerably in the last couple of years so if my email has at least caused them to think about the issue again, that's positive.7
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