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[Buying] How do people afford offers over asking price?

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  • grumiofoundation
    grumiofoundation Posts: 3,051 Forumite
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    edited 24 January at 5:58PM
    I know one person that bought a house with an inheritance from their grandfather at quite a young age. However (as a couple) they also used to spend more than £100 a week on eating out and take aways. Usually 2 trips away abroad each year, one car on HP and used to buy themselves the latest consoles, fancy smartwatches and Dyson hair tools

    Had they have been so minded, 2 years of savings would have provided them with the same deposit that they put on their house. 

    These aren't people with degrees or high earners either. 

    But I've known far more FTB's that have begged and borrowed from families to scrape a deposit together as they'd put more emphasis on having fun than thinking about where they might live in 5 years time - those examples typically come from higher earners with degrees
    Anecdotes are not data. Look up the stats on how many FTBs had assistance from parents or inheritance.
    Oh agreed so why did you post ? 

    Everyone I still know from school and university either inherited or in one case for £30k from their parents.

    Not a single one was able to do it alone. These are people with degrees and decent jobs.
  • strawb_shortcake
    strawb_shortcake Posts: 3,436 Forumite
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    edited 24 January at 5:58PM
    I know one person that bought a house with an inheritance from their grandfather at quite a young age. However (as a couple) they also used to spend more than £100 a week on eating out and take aways. Usually 2 trips away abroad each year, one car on HP and used to buy themselves the latest consoles, fancy smartwatches and Dyson hair tools

    Had they have been so minded, 2 years of savings would have provided them with the same deposit that they put on their house. 

    These aren't people with degrees or high earners either. 

    But I've known far more FTB's that have begged and borrowed from families to scrape a deposit together as they'd put more emphasis on having fun than thinking about where they might live in 5 years time - those examples typically come from higher earners with degrees
    Anecdotes are not data. Look up the stats on how many FTBs had assistance from parents or inheritance.
    Stats are just numbers that are manipulated to suit a narrative and gloss over any context 
    Make £2023 in 2023 (#36) £3479.30/£2023

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  • Crashy_Time
    Crashy_Time Posts: 13,386 Forumite
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    eidand said:
    with cash, obviously
    Smart cash buyers don`t overpay for property. Dumb offers will just be "down-valued" by the bank anyway if a mortgage is involved.
  • Gavin83
    Gavin83 Posts: 8,757 Forumite
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    edited 24 January at 5:58PM
    It's a nightmare for FTBs at the moment. Prices rising faster than people can save, anywhere with jobs is unaffordable.

    You can either hang on and hope prices crash back down down to something you can afford, but who knows if that will happen. Or you can press on, keep making offers, and maybe you will get lucky.

    Oh, there is one other option. If you have any elderly relatives try to get in their good books. You might be able to inherit some money or property.


     I'm sure most people would rather have their loved ones than any inheritance. What a horrid thing to say.

    Why is the market worse for FTB? What about those who get divorced etc. I'm presuming your suggesting everyone else had equity. Simply not true.
    It is horrible, but that's the country we live in. These days the majority of FTBs either inherited or got help from their parents.

    Now we are at the point where young people's parents already got the inheritance and used it for their house, and don't have money to help their kids out.

    It's awful but not something people can afford to overlook. Especially in these difficult times there are opportunities.
    I can't think of any FTB who bought with an inheritance, how do you work that out?

    as for help from parents, that happened years ago, nothings changed. There might have been more debt then with 100% mortgages and high interest rates and negative equity.
    Everyone I still know from school and university either inherited or in one case for £30k from their parents.

    Not a single one was able to do it alone. These are people with degrees and decent jobs.
    I know a lot of people who own their houses. Of those only one to my knowledge bought due to an inheritance and that was 15 odd years ago. Everyone else has saved up and bought. That includes myself.

    Greymug said:
    Marvel1 said:
    Maybe look at cheaper properties to offer over.
    This.

    The problem I've found with people in general is their tendency to wanting to live beyond their means.

    If, for example, they have a 50k deposit and say a 50k yearly salary, they say "ok great I can afford a house costing £275k" (deposit plus 4.5 times the salary) or even worse their brokers tell them that. And then off they go bidding on houses listed in the 250-275k range. Obviously they get outbid each and every time.

    What they should be doing instead is being extremely realistic and honest with themselves and start looking at houses in the 200-230k, which will give them some wiggle room to place offers over home report valuation and not get outbid.


    Which is fine if there are houses in the 200-230k range.
    There are lots of houses in that price range in the majority of the country. 
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