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I would check to see if you have legal cover under any insurance policy or can otherwise get a hour/half-hour consult with a lawyer to get a better idea than we can offer you here. Frankly I think they have way overstepped the mark but you are going to need some good assistance to get what is right.
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I am 64, and white - I was not aware that one needed to be a millennial to not be racist.paigesand said:Me and the nurse are middle aged white women in other words not of the woke millennial generation.
The previous owner was 68 when he retired eg he was not of the woke generation he had a marvelous work ethic so did his friend and son.
The practice is in a very large Edwardian terrace so I understand the refurb as it's not been decorated in years.
Neither would the previous owner who was Jewish have expected his staff to work on Christmas day. We broke up on the 23rd December and didn't return until the 2nd January.
Many Muslims, which is a faith and not an ethnicity, work in roles where they cannot perform observances. Even in Muslim majority countries. What the previous owner would have done, and their faith, is also entirely irrelevant. They don't own the business now. And what does his family work ethic have to do with anything????
The good news for you though is that for practising Christians, the primary church service is Christmas eve and the evening, so luckily your attendance at church won't be interfered with by your working Christmas day.
To be honest, you are not covering yourself with glory here. Perhaps the new employers attitudes are less than ideal. Your own do not bear much scrutiny either.12 -
Realistically it is highly unlikely that they will open on Christmas Day. How many people would want dental treatment or fillers on a national day of lazing around - regardless of religion? I suspect they said it to provoke a reaction - and it's clearly worked.1
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I think so too its so much easier if you leave of your own doing for them.68ComebackSpecial said:Realistically it is highly unlikely that they will open on Christmas Day. How many people would want dental treatment or fillers on a national day of lazing around - regardless of religion? I suspect they said it to provoke a reaction - and it's clearly worked.
I'd turn up, smile, do your job and watch it unfold. You can only react to something solid that has happened. Right now it's all on a conversation of possibilities.
It's good you have someone else in the same boat, but don't get into the habit of discussing it all the time. It makes it so much more then. Wait for whatever they do next, then react.
Also my dentist is open - emergency only - on all Bank Holidays. I only know as I called one Christmas day when a tooth split in half 🙄. My local sainsbury is open every day too (shorter hours on Christmas day).
I would maybe ask your vicar for his service times, I'm presuming you do midnight or 11pm Christmas eve? Could you then look at the 5pm (or similar) time Christmas day? If you openly talk about church too them, they may allow time off to attend the service. We used to allow time off for some to pray when asked (if you don't ask, you don't know). You could also look to incorporate home worship that day instead of being in a physical church.Forty and fabulous, well that's what my cards say....1 -
They are correct on that point. Employment law treats bank holidays exactly the same as any other day. Unless there are any contractual provisions there is no right to have the day off or to any extra pay if it is worked. The employee's legal right (if full time) is to 5.6 weeks (28 days) holiday per year to be taken when the employer chooses.paigesand said:How can I get redundancy for dismissal?.
I'm thinking of constructive dismissal but not until after Christmas.
Speaking of Christmas the new owners have said they are seriously considering opening on Christmas day for routine and emergency appointments.
When I mentioned it was a bank holiday I was told it wasn't a automatic right Andi wouldn't get double time or a day in lieu.3 -
Although, based on what you have told us, you are probably experiencing unlawful age discrimination, I have to say several of your posts are suggesting a discriminatory attitude yourself.paigesand said:I really don't want to work in a toxic environment.
I only work 25 hours but that's 25 hours feeling terrible and unwanted 12pm to 5 pm.
I also work 2 hours in a post office in the morning during the week. The owner is a lovely man he is Asian.
So a job as a building attendant 25 hours 4 to 9pm would be great.
I have a friend who is a building supervisor at the uni and she said it's a nice job no bank holidays or weekends and a pound an hour more than I'm on now.
Free uniform and shoes too.
Also it's race discrimination too Christmas day when they know me and the nurse are Christians.
If someone told Muslims or Asians they couldnt perform iftar due to work there would be uproar.
Two wrongs never make a right!
If you had employees of your own you would be just as entitled to tell them when they can and cannot take their holiday. What you cannot do is treat employees who follow a particular religion differently from others. You have no right to even know what religion, if any, they may follow and certainly should not make judgements.
Based on what you have said, if you were to be dismissed you may well have a valid claim against them for age discrimination and you should certainly seek legal advice if that were to happen.
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What they have said is probably age discrimination, but you have zero proof. If you pursue anything, they will deny it and you will get nowhere.
Given that you clearly don't want to contnue working there your best bet is to get a redundancy payment and leave. Since you have been working there since 1997, that will be a reasonable sum. Your quickest route is to talk to the new owners about it. Tell them you understand they want you to go and that you will be willing to leave if they pay you your full redundancy settlement. They may agree, come back with a reduced offer, or decline, but at least you will know where you stand.0 -
It’s not a redundancy situation as the role the OP is working is still there.bap98189 said:What they have said is probably age discrimination, but you have zero proof. If you pursue anything, they will deny it and you will get nowhere.
Given that you clearly don't want to contnue working there your best bet is to get a redundancy payment and leave. Since you have been working there since 1997, that will be a reasonable sum. Your quickest route is to talk to the new owners about it. Tell them you understand they want you to go and that you will be willing to leave if they pay you your full redundancy settlement. They may agree, come back with a reduced offer, or decline, but at least you will know where you stand.All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.1 -
Indeed, but there could still be a settlement agreement for a similar sum.elsien said:
It’s not a redundancy situation as the role the OP is working is still there.bap98189 said:What they have said is probably age discrimination, but you have zero proof. If you pursue anything, they will deny it and you will get nowhere.
Given that you clearly don't want to contnue working there your best bet is to get a redundancy payment and leave. Since you have been working there since 1997, that will be a reasonable sum. Your quickest route is to talk to the new owners about it. Tell them you understand they want you to go and that you will be willing to leave if they pay you your full redundancy settlement. They may agree, come back with a reduced offer, or decline, but at least you will know where you stand.0 -
To be fair, it might come to redundancy. It just hasn't come to anything at all yet. If the company is massively changing its offer, then a dental receptionist may not offer the range of skills or knowledge needed for future roles. Only time will tell.0
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