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On the road to becoming debt free

MrBowler
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Afternoon All,
Just thought i should create a post about my journey to becoming debt free, hopefully it will end up helping people do the exact same thing.
Also some people may be able to help me get there a lot quicker.
So the start of 2021 i had a £17,521.70 of debt, then an additional debt of £10,000 to parents and an additional £12,500 on a car that was just drinking fuel a total of £40,021.70.
This is how i started
Argos Card - £853.51
HSBC Loan - £11,787.84
HSBC Overdraft - £2,377.83
Halifax Overdraft - £837.85
Nationwide Overdraft - £1,014.67
Paypal Card - £650
Total £17,521.70
I also owed parent £10,000
Also a car payment due on PCP of £12,500 (approx)
Every Month i was paying nearly £600 to clear the debts, the overdrafts were just getting credited to cover the charges.
Argos Card/Paypal Card and Loan were getting paid monthly
In April we had a bit of a crisis and decided to do our bedroom out as it was in a mess (cost around £200 for wallpaper/paint and carpets) we then got a new bed.
we decided as we could get an interest free payment on a new bed to do this which came to a total of £1,400 this increased the debt to £18,393.53.
Within the increasement of that month i was asked to go back into work instead of working from home which i couldnt afford the fuel for so i got given my dads car which i would pay at a later date for £350, as well as a problem with one of our dogs having to be put down so another £450 on vet bills there which was lent from girlfriends parents.
I also decided to treat myself and fell back into my old ways and bought a season ticket for £330 in May which i pay monthly.
In July i decided to ditch the car which i was paying on PCP and got a more economical car at £11,500 on finance which i would actually own.
Fast forward to today and we are now at the following
Argos Card - £853.51 - £0
HSBC Loan - £11,787.84 - £9,393.48
HSBC Overdraft - £2,377.83 - £2,539.58
Halifax Overdraft - £837.85 - £851.60
Nationwide Overdraft - £1,014.67 - £987.93
Paypal Card - £650 - £320
Additional
Bed - £1,400 - £537.80
My Parents - £350 - £350
GF Parents - £450 - 0
Season Ticket - £330 - £152.50
I have 2 jobs, one involves driving 5 days a week delivering earning around £250-£300 per week which approx £40 is fuel and the rest is used for weekly shopping, before i was spending around £100 per week on fuel so saving a lot there.
My main job working 40 hours per week 5 days a week brings in £30k per year and pays for the monthly bills, i aiming to have paid everything off including my parents by the end of 2022.
Any extra ideas to help speed up this process would be much appreciated.
Last note, my other half does not work and can not work due to ill health, the government wont allow us to claim any sickness or care allowance due to my monthly wage so i am supporting us both and our son (who is still a toddler).
If you put your mind to it you can do it, dont let anyone tell you otherwise.
Just thought i should create a post about my journey to becoming debt free, hopefully it will end up helping people do the exact same thing.
Also some people may be able to help me get there a lot quicker.
So the start of 2021 i had a £17,521.70 of debt, then an additional debt of £10,000 to parents and an additional £12,500 on a car that was just drinking fuel a total of £40,021.70.
This is how i started
Argos Card - £853.51
HSBC Loan - £11,787.84
HSBC Overdraft - £2,377.83
Halifax Overdraft - £837.85
Nationwide Overdraft - £1,014.67
Paypal Card - £650
Total £17,521.70
I also owed parent £10,000
Also a car payment due on PCP of £12,500 (approx)
Every Month i was paying nearly £600 to clear the debts, the overdrafts were just getting credited to cover the charges.
Argos Card/Paypal Card and Loan were getting paid monthly
In April we had a bit of a crisis and decided to do our bedroom out as it was in a mess (cost around £200 for wallpaper/paint and carpets) we then got a new bed.
we decided as we could get an interest free payment on a new bed to do this which came to a total of £1,400 this increased the debt to £18,393.53.
Within the increasement of that month i was asked to go back into work instead of working from home which i couldnt afford the fuel for so i got given my dads car which i would pay at a later date for £350, as well as a problem with one of our dogs having to be put down so another £450 on vet bills there which was lent from girlfriends parents.
I also decided to treat myself and fell back into my old ways and bought a season ticket for £330 in May which i pay monthly.
In July i decided to ditch the car which i was paying on PCP and got a more economical car at £11,500 on finance which i would actually own.
Fast forward to today and we are now at the following
Argos Card - £853.51 - £0
HSBC Loan - £11,787.84 - £9,393.48
HSBC Overdraft - £2,377.83 - £2,539.58
Halifax Overdraft - £837.85 - £851.60
Nationwide Overdraft - £1,014.67 - £987.93
Paypal Card - £650 - £320
Additional
Bed - £1,400 - £537.80
My Parents - £350 - £350
GF Parents - £450 - 0
Season Ticket - £330 - £152.50
I have 2 jobs, one involves driving 5 days a week delivering earning around £250-£300 per week which approx £40 is fuel and the rest is used for weekly shopping, before i was spending around £100 per week on fuel so saving a lot there.
My main job working 40 hours per week 5 days a week brings in £30k per year and pays for the monthly bills, i aiming to have paid everything off including my parents by the end of 2022.
Any extra ideas to help speed up this process would be much appreciated.
Last note, my other half does not work and can not work due to ill health, the government wont allow us to claim any sickness or care allowance due to my monthly wage so i am supporting us both and our son (who is still a toddler).
If you put your mind to it you can do it, dont let anyone tell you otherwise.
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Stuck a full SOA up (Statement of affairs, you can search for the link on this site).
It will help us, look through and see what you can trim.
First thought, what is the interest rate on the overdrafts, could you shift this via a money transfer deal @ 0%?Life isn't about the number of breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away. Like choking....2 -
here you go, think i have filled it in right.
the overdrafts are as follows
Nationwide (no charge)
Halifax around £1 per day (depending on how much i am overdrawn)
HSBC is around £2 per day (£69 per month)
Here is SOA[font=courier new][b]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b][b]Household Information[/b]Number of adults in household........... 2Number of children in household......... 1Number of cars owned.................... 2[b]Monthly Income Details[/b]Monthly income after tax................ 2836Partners monthly income after tax....... 0Benefits................................ 0Other income............................ 0[b]Total monthly income.................... 2836[/b][b]Monthly Expense Details[/b]Mortgage................................ 314.3Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 507.7Rent.................................... 0Management charge (leasehold property).. 0Council tax............................. 146Electricity............................. 43.5Gas..................................... 43.5Oil..................................... 0Water rates............................. 37Telephone (land line)................... 0Mobile phone............................ 18TV Licence.............................. 13.37Satellite/Cable TV...................... 0Internet Services....................... 30Groceries etc. ......................... 500Clothing................................ 200Petrol/diesel........................... 300Road tax................................ 14.49Car Insurance........................... 98.13Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 40Car parking............................. 0Other travel............................ 0Childcare/nursery....................... 0Other child related expenses............ 200Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 10.59Pet insurance/vet bills................. 10Buildings insurance..................... 13.13Contents insurance...................... 0Life assurance ......................... 0Other insurance......................... 0Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 50Haircuts................................ 0Entertainment........................... 0Holiday................................. 0Emergency fund.......................... 0[b]Total monthly expenses.................. 2589.71[/b][b]Assets[/b]Cash.................................... 0House value (Gross)..................... 0Shares and bonds........................ 0Car(s).................................. 0Other assets............................ 0[b]Total Assets............................ 0[/b][b]Secured & HP Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRMortgage...................... 88000....(314.3)....1.25Secured Debt.................. 9127.44..(266)......16.9Hire Purchase (HP) debt ...... 12000....(241.7)....6[b]Total secured & HP debts...... 109127.4.-.........- [/b][b]Unsecured Debts[/b]Description....................Debt......Monthly...APRHalifax Overdraft..............1000......30........0Nationwide Overdraft...........1000......50........0HSBC Overdraft.................2500......0.........0Season Ticket..................152.5.....31.5......0Bed............................537.8.....107.5.....0Paypal.........................450.......20........0Parents........................10000.....0.........0[b]Total unsecured debts..........15640.3...239.......- [/b][b]Monthly Budget Summary[/b]Total monthly income.................... 2,836Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 2,589.71Available for debt repayments........... 246.29Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 239[b]Amount left after debt repayments....... 7.29[/b][b]Personal Balance Sheet Summary[/b]Total assets (things you own)........... 0Total HP & Secured debt................. -109,127.44Total Unsecured debt.................... -15,640.3[b]Net Assets.............................. -124,767.74[/b][i]Created using the SOA calculator at www.stoozing.com.Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.[/i][/font]2 -
Dont know why it wont do all the bold/italic stuff1
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First thoughts. Is/can your partner work? No child benefit? These added in could be used to part down the debt quicker. Groceries look high for three, have a look at the grocery thread on old style, lots of ideas and recipes. No emergency fund, you need this, then you don't need to rely on plastic if, say, the washer breaks. No contents insurance! Look around whichever room you are standing in right now, assuming you are at home, how much would it cost to replace recovery item you can see around you? Multiply that by the number of rooms in your house, then imagine the worst happening, a fire/gas explosion/plane landing on your roof, you need contents insurance.
I would try to clear the overdrafts first, usually the highest interest and can be withdrawn at any time.
I'm sure other more knowledgeable people than me will be along soon, good luck, mumtoomany.Frugal Living Challenge 2025.1 -
Groceries is way too high for 2 people and a toddler and clothing can be reduced so you are only buying for the toddler. There is nothing in emergency savings so that needs to be a priority. The overdrafts should be repaid asapI’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free Wannabe, Budgeting and Banking and Savings and Investment boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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The things that jump out at me are food shopping and clothes. I feed two adults and a toddler for £200 a month. We eat well, lots of fruit and veg, meat etc so even if you budgeted £300, you'd still have plenty.
£200 on clothes is a lot too. I probably would spend that amount on my toddler over the year. I rarely buy myself anything unless its needed.1 -
good luck with your journey
Not quite the main point you need help on, but if you are working and earning enough NI credits for yourself (and you income suggests you are), then you should get your partner to receive the child benefit, that will earn NI Pension credits for them until your kid is 12 (you can change if circumstances change). You need at least 10 years to get any sort of pension. so that could be enough and you buy a few extra years nearer the time to get you over the line. 10 years would be about £50 a week when you are 67 so a long time away but make the most of what you got now.
You should post a thread on the benefits board (very helpful and not judgey) asking about what benefits your partner might be entitled to, and how to claim for them. Especially if too ill to work.I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
Smiling and waving and looking so fine1 -
My other half cant work no. Unfortunately due to the illness she has she can't work.
We have tried claiming PIP and been declined even though all health records were sent and several interviews on the phone have been made. We are currently trying to dispute this but getting nowhere.
Yes the food is a big one and we are cutting back slowly, I think it may be a little too excessive what I have put on there.
We do receive child benefit yes, I didn't put in as it goes straight to the other half.
Clothes are usually only for the child unless we do run out of clothes due to them ripping for example, it is mainly the child's uniform and the rate he is growing. Maybe not quite £200 but it is a lot.
I don't have an emergency fund as I am throwing every penny on to debts, this is something I want to do.1 -
It does seem like your car is a bit of a problem. Worth considering trading it in for something more economical?1
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If your son is a toddler why do you buy a uniform? Are you buying clothes from supermarket for him which is cheaper than some of the high street shops? What is the £200 child related expenses for? The car insurance is really expensive too. Do you shop around for that?I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free Wannabe, Budgeting and Banking and Savings and Investment boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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