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"Pot rainforest" I love that
Hope all the scan shenanigans go well - my niece in law, who's quite a bit shorter than average, has a baby who's weighing more than average, and her due date has been brought forward almost 3 weeks as a result! Never heard of that before, I must say, but it's concentrated minds on baby preparations2023: the year I get to buy a car7 -
Everybody seems to buy newborn to 3 months for a new baby. My DS outgrew them by the time he was 3 weeks old. He wasn't fat but long so babygrows were keeping his legs bent. He spent a couple of days with the feet cut off until we got new. What a waste though.
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badmemory said:Everybody seems to buy newborn to 3 months for a new baby. My DS outgrew them by the time he was 3 weeks old. He wasn't fat but long so babygrows were keeping his legs bent. He spent a couple of days with the feet cut off until we got new. What a waste though.
she believes in planning ahead
2023: the year I get to buy a car7 -
I never buy 0-3 months for new babies for this reason - plus the sleep deprived parents are unlikely to get it washed and ready to wear before the baby outgrow it!Mortgage free 16/06/2023! £132,500 cleared in 11 years, 3 months and 7 days
'Now is no time to think of what you do not have. Think of what you can do with what there is.' Ernest Hemingway7 -
The 12 week scan showed a normal, healthy, *wriggly* baby and we were both very relieved. The day was perhaps overshawdowed a little by a horrible work situation for me and being stuck in the ******* rain for 80 minutes on the way back - must have a wee quiet minute with Mrs E at the weekend to discuss in a more relaxed frame of mind.Still no word from the architect, what a scunner! I'm going to call him on Monday if I haven't heard anything, seems very unprofessional considering he'd committed to a date range and he's well past it. I would contact him today, but having Mrs E's local besties and their kids round for a Halloween party and sleepover this evening, so I have enough on my plate.I've also managed to get my flu jab this morning (free through work) and am grinding my way through most of the month end chores. I'm sitting waiting for the insurance people to call me back to finalise my income protection insurance. Once the direct debit is set up, that will be me all grownded up and with 90%+ of my wages covered should I develop any kind of injury or long term illness
I wouldn't say I feel invincible, but it's the closest to it I'll get
Finance wise, it's month end, we've stuck to the budget, there's money left in pots and our asets are ££££ higher than our liabilities. I'll call that a winOn the topic of baby clothes, I hear you all. DD wasn't a huge baby by any stretch of the imagination, but she grew quickly. We went straight into the first size above 0-3 months (3-6 months?) and while a few things were a little long in the frame for her, they weren't after a couple of weeks! I'm still hoping for a girl, not just because Mrs E stashed almost every nice baby dress DD ever had and a lot of basics in the loft.Have a lovely weekend everybody, hope you're staying dry.8 -
Great news on the scan!
I hear you on the rain though! It hadn't stopped thundering down here for days but it slowed and we managed to get out later this afternoon.
Good luck with the architect. We are finding it hard to get house related professionals and also the building materials for projects that we did in the summer were overdue by many monthsSave £20,000 in 2025. April 2k, May 3.5k6 -
Great news on your wriggly little one!!MFW 2021 #76 £5,145
MFW 2022 #27 £5,300
MFW 2023 #27 £2,000
MFW 2024 #27 £6,055
MFW 2025 #27 £2,350 /£5,0005 -
Lovely news - I urge you to check the small print of the income protection plan to double check the inflator by which your premium will increase. We had to cancel ours after about 8 yearsSave £12k in 2025 #2 I am at £4863.32 out of £6000 after May (81.05%)
OS Grocery Challenge in 2025 I am at £1286.68/£3000 or 42.89% of my annual spend so far
I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the Grow your own thread
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Suffolk_lass said:Lovely news - I urge you to check the small print of the income protection plan to double check the inflator by which your premium will increase. We had to cancel ours after about 8 years3
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