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  • We have asked my parents for vouchers for DIY stores as we are planning on redorating in the New Year.
    We love what we are doing and we love why we're doing it!!
  • dorry_2
    dorry_2 Posts: 1,427 Forumite
    some lush stuff:j
    'If you judge people, you have no time to love them'
    Mother Teresa :D
  • PasturesNew
    PasturesNew Posts: 70,698 Forumite
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    Mine is the same. Thing is, even if I gave them an exact and precise list they'd get it wrong.

    So for the last 5+ years I've actually bought my presents, then handed them over for them to be wrapped, at this point they pay me for them.

    That way I get something I can use, I am not being hassled, they are not spending hours and hours getting it wrong.

    Suggest that to her: can I go out and find something I really want and buy it, then drop it off for you to wrap.

    It might work.
  • Book tokens do it for me - a perfect excuse to go into a bookshop and browse
    You're only young once, but you can be immature forever :D
  • LJD1_2
    LJD1_2 Posts: 2,173 Forumite
    Vouchers so you can go shopping in the sales and get what you want.
    January budget
    Nothing left!
  • Book tokens do it for me - a perfect excuse to go into a bookshop and browse

    Same here! :D

    :cry: I'd be happy just to have my Mum back for Christmas.

    Big ((HUGS)) - my friend lost her Mum this year. I want to say or do something for her to let her know I'm thinking of her and recognise this christmas day will be a huge hurdle for her. Do you have any ideas please?
    "all endings are also beginnings. We just don't know it at the time..."
  • Big ((HUGS)) - my friend lost her Mum this year. I want to say or do something for her to let her know I'm thinking of her and recognise this christmas day will be a huge hurdle for her. Do you have any ideas please?


    It's three years this Christmas since I lost mine, I find it's getter harder as time goes on.

    Anyway, maybe a nice candle. She could light it to commemorate her Mum. (you don't have to say that of course, but it's a nice thought).
    :wave:
  • Psykicpup
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    HopeElizzy wrote: »
    Big ((HUGS)) - my friend lost her Mum this year. I want to say or do something for her to let her know I'm thinking of her and recognise this christmas day will be a huge hurdle for her. Do you have any ideas please?

    Yeah - easy! a hand delivered card on Xmas morning with a post it in it saying something nice about her mum (or her relationship with her mum if you didnt know mum well) with your tel no & a reminder 'anytime'

    that way she knows you know .. but can take the post-it out so its not a constant reminder all holiday.
    The worst thing I found was people not mentioning it or expecting me to be 'jolly' the whole time. From the few friends I had, those that understood & talked, they are now my only true friends.....
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