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Paying dad's care costs
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Pennylane said:Dave … did you read my earlier post?
First point of call should be his father’s social worker, the LA cannot throw a vulnerable person on the street, so whatever they have said about turning down deferred payment, that is the only option they have, but the OP needs to work with them regarding selling the properties but not allow himself to be pressured into finding funding himself.Also call Age UK this weekend for further advice.3 -
The local authority have a duty of care - the home may give notice if the fees aren’t paid but the LA would have an obligation to unsure he was safely being looked after. That would not involve him coming back to you, going home with insufficient support or being on the streets.The social workers are different to the financial assessment team so go back to the social worker and ask the question about what happens when the house is not sold within the required time frame? If he doesn’t have an allocated social worker then go via the adult social care duty team. Be very very clear that you are not able to look after him safely. They may continue to say their hands are tied but they will have to step in to do something if it comes to the point that he is being evicted. They have no choice.You could also make a complaint about the deferred payment being turned down, but you may have to consider selling the rental property if the other one is going to prove very difficult to shift,All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
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Dave215 said:The fact he owns two homes mean the council will not help. I had not realised this, mainly as so many people told me it was best to keep the rental. It does say on gov website that if you own property (other than the house you lived in before going into care) it counts as assets and if that is over 23k you are not entitled to help.I didn't either. I thought a DPS could be arranged if you had capital that wasn't immediately accessible - I didn't realise it only applied to your main residence.As elsien says above, they have a duty of care and should be able to find some way round the problem.0
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Keep_pedalling said:Pennylane said:Dave … did you read my earlier post?
First point of call should be his father’s social worker, the LA cannot throw a vulnerable person on the street, so whatever they have said about turning down deferred payment, that is the only option they have, but the OP needs to work with them regarding selling the properties but not allow himself to be pressured into finding funding himself.Also call Age UK this weekend for further advice.Mum was in a care home not a nursing home and I think this confuses a lot of people.If I were Dave, I would honestly start the process now. It’s the Fast Track process and I found it very straightforward. It is the best kept secret!!0 -
Pennylane said:Keep_pedalling said:Pennylane said:Dave … did you read my earlier post?
First point of call should be his father’s social worker, the LA cannot throw a vulnerable person on the street, so whatever they have said about turning down deferred payment, that is the only option they have, but the OP needs to work with them regarding selling the properties but not allow himself to be pressured into finding funding himself.Also call Age UK this weekend for further advice.Mum was in a care home not a nursing home and I think this confuses a lot of people.If I were Dave, I would honestly start the process now. It’s the Fast Track process and I found it very straightforward. It is the best kept secret!!All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
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Pennylane said:You pay interest on a deferred payment.Sounds to me from what you say that your Dad is declining and could be eligible for NHS Continuing HealthCare which means the NHS will pay for his care. He stays where he is but they pick up the tab.Can I recommend a site called Care To Be Different. If he is declining fast then you can ask for Fast Track application and it’s usually sorted within a week. I got this for my late Mum who paid approx £100,000 in care home fees and had to sell her home. I managed to get NHS CHC for the last 3 months of her life.Sorry your Dad is so poorly, know how it feels.
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elsien said:Pennylane said:Keep_pedalling said:Pennylane said:Dave … did you read my earlier post?
First point of call should be his father’s social worker, the LA cannot throw a vulnerable person on the street, so whatever they have said about turning down deferred payment, that is the only option they have, but the OP needs to work with them regarding selling the properties but not allow himself to be pressured into finding funding himself.Also call Age UK this weekend for further advice.Mum was in a care home not a nursing home and I think this confuses a lot of people.If I were Dave, I would honestly start the process now. It’s the Fast Track process and I found it very straightforward. It is the best kept secret!!1 -
It is for people whose health needs are deteriorating rapidly.
- they have a rapidly deteriorating condition that may be terminal
- their needs to be urgently met, for example to provide appropriate end of life support in their own home or care setting
All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
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elsien said:It is for people whose health needs are deteriorating rapidly.
- they have a rapidly deteriorating condition that may be terminal
- their needs to be urgently met, for example to provide appropriate end of life support in their own home or care setting
https://caretobedifferent.co.uk/nhs-continuing-healthcare-fast-track-end-life/
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