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Actual Spending in Retirement against expectations
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hugheskevi said:OldScientist said:You have to ask just who is it 'thought by'?Pension and Lifetime Savings Association - Retirement Living StandardsI think....3
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hugheskevi said:OldScientist said:You have to ask just who is it 'thought by'?Pension and Lifetime Savings Association - Retirement Living StandardsI use these figures in my spreadsheet and uplift them by an assumed 2% each year (BOE inflation target), and run mine and my partner's projected income alongside. Not sure how realistic they are, but if they are even "approximate expected figures" then I consider it a reasonable guide. There is no way I would change 2 cars every 5 years, or spend close to £1500 on clothing though. I bought a bunch of t-shirts from George (Asda) a few weeks ago and they cost me £2.50 each...they'll last a couple of years hehe!One of our cars is a 20 year old modern classic and the other is a four year old Mazda, which we intend to keep until it starts falling apart, just like our previous 16 year old Mazda 6.If you want to be rich, live like you're poor; if you want to be poor, live like you're rich.3
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I'm happy with "Covers all your needs with some left over for fun!"
If that were a pick n mix I'd have some from the first column and some from the second, but I'd bet we could still do it for under £20,000 !!How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)2 -
Sea_Shell said:cfw1994 said:Sea_Shell said:We only have Nieces and Nephews, most of which are still children.
Our plan, assuming everything is still looking rosy by the time DH gets his DB and SP in payment (10+ years), is to (at least) use our £6000 joint gift allowance and give them all a modest chunk each year.
There are 5 of them, 2 on one side and 3 on the other.
So then how do you judge "fair"? Split each side of the family 50/50 and then divvy up between them (so 2 get £1500 each and the others get £1000 each), or give £1200 to each of them as individuals?
Well, as they each move towards adulthood, if they choose not to maintain a relationship with their Aunt and Uncle, then they'll be getting no gifts at all!!!
But then we could also bribe them into coming and helping mow the lawn!!
My further thoughts on the split was a simple, DH has £3000 allowance to gift as he chooses, and so do I. We each just gift to our own families. Sorted.
(My part was I increasingly disliked her - partly for the above. This may well have been noticed by my adult children.)
One did take notice of her birthdays/Christmas and spasmodically stayed in touch. Then I think he got sick of being told his presents weren't that imaginative/not liked and he gave up. The other did take her out for unusual experiences / meals etc. Neither lived near - in fact 100s of miles away. The former got a quarter of what the latter was left in her will.
And yes, she was loaded - and yes, she obviously left according to attitude.....
(I wasn't even notified she had died - got zilch - which met expectations!)3 -
Albermarle said:hugheskevi said:OldScientist said:You have to ask just who is it 'thought by'?Pension and Lifetime Savings Association - Retirement Living Standards
Which have published some similar figures.
Even the Comfortable figure does not include alcoholic drinks , or cleaners, gardening/tree surgeons , general redecoration etc
Although £1500 each for clothes seems excessive.3 -
michaels said:hugheskevi said:OldScientist said:You have to ask just who is it 'thought by'?Pension and Lifetime Savings Association - Retirement Living StandardsAgreed - it looks rubbish to me, our spending (ex mortgage) has been around £30-35k a year for a family of 4 and that includes far higher spending on food (inc booze) and far more holidays than even the "comfortable" section, similar on the other stuff to "moderate".The Which one is more credible, £26k for "comfortable" and £41k for "luxury".
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michaels said:hugheskevi said:OldScientist said:You have to ask just who is it 'thought by'?Pension and Lifetime Savings Association - Retirement Living StandardsAgreed - it looks rubbish to me, our spending (ex mortgage) has been around £30-35k a year for a family of 4 and that includes far higher spending on food (inc booze) and far more holidays than even the "comfortable" section, similar on the other stuff to "moderate".The Which one is more credible, £26k for "comfortable" and £41k for "luxury".
In which case you might need more like £41K each, rather than as a couple.
Luxury is in the eye of the beholder you might say .5 -
pensionpawn said:
...and the worrying thing about these claims is that some will be fooled, conned, maybe too strong phrases, into sacrificing too much salary (think FIRE) through their accumulation phase, and extending that accumulation phase, to amass a fortune of a pension pot only to find that they have more money than they can spend in the time available as they are now exhausted and pushing elderly. Some (most?) of these figures above are in excess of current working take home pay! If these are net figures comfortable equates to a couple current earning, for example, around £40k and £24k! I've always equated comfortable to two thirds of final salary.
If you want to be rich, live like you're poor; if you want to be poor, live like you're rich.0 -
Bravepants said:pensionpawn said:
...and the worrying thing about these claims is that some will be fooled, conned, maybe too strong phrases, into sacrificing too much salary (think FIRE) through their accumulation phase, and extending that accumulation phase, to amass a fortune of a pension pot only to find that they have more money than they can spend in the time available as they are now exhausted and pushing elderly. Some (most?) of these figures above are in excess of current working take home pay! If these are net figures comfortable equates to a couple current earning, for example, around £40k and £24k! I've always equated comfortable to two thirds of final salary.
If you had two thirds of salary I guess you would end up with 75%/80% of net income .
Not sure which is the correct way of looking at it but it is only a guideline anyway.2 -
Albermarle said:hugheskevi said:OldScientist said:You have to ask just who is it 'thought by'?Pension and Lifetime Savings Association - Retirement Living Standards
Which have published some similar figures.
Even the Comfortable figure does not include alcoholic drinks , or cleaners, gardening/tree surgeons , general redecoration etc
Although £1500 each for clothes seems excessive.
I do note that the comfortable couple get through a bottle each of white and red and 8 bottles of beer per week (no tobacco included though). They also have a gardener and cleaner. There's a set of spreadsheets at https://www.retirementlivingstandards.org.uk/RLS-full-data.zip that make interesting reading.
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