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Strange error & now my mum owes thousands- help!
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Will she qualify for any pension credits now her income is reduced?2
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gettingtheresometime said:I can't advise on the repayment situation but I'll just add this thought - if you were the person who owned the other bond, wouldn't you have queried as to why you hadn't received any income?0
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gettingtheresometime said:I can't advise on the repayment situation but I'll just add this thought - if you were the person who owned the other bond, wouldn't you have queried as to why you hadn't received any income?0
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Working on the presumption that she has capacity unless evidenced otherwise you really need to talk to your mother about this. Although you are trying to protect her because of her health, you’re not being fully honest with her and the company shouldn’t be discussing any of this with you without her informed consent.
Any action you take or agreements you make she will have to be on board with because it’s her money. She is going to have to find out at some point.You don’t need to give her all the details right now if she doesn’t want them but enough for her to understand you are looking into it on her behalf and that there may be either a complaint or some sort of repayment agreement. Or both.
And any repayment agreement will need to be affordable for her which will mean her agreeing to share her financial position and discussing with you what she wants to prioritise. You have to talk to her before you start doing anything with bank statements or anything else.And setting up a power of attorney now for if needed in the future would also be a useful decision. Although having a power of attorney still wouldn’t mean not telling mum, unless she really didn’t want to know.
ETA you can also tell them they need to delay action because she is not in a position to deal with this at the moment due to her ongoing health conditions.
This may help.
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Baskethandle said:gettingtheresometime said:I can't advise on the repayment situation but I'll just add this thought - if you were the person who owned the other bond, wouldn't you have queried as to why you hadn't received any income?3
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user1977 said:Baskethandle said:gettingtheresometime said:I can't advise on the repayment situation but I'll just add this thought - if you were the person who owned the other bond, wouldn't you have queried as to why you hadn't received any income?0
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Baskethandle said:user1977 said:Baskethandle said:gettingtheresometime said:I can't advise on the repayment situation but I'll just add this thought - if you were the person who owned the other bond, wouldn't you have queried as to why you hadn't received any income?2
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comeandgo said:Will she qualify for any pension credits now her income is reduced?+ 1 to this ^^^^.You can use the benefits calculators here:
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eddddy said:
I guess that the company will be regulated by the Financial Conduct Authority - so you can probably make a complaint to the Financial Ombudsman Service (FOS), and they would investigate and make a decision for free.
You (or your Mother) have to go through the process of making a complaint to the company first. But it might be worth phoning the FOS helpline first, to see what they say.
Go here and scroll down, to find their helpline number: https://www.financial-ombudsman.org.uk/consumers/how-to-complain
I would seek legal advice. But I wouldn't necessarily want them to take any action or write letters at this point. I would simply want advice on whether your mother is liable to repay this money or not. She probably does have to repay it, but there is a slim chance that she may have a defence of what is known as estoppel (or change of position) if she received the money in good faith, couldn't necessarily be aware that she wasn't entitled to it, and had spent it. You would need to provide details of what happened 20 years ago (and since then) to whomever you were asking advice from, so your mother has to be involved.
Estoppel defences are rarely viable ( have a look at some of the overpayment threads on the employment board) but I'd explore it in your mother's case. If a solicitor says she has no hope of succeeding* you (she) will have to reach some repayment agreement with the finance company.
But if they have to suspend recovery action if your mum complains to the FOS, then go down the FOS route and buy a couple more years of delay.
*It's worth finding out. If the company in question didn't realise they'd been overpaying for 20 years, it's at least arguable to ask why should your mother have known she was being overpaid?1
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