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Neighbour being difficult about removal of wall
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SMA1990, another option is for you to tell your neighb, "I believe this is my wall because the outside edge follows the outer edge of my garage, and it's therefore my responsibility. Sorry, but I would rather have a timber fence than rebuild the wall, and that is my intention. However, if you really want the wall kept, you can take over responsibility for it, and I'll build my fence on my side of it."Then just built your preferred fence tight against it on your side.Yes, this could possibly/probably mean you'd lose that wall permanently if they claim 'adverse possession' in a decade+, and you'd also have to have it in writing that the neighb has agreed to take responsibility for it (in case it later collapses and he claims from you), but it's another potential solution. It would also help your argument - 'if you want it so much, then fine, pay for the repairs. If you don't want to pay for this, then don't expect me to pay for something I don't want.'I'm afraid his plants are potential 'collateral' - nothing you can do about that except take reasonable care. If the wall is weak to its core - or base - then anything growing up and on it is bound to be affected when it's dismantled either for repair or replacement. In any case, if this IS your wall, they shouldn't be growing anything up on it anyway without your permission!0
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Jeepers_Creepers said:I'm afraid his plants are potential 'collateral' - nothing you can do about that except take reasonable care. If the wall is weak to its core - or base - then anything growing up and on it is bound to be affected when it's dismantled either for repair or replacement. In any case, if this IS your wall, they shouldn't be growing anything up on it anyway without your permission!0
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David713 said:Phil4432 said:David713 said:sma1990 said:all 3 landscapers I had come to look at it have advised the wall will need minimal labour to take down, with two of them saying they will simply push/pull it down as it is that structurally unsound, it should be light work.
It's not his greenhouse, not on his land. Taking pictures of other peoples property without their consent can escalate a situation.
In fact, I would go so far as to say that doing so is a sensible move just in case there are any damage claims raised during or after the work and taking a couple of photo's could probably be done without the neighbour even being aware.
May not be illegal, IF visible from OP's property but likely to escalate the situation if done without communication.
Point is, neighbors are always better off having reasonable discussions, respecting what belongs to whom and consider each other. Makes for a better life IME.
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