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Is this allowable to gift to grandchildren (considering 7 year IHT exemption rule)?
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[Deleted User] said:Keep_pedalling said:[Deleted User] said:Keep_pedalling said:Happytosave said:Keep_pedalling said:There are no limits on how much you can gift, and anything you gift is exempt of tax. If your estate is in IHT territory, then anything gifted over your exemptions will be taxed from the remainder of your estate, but it will not add to the I.hit tax burden.
With the sums you are talking about it, all of it would be exempt anyway, as it appears you only used £1500 of last years allowance so you have £1500 to carry over into this year.What approximately is your net worth? If it is below your nil rate bands then your estate will not pay IHT and the 7 year rule does not even need thinking about.Small gifts up to £250
You can give as many gifts of up to £250 per person as you want during the tax year as long as you have not used another exemption on the same person.
So, the op can make a gift to the grandson of £2750 maximum this year. The first gift of £250 is covered by the small gift exemption. The second £250 reduces his £3000. However, as mentioned, there is a carry forward and the full £3000 can thus be made.
It’s late but I have learnt something. Thank you!1 -
Mickey666 said:Someone takes their extended family out for a slap-up meal and pays the the entire £500 bill - should they keep track of this as a possible 'gift'?
Someone takes their nieces/nephews/grandchildren for a day out at a theme park and foots the entire bill - should they keep track of that as a gift?
Someone takes their adult kids and grandkids on a skiing holiday and pays the entire £10k cost - should they keep track of that as a gift?
Does anyone in the real world really believe most people (or even the taxman) keeps a track of all these sorts of small gifts?Would I record a slap up meal? No. Would I record spending thousands on other people’s skiing holidays (not that I would do such a thing)? Yes. Where you draw the line is a bit fuzzy to say the least. When we rent self catering holiday accommodation these day we want something with a decent garden and in warmer climes a private pool. Those sort of properties always have more than one bedroom so we invite family and friends to join us. If anyone does come we certainly don’t record half the rental cost as a gift.1 -
Keep_pedalling said:With the sums you are talking about it, all of it would be exempt anyway, as it appears you only used £1500 of last years allowance so you have £1500 to carry over into this year.
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Also consider the administration when there are no records
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Does HMRC expect the administrator to go through 7 years of records looking for all possible gifts.
A pro charging £250per hour that would not be a practical proposition.
A pragmatic approach is more appropriate ask around, anyone had big gifts and look for any large amount that have gone walkies over the last few years.
Like there is no sign of the all proceeds of a house sale after a downsize.
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Thank you everyone. So to clarify. I am still married and we actually have another grandson but I left that out for the purposes of clarity. I realise my partner can make the same gifts to other other grandson. We treat them all the same.
So there is no carry on from 2019/2020. I have been making gifts all the while, however, I am not conscious of the 7 year rule at this stage in my life.
So do HMRC trawl through all my bank accounts to see who I have written £250 cheques to?
Are birthday and Christmas gifts (the above £250 gifts) treated outside of the IHT 7 year exemption rule?
I basically want to know if I can in this 2020/21 financial year give £3K to my grandson and it have been acceptable to have given a total of £500 to him at Christmas and his birthday too. Plus I have given a total of £1K to my daughter and son in law (spread out over Christmas and their respective birthdays.
I still am not clear but maybe I have given a bit more information. All help appreciated!0 -
Happytosave said:Thank you everyone. So to clarify. I am still married and we actually have another grandson but I left that out for the purposes of clarity. I realise my partner can make the same gifts to other other grandson. We treat them all the same.
So there is no carry on from 2019/2020. I have been making gifts all the while, however, I am not conscious of the 7 year rule at this stage in my life.
So do HMRC trawl through all my bank accounts to see who I have written £250 cheques to?
Are birthday and Christmas gifts (the above £250 gifts) treated outside of the IHT 7 year exemption rule?
I basically want to know if I can in this 2020/21 financial year give £3K to my grandson and it have been acceptable to have given a total of £500 to him at Christmas and his birthday too. Plus I have given a total of £1K to my daughter and son in law (spread out over Christmas and their respective birthdays.
I still am not clear but maybe I have given a bit more information. All help appreciated!HMRCs view on Christmas and birthday gifts is a bit woolly and there is no set level at which it could be deemed to no longer be a small gift. As a married couple your estate would need to exceed £1M (assuming you own a house in worth at least £350k) before IHT is an issue, and to people with that sort of wealth, £250 for each birthday and Christmas pressie would easily be classed as a small gift and I would not be including them in my records.The important thing to get your head round if you have an estate that is likely to have to pay IHT, is that you should not be trying to stay within your exempt limits, but to make larger gifts. It is important to do this as early as possible to give you the best chance of surviving the 7 years so it becomes exempt.We exceed our exemptions most years ( new grandchild due this month, so another JISA to fund) so keep a spreadsheet of these gifts. We also keep records of any lager exempt gifts such as one off charitable gifts and gifts in contempt of marriage, so our executors are aware of what the large sums going out of our bank account was for. I now also have to record some regular monthly payments to fund one grandson’s nursery fees.1 -
Keep_pedalling said:Happytosave said:Thank you everyone. So to clarify. I am still married and we actually have another grandson but I left that out for the purposes of clarity. I realise my partner can make the same gifts to other other grandson. We treat them all the same.
So there is no carry on from 2019/2020. I have been making gifts all the while, however, I am not conscious of the 7 year rule at this stage in my life.
So do HMRC trawl through all my bank accounts to see who I have written £250 cheques to?
Are birthday and Christmas gifts (the above £250 gifts) treated outside of the IHT 7 year exemption rule?
I basically want to know if I can in this 2020/21 financial year give £3K to my grandson and it have been acceptable to have given a total of £500 to him at Christmas and his birthday too. Plus I have given a total of £1K to my daughter and son in law (spread out over Christmas and their respective birthdays.
I still am not clear but maybe I have given a bit more information. All help appreciated!
Sure, you might leave a list of gifts, but how can an executor ever be certain it is an accurate list? You may have left a list of small gifts deliberately to make them complacent about checking so that they miss some very large gifts. Who knows?
So really, an executor SHOULD trawl back through bank statements as it's the only way to be certain. Leaving a list therefore makes little difference to an executor's workload . . . . if they are truly diligent in their work.1 -
Mickey666 said:Keep_pedalling said:Happytosave said:Thank you everyone. So to clarify. I am still married and we actually have another grandson but I left that out for the purposes of clarity. I realise my partner can make the same gifts to other other grandson. We treat them all the same.
So there is no carry on from 2019/2020. I have been making gifts all the while, however, I am not conscious of the 7 year rule at this stage in my life.
So do HMRC trawl through all my bank accounts to see who I have written £250 cheques to?
Are birthday and Christmas gifts (the above £250 gifts) treated outside of the IHT 7 year exemption rule?
I basically want to know if I can in this 2020/21 financial year give £3K to my grandson and it have been acceptable to have given a total of £500 to him at Christmas and his birthday too. Plus I have given a total of £1K to my daughter and son in law (spread out over Christmas and their respective birthdays.
I still am not clear but maybe I have given a bit more information. All help appreciated!
Sure, you might leave a list of gifts, but how can an executor ever be certain it is an accurate list? You may have left a list of small gifts deliberately to make them complacent about checking so that they miss some very large gifts. Who knows?
So really, an executor SHOULD trawl back through bank statements as it's the only way to be certain. Leaving a list therefore makes little difference to an executor's workload . . . . if they are truly diligent in their work.
Even if a solicitor is handling the estate they are not going to do that where the deceased has left comprehensive records unless they suspect there may have been deliberate under recording.1 -
You may be missing my point that an executor cannot know FOR CERTAIN how comprehensive any records left by the deceased might be. YOU can be certain that YOUR records are comprehensive, but no one else can be so sure.
I agree with your point that someone not knowing the deceased well (eg a solicitor) is unlikely to trawl through seven years of bank statements if presented with a long list of gifts recorded by the deceased. BUT, therein lies an easy route to hiding many gifts, perhaps very substantial ones that would affect the IHT liability of the estate.
And since it is the executor who is legally liable for such things, do you really think it is sensible to rely on a handwritten list of gifts by the deceased?0 -
Mickey666 said:You may be missing my point that an executor cannot know FOR CERTAIN how comprehensive any records left by the deceased might be. YOU can be certain that YOUR records are comprehensive, but no one else can be so sure.
I agree with your point that someone not knowing the deceased well (eg a solicitor) is unlikely to trawl through seven years of bank statements if presented with a long list of gifts recorded by the deceased. BUT, therein lies an easy route to hiding many gifts, perhaps very substantial ones that would affect the IHT liability of the estate.
And since it is the executor who is legally liable for such things, do you really think it is sensible to rely on a handwritten list of gifts by the deceased?Hopefully most parents will not be daft enough to drop a child in it by appointing them as executor and falsifying their gift records. With people regularly switching bank account a lot of executors are not going to be able to go beyond the accounts held at death so in many cases it is going to be impossible to be 100% certain that you have picked up everything, in addition family members and beneficiaries have been known to lie to an executor, and in that case It will be the beneficiary HMRC will come down on not the executor as per this case.
https://www.womblebonddickinson.com/uk/insights/articles-and-briefings/gifts-made-within-seven-years-death-executors-and-beneficiaries0
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