Siblings changing towards you after purchase

Joeisaware539

Purchased a much bigger house and now we’re finding my brother and my wife’s brother are starting to act differently towards us now.

has anybody else experienced this and why does it happen? We aren’t rubbing it in there faces at all or showy materialistic people. In fact people we know didn’t know our wealth before they come to our house etc. 

We work very hard and take many risks to have what we have. We own our own company. 

I hope I’ve posted in correct section, if not please kindly locate my post to the rightful area.

dj1471

Have you been skimping on the birthday & Christmas presents?

dimbo61

People can have big houses and big mortgages !
If the company is doing well do you want to ask your brother or your wife's brother to come and join the company ?
Get on with your life 

Joeisaware539

dj1471 said:

Have you been skimping on the birthday & Christmas presents?

No, they are struggling to get into ladder. This isn’t our fault however we feel they making us feel as if it is.

ACG

dj1471 said:

Have you been skimping on the birthday & Christmas presents?

Haha, could you imagine someone being grumpy with you because you bought a naff christmas pressie?

Joeisaware539

dimbo61 said:

People can have big houses and big mortgages !
If the company is doing well do you want to ask your brother or your wife's brother to come and join the company ?
Get on with your life 

It’s just me and my wife doing it, there isn’t a position for them regretfully. 

Joeisaware539

dimbo61 said:

People can have big houses and big mortgages !
If the company is doing well do you want to ask your brother or your wife's brother to come and join the company ?
Get on with your life 

We mortgage free, we are having a lot of work done on the house to extend it. 

Edi81

Probably more for the families board but that’s jealousy for you. 

Joeisaware539

Edi81 said:

Probably more for the families board but that’s jealousy for you. 

We don’t never show off or boast so it’s a real shame. 

Grumpy_chap

The OP has got a large house, mortgage free, and having substantial home improvements carried out.
The OP's siblings are struggling to get on the housing ladder.
That is a big difference in outcomes for people with same back-ground and, presumably, similar ages (though age gaps between siblings can be large for various reasons).

Did the OP ever get any financial help towards things that the siblings did not receive? 
Or the siblings think they were not treated similarly by the parents? - this is probably more relevant than whether the OP actually received an extra helping hand.
This could be either directly financial contribution for house, or to set up the business? 
Or in a less direct and less obvious way, such as support through schooling / education, or practical support so the OP got, say Grandparent's childcare, but siblings paying for private nursery?

Joeisaware539

Grumpy_chap said:

The OP has got a large house, mortgage free, and having substantial home improvements carried out.
The OP's siblings are struggling to get on the housing ladder.
That is a big difference in outcomes for people with same back-ground and, presumably, similar ages (though age gaps between siblings can be large for various reasons).

Did the OP ever get any financial help towards things that the siblings did not receive? 
Or the siblings think they were not treated similarly by the parents? - this is probably more relevant than whether the OP actually received an extra helping hand.
This could be either directly financial contribution for house, or to set up the business? 
Or in a less direct and less obvious way, such as support through schooling / education, or practical support so the OP got, say Grandparent's childcare, but siblings paying for private nursery?

When we set up 8 years ago, we got an investor on board we have since paid off and got our shares back. But I’ve been given no special treatment etc by family. 

We aren’t special just grafters. In fact I’ve got 0 qualifications. Make up for it in grafting.