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Trustee of discretionary trust wants to resign - where does this leave me?
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lechatnoir89
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Hi All,
My mother is one of two trustees assigned to the discretionary trust left to me by my late father, the other is my uncle.
Due to a family dispute my mother now wants to resign from her duties as trustee and is encouraging my uncle to do the same. Where would this leave me as beneficiary? Could they potentially appoint a solicitor to do the work of the trustees instead?
I ask because the trust is not wildly clear on how the money was to be delegated to me, except in a statement of wishes which as I understand it is more of a guideline than a set in stone sort of thing. The only stipulation was that if I die before all funds have been used then the remainder would be passed on to my half brother and sister.
I also have a strong suspicion that my mother may have potentially misappropriated funds and paid a sum of money to herself from the trust which was not outlined in the will, although as I have never seen a copy of the bank statements I can't yet prove this. Would this hold any sway in my being able to potentially take on the remaining money myself?
Thanks in advance for any assistance.
My mother is one of two trustees assigned to the discretionary trust left to me by my late father, the other is my uncle.
Due to a family dispute my mother now wants to resign from her duties as trustee and is encouraging my uncle to do the same. Where would this leave me as beneficiary? Could they potentially appoint a solicitor to do the work of the trustees instead?
I ask because the trust is not wildly clear on how the money was to be delegated to me, except in a statement of wishes which as I understand it is more of a guideline than a set in stone sort of thing. The only stipulation was that if I die before all funds have been used then the remainder would be passed on to my half brother and sister.
I also have a strong suspicion that my mother may have potentially misappropriated funds and paid a sum of money to herself from the trust which was not outlined in the will, although as I have never seen a copy of the bank statements I can't yet prove this. Would this hold any sway in my being able to potentially take on the remaining money myself?
Thanks in advance for any assistance.
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How old are you? You might be able to wind the trust up, but I believe discretionary trusts are trickier than bare trusts.
What are the terms of the trust?
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Savvy_Sue said:How old are you? You might be able to wind the trust up, but I believe discretionary trusts are trickier than bare trusts.
What are the terms of the trust?
Thanks for your reply. I'm 31 years old. As far as I'm aware the only terms are as I mentioned in the post above (that any remaining funds on my death be passed to my half brother and sister). There was a statement of wishes that loosely said that the money was to be used for purposes of entertainment, purchasing equipment for fun, holidays and so on. Up until this point I was receiving a monthly amount from the Trust as this was how my father used to help me out while he was alive, although my mother has now decided this is inappropriate and she no longer wants to be involved as a trustee, and is encouraging my uncle to also give up his duties as trustee.0 -
Have you got an actual copy of the will?
What's the exact wording.
If not, did it go to probate? Have you looked to see if a copy is publicly available?How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)0 -
You should request the trust be wound up and the funds given to you.0
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lechatnoir89 said:Hi All,
My mother is one of two trustees assigned to the discretionary trust left to me by my late father, the other is my uncle.
Due to a family dispute my mother now wants to resign from her duties as trustee and is encouraging my uncle to do the same. Where would this leave me as beneficiary? Could they potentially appoint a solicitor to do the work of the trustees instead?Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!0 -
Do you think your Mum and Uncle will be happy to wind up the trust and let you have the money, with no further strings attached, or do they just not want to be the ones dealing with it?
Do you have any idea of how much is left? As part of winding up, are you entitled to be given copy statements too, I wonder?How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)0 -
Get the paperwork and read what is actually says.Once you know this then, you can work out what is best.I would suggest you get so legal advise, and I personally would encourage mother / uncle to resign, and you get it paid out ot you in a lump sum.You could also ask for statements (bank or such like) for the number of years this has been a trust, so you can see where any money has gone if that is the case.Breast Cancer Now 100 miles October 2022 100 / 100miles
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If you are 31 years old and you have full capacity (and your posts and questions on here seem well written and well thought out) it seems a bit odd to me that you don't already have full control of these funds yourself - although I appreciate a discretionary trust can be a bit difficult to negotiate.Have you never queried with your mother and uncle what was originally in the trust and how they've accounted for it?As others have said, you need to look at the precise wording of the will and the trust document - if there is one. You may want to speak to a solicitor if there is a substantial amount of money involved - or possibly gone missing.1
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