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Life of a ‘soon to be’ reformed fritterer

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  • Munchin
    Munchin Posts: 2,816 Forumite
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    Morning

    Yesterday I was so knackered and hormonal but thankfully I slept for hours last night and I'm hoping to be a bit more productive today.  I spent money this morning - I love to run (I'm slow and probably a snail could overtake me) but I've had persistent knee and SI pain for years (never run when injured - too late a lesson for me).  My physio suggested an SI brace thing a long time ago but doing strengthening exercises usually helps - I think I'm at the stage where a bit of extra support might help.  I already wear a knee brace but it is my back that affects the knee pain.  So just spent £29.98 on a support which will be worth every penny if it works but worth 0 if it doesn't.  

    I'm on a serious slow down to Easter  - I get 5 days away from work without using any leave  :) .  I have work until Thursday and I have 2 volunteer things (today and tomorrow night) and once they are done I feel like I can relax into Easter. 
    Plans today -
    • Work :(
    • Volunteer thing
    • 30 min yoga to help back and knee
    • NSD 15 (earned y'day)
  • Munchin
    Munchin Posts: 2,816 Forumite
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    Morning all,

    Spent money yesterday...really want to finish march with 16 NSDs - so I need to stay away from the intranet today (apart from reading here).  My boss just texted saying she is having problems logging on this morning - so I consider that a perk for me to working at home :).

    I got my list done yesterday and the volunteer thing went ok.  I have another volunteer thing tonight and that is me done until the end of April.  I would love to be the kind of person who takes stressful things in their stride (therefore it isn't stressful) but I'm not, one of my friends said to me that I should remember that nothing I do in work or volunteering is as bad as the feelings when we lose loved ones (both lost parents).  So really in the grand scheme of things these are not important - unfortunately my anxiety/stress currently can't be reasoned with.

    Plans today just involve work and not frittering.  Tomorrow is much the same but Friday will be more productive - cleaning the house for Easter and hopefully if the lockdown rules are eased - meeting a friend for a takeaway coffee.
  • Munchin
    Munchin Posts: 2,816 Forumite
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    April

    Money
    Food/Misc - £30 pw/£xx
    Diesel - £30/£xx
    Sinking fund* - £200/£xx

    *Sinking fund covers - Yoga class, Pup, Clothes, Beauty, Chemist etc (not regular payments)

    Surveys

    Swagbucks - 386SB
    Prolific - £1.22
  • Seasidegal58
    Seasidegal58 Posts: 6,017 Forumite
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    Hope all is going well Munchin. 
    Finally Debt Free! - July 2016 🌟
    Finished Emergency Fund- £10,000 April 2017
    🌟
    RETIRED: MAY 2021!!!!😀🎆
    My diary: “Seasidegal's Scrimpy Retirement Diary!”
  • Munchin
    Munchin Posts: 2,816 Forumite
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    Thanks Seaside - all is good.

    I fell into a frittering pile in April...I could pretend to justify it all but honestly it was just 'I want it and I can afford it and lets not worry about future me'.  I have written out my May budget and have a wee category for frittering so that I can set a limit on it.  One of the people I follow on instagram wrote down a list of all the stuff she thought about purchasing in April but didn't - it showed how much was just tat and would have filled a space without actually being needed.  I actually find myself buying stuff that I want without giving it any thought and when it turns up I don't open the parcel for days (which really shows it was just an impulsive act of shopping).  I'm going to try that in May - keep a list of what I planned on frittering my money on but hopefully not follow through.

    On the positive front, I cleared the last of my debt and I now have £4,000 in my emergency fund.  I think my frittering isn't helped because I do have the money to cover whatever I'm spending but I want to plan for future me who has a nest egg and can afford nice things without stressing that I've wiped out my savings or built up the debt mountain again.

    So today - not many plans....work and no shopping :)


  • Seasidegal58
    Seasidegal58 Posts: 6,017 Forumite
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    Congratulations on clearing your debt Munchin!  Go girl!😃 And great news on the EF as well. Having one of these is such a security blanket!
    I hope the May budget is going well with not much frittering going on!
    Finally Debt Free! - July 2016 🌟
    Finished Emergency Fund- £10,000 April 2017
    🌟
    RETIRED: MAY 2021!!!!😀🎆
    My diary: “Seasidegal's Scrimpy Retirement Diary!”
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