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Just got gazumped :(
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Far too many house purchases are falling through and costing thousands in fees, surveys etcMaybe something the government, legal system needs to look at.2
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dimbo61 said:Far too many house purchases are falling through and costing thousands in fees, surveys etcMaybe something the government, legal system needs to look at.1
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I sold my house and agree a figure, well below what I had hoped for but had found somewhere I wanted so felt time was running low, then someone else wanted to view the house and was 'very' interested, I stuck with the firm offer and moved.... painful in a way because maybe I could of had another £10-£20k! but then again I could have had it all fall down. The Estate Agents to be fair pushed me in the direction of not doing the viewing but then again they were on a set fee to sell so most likely in their interest.1
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You could always table a higher offer - get all the processes underway - then wait until the last minute and think of a reason to drop it back to your original offer... That's probably not sensible - but if I felt like I'd been cheated by the other party not following a fair process - I'd probably not want to play fair either1
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cymruchris said:You could always table a higher offer - get all the processes underway - then wait until the last minute and think of a reason to drop it back to your original offer... That's probably not sensible - but if I felt like I'd been cheated by the other party not following a fair process - I'd probably not want to play fair eitherDepends. It's a bit playground mentality if you decide tit for tat is justifiable, when normally you'd stand by certain principles, regardless of what others do.However, some may decide this is a business transaction and in business there is little room for sentiment, though there may be some advantages in moral behaviour which drive it. For example, anyone in my small rural locality who does a bad job or cheats others doesn't fare well long term.
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14sprocket said:dimbo61 said:Far too many house purchases are falling through and costing thousands in fees, surveys etcMaybe something the government, legal system needs to look at.1
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14sprocket said:Not sure if people have any suggestions or recommendations how to deal with this
When accepted, tell the agent you'll start things up soon (solicitor, mortgage app,...the usual). Let 2-3 weeks pass, drag it for as long as you can, then pull out.
That will teach the sellers what happens when you're a greedy c*nt.3 -
I was on the other end of your problem. I was selling a property and had accepted an offer . A week later a couple of offers came in a reasonable amount more than the one that had been accepted .
I decided to stick with my original buyer as they had done a lot already to the buying process and were very quick getting things sorted their end and having an excellent solicitor.
I knew that between mine and their legal team the process would be very swift and no holdups as much as you can .
Not all vendors are !!!!!! and to be fair the estate agent had to pass on the higher offer
You will find a better home and better vendors3 -
Greymug said:14sprocket said:Not sure if people have any suggestions or recommendations how to deal with this
When accepted, tell the agent you'll start things up soon (solicitor, mortgage app,...the usual). Let 2-3 weeks pass, drag it for as long as you can, then pull out.
That will teach the sellers what happens when you're a greedy c*nt.0 -
This happened to us a few years ago. We found a house we liked and made an offer that was top of our budget. About a week later the EA told us the seller had a higher offer and was going with that.
2 or 3 weeks later the EA phoned and said the purchase had fallen through and would we like to buy at our original offer. He seemed a bit taken aback when our answer was a resounding no. We didn’t tell him what else we were thinking but it was along the lines of “what’s to stop the seller gazumping us again, we wouldn’t buy his house now for anything”
not long afterwards we found a bungalow in a village owned by a lovely elderly couple who couldn’t manage the big garden any more. We made an offer on the spot and stayed for tea and home made cake. We’d still be there if we hadn’t moved 200 miles7
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