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Getting shot of the mortgage sooner than 2049!

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  • QueenJess
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    OMG I think a takeaway was definitely in order after the shock and an A&E visit. I’m glad she’s ok.
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  • Cheery_Daff
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    Crikey, I think I would definitely have been having a takeaway as well! What a frightening episode all round. Glad she's ok. Glad you've got the car back too (8 weeks?! What on earth were they doing?!) 

    Excellent savings rate there, especially with all the bills! 
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,471 Ambassador
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    Hope your DD is ok & over the shock.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

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  • Thanks all, she is fine now. 

    Very busy weekend which has flown by, and I’m now somewhat dismayed to find out it’s Monday morning 😭 work is not enjoyable right now due to a lot of factors, not so much my specific job changing but a lot of change going on in the company and very poor morale across the board. Strengthens my resolve to be good financially - the better position we are in, the more leeway it gives me to find something else if things continue in this vein!

    On Saturday Monkey had his first karate class, he looked a bit nervous going in but seemed to enjoy it enough to want to go back next week. We get two free trial sessions before having to decide if we sign up. Then on Saturday afternoon I took Bambi to a birthday party for her wee nursery friend, as I was satisfied she seemed ok in herself. Lots of fun as I knew lots of parents there and the mum put on beer and prosecco 😅

    Sunday another busy day. I took the kids climbing, wish I hadn’t bothered taking Bambi as it cost us £27(!) and she didn’t like it. Bit too young I think. Monkey adores climbing though so that was good. 

    In the afternoon we went to my friend’s for a group play date. Six out of seven in that group of friends made it and we had a whole bunch of 4-8 year olds running wild for three hours while we sat out her front in the warm sunshine! She has a playpark out her front you can get to without crossing a road, so it gave the kids freedom to just come and go - we could see them from where we were sat. Very enjoyable! 

    I didn’t have time to bake or go to the shop to bring food, so I just gave the host £10 as me chipping in, as when I heard how much she had overbought I thought there was no sense buying more food to potentially go to waste! I could have done it cheaper if I’d baked but tbh it was £10 well spent on me having less stress and we all ate tons!

    Red also went to B&M and bought garden and household stuff, as he gallantly spent the weekend de-moulding the bathroom (😷) and unblocking the drain. So mainly necessary spending, but this has been a spendy month for sure!!! Hoping to avoid further spends until March now - except our Tesco delivery which comes today. 

    Full spending round up to come later.
    Part time working mum | Married in 2014 | DS born 2015 & DD born 2018

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6542225/stopping-the-backsliding-a-family-of-four-no-longer-living-beyond-their-means/p1?new=1

    Consumer debt free!
    Mortgage: -£128,033

    Savings: £6,050
    - Emergency fund £1,515
    - New kitchen £556
    - December £420
    - Holiday £3,427
    - Bills £132

    Total joint pension savings: £55,425
  • Bluegreen143
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    edited 27 February 2023 at 11:52AM
    I’ve managed to round up all my figures - because I’ve only got two DDs to come out tomorrow so I’ve plugged those in, and I’m determined not to spend anything else today or tomorrow!

    Will break down into categories tonight but here is the monthly round up while I have the working out in front of me!

    Income and spending 

    CARRIED FROM LAST MONTH: £7,409.46

    INCOME: £4,063.40
    SPENT: £3,528.74

    RECONCILIATION: -£1.42
    NEW TOTAL SPENT: £3,530.16

    Savings

    NET ADDED TO SAVINGS: £533.21

    FEB SAVINGS RATE: 13.12%
    2023 AVERAGE: 20.89%

    CARRIED FORWARD: £7,942.70

    EMERGENCY SAVINGS: £2,948.64
    HELP TO SAVE: £2,700
    Part time working mum | Married in 2014 | DS born 2015 & DD born 2018

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6542225/stopping-the-backsliding-a-family-of-four-no-longer-living-beyond-their-means/p1?new=1

    Consumer debt free!
    Mortgage: -£128,033

    Savings: £6,050
    - Emergency fund £1,515
    - New kitchen £556
    - December £420
    - Holiday £3,427
    - Bills £132

    Total joint pension savings: £55,425
  • Bluegreen143
    Bluegreen143 Posts: 3,704 Forumite
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    edited 27 February 2023 at 1:41PM

    Spending breakdown (Feb)


    Mortgage £528.86

    Council tax £159

    Life insurance £29.26

    Internet £25.19

    Nursery school fund £25.80

    TV & music £20.24


    Groceries £389.36

    Household supplies £67.78


    Transport: car maintenance £785.22

    Transport: car loan £160

    Transport: misc £65.20 (bus fares, parking charge & a couple of taxis)


    Other: gifts £32.80

    Other: home £88.72

    ……… £6 new placemats

    ……… £34.97 supplies to repair leaking bathroom

    ……… £13.74 charity shop finds

    ……… £12 new alarm clock 

    ……… £22 supplies for insulating front door

    Other: fun £167.61

    ……… £113.15 date night meal out

    ……… £34.66 takeaway due to A&E visit

    ……… £18 fee to book camping 

    ……… £1.80 Icecream for Bambi

    Other: charity £11.01


    Garden £291.80

    ……… £106.76 plants from online garden shop

    ……… £48.10 wood (bike shed & trellis)

    ……… £136.94 misc (bark, soil, seed trays, packets of seeds etc)

    Kids £125.48

    ……… £26 pocket money & tooth fairy

    ……… £29 football fee

    ……… £22.50 car booster seat for mum’s car

    ……… £35.50 climbing & softplay entries

    ……… £12.48 the bike club 

    Kids clothes: £25.20


    Red: £434.00


    Me: bills £48.14

    Me: social £45.10

    ………. £15 deposit for hen do

    ………. £20.10 drinks/coffees out with friends

    ………. £10 food contribution for gathering

    Me: clothes £8.50

    Me: other 54p


    Misc/reconciliation £1.42

    Part time working mum | Married in 2014 | DS born 2015 & DD born 2018

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6542225/stopping-the-backsliding-a-family-of-four-no-longer-living-beyond-their-means/p1?new=1

    Consumer debt free!
    Mortgage: -£128,033

    Savings: £6,050
    - Emergency fund £1,515
    - New kitchen £556
    - December £420
    - Holiday £3,427
    - Bills £132

    Total joint pension savings: £55,425
  • Notes on spending

    - groceries well under the £400 target 🎉

    - garden spend very high but I’ve been putting money into a pot for this because we knew it would be high this month. We will have quite a few garden spends next month too then it’ll ease off.

    - fun looks high but it’s basically 1x meal out and 1x takeaway, both of which were fully justified in my book!

    Spending levels are high this month but primarily because of the large car repair bill and the planned garden spending. 

    Actually there is only a few areas where I think we could have cut back a little - maybe skipping this weekend’s takeaway for example. But I’m pretty happy with this month overall, especially sticking to the grocery budget two months in a row 😊
    Part time working mum | Married in 2014 | DS born 2015 & DD born 2018

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6542225/stopping-the-backsliding-a-family-of-four-no-longer-living-beyond-their-means/p1?new=1

    Consumer debt free!
    Mortgage: -£128,033

    Savings: £6,050
    - Emergency fund £1,515
    - New kitchen £556
    - December £420
    - Holiday £3,427
    - Bills £132

    Total joint pension savings: £55,425
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,471 Ambassador
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    All good then  :)
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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