We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING: Hello Forumites! In order to help keep the Forum a useful, safe and friendly place for our users, discussions around non-MoneySaving matters are not permitted per the Forum rules. While we understand that mentioning house prices may sometimes be relevant to a user's specific MoneySaving situation, we ask that you please avoid veering into broad, general debates about the market, the economy and politics, as these can unfortunately lead to abusive or hateful behaviour. Threads that are found to have derailed into wider discussions may be removed. Users who repeatedly disregard this may have their Forum account banned. Please also avoid posting personally identifiable information, including links to your own online property listing which may reveal your address. Thank you for your understanding.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide

Council Housing - Staying after tenant dies

GeorgianaCavendish
GeorgianaCavendish Posts: 2,393 Forumite
Eighth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
edited 3 February 2021 at 1:01PM in House buying, renting & selling
A bit of a complex situation with council housing in my family and wondering where to start looking for advice. It is complicated by the family dynamics (one partner is financially abusive) so the obvious solutions of checking the tenancy agreement would be very difficult. 

The main tenant (my uncle) has been living in his 3 bed council house since the 1960s. Initially the tenancy was in my grandma's name, and her kids (inc my uncle) lived with her. The other kids moved out and my uncle was added as a joint tenant in late 1980s / early 1990s. My grandma moved out in the mid 1990s after their family relationship broke down and the tenancy was put in my uncle's sole name. I'm not sure whether this was a succession of the agreement as they had been joint tenants before, and she was removed from the tenancy when moved into other accommodation rather than the tenancy passing on. 

My aunt has been living in the house since they got married in 1980 and their son has lived there for his whole life (born 1990). I won't go into the whole background but my uncle is extremely secretive about his money (for example, he didn't tell my aunt that it was a council house until my cousin was born, he takes care of the rent but my aunt - and now cousin - pay for everything else)  and in the past has made threats to my aunt about her having no rights to the house and being homeless if he decided to throw her out and "having nothing" if he dies. My cousin only found out about all this a couple of months ago as my uncle was admitted to hospital and my aunt broke down and told him the whole situation. He's really worried that he and his mum would be homeless if something were to happen to his dad. 

I've been trying to do some research to help them but I've been stressed out because the information I've found doesn't look good (i.e. for pre 2012 tenancies, only one "succession" is possible and after that it is not possible to pass on the tenancy) but it seems completely unfair that my aunt and cousin would just be evicted from a home they have lived in for 30/40 years. I know that is probably a very naive way of looking at it! Where could they look for help in a discrete way, as I do not think asking my uncle for information would be an option. 

Comments

  • AdrianC
    AdrianC Posts: 42,189 Forumite
    Eighth Anniversary 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    So the tenancy history...

    1960s or before - Grandma sole
    1990ish - Grandma/Uncle joint
    Mid 1990s - Uncle sole. Aunt never added.

    (When you look at that timeline, and the ongoing attitude of Uncle, I'd be questioning whether Grandma was effectively manipulated out of the tenancy.)

    One thing you don't mention is whether Aunt and Cousin can afford to move out of social housing.
    The cousin is now 30, I presume the aunt is still of working age?
  • That is correct timeline for the tenancy history, and I would agree with you about my Grandma being manipulated out of the tenancy based on what I've pieced together from family history around that time (I was at school when it was all happening and my mum had been estranged from that side of the family for a long time before) and my uncle's attitude in general. I've only been back in contact with them for a few years but he's so toxic.

    I don't think they can afford to move out of social housing. My aunt is 66, still working and intending to carry on working for as long as she can. She does have a pension, but I don't believe she has much in the way of savings as burden of running the household (except rent) has been solely on her - and for years she was only "allowed" to work part time.  My cousin is currently unemployed and job hunting, he used to work in retail but was let go in August (and before that was furloughed). They live in NW London and I think would struggle to rent a 2 bedroom place on their current income in the private sector. 
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,681 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Hi

    I'd recommend your go to Martin's financial abuse blog on here and get aunt to contact one of the charities to which he links, as soon as possible. They may be able to help her before uncle dies and possibly liaise with the housing authority. Remind her that lockdown has exclusions for those in abusive relationships. 

    Aunt also needs to understand the rules round what happens if uncle dies. If he's not got a will, she inherits some or all of his estate, but if he's done anything to exclude her, she needs to make a claim within 6 months.

    Is it possible that uncle has a pension by the way? If so, it may be possible to read up on their rules for survivor's pensions.

    On a practical point if he's not present, it may be possible to speak to her to support her, allow her safe access to the internet. Or just to help put money on the phone of either your aunt and cousin.

    And remind both that if they are used to creeping round him, they need to maintain the same behaviour as a safety measure.

    If they can't stay locally longer term, it might be better to consider relocation somewhere they can both get jobs and housing is cheaper.


    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • Thank you, those are great resources and I will pass the information on to them. 
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 354.8K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.5K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 455.6K Spending & Discounts
  • 247.6K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 604.5K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 178.6K Life & Family
  • 262.1K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.