We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Wife took out credit in my name and her own bank account

124»

Comments

  • Sandtree
    Sandtree Posts: 10,628 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Fourth Anniversary Name Dropper
    pbartlett said:
    Is it not more likely that they would just put a CIFAS marker on her, especially since there appears to be no attempt to defraud the money with no intention of paying it back?
    Who's "they"?

    The bank may put a marker on both, one for committing identity fraud and the other for being the victim of identity fraud (or at least that was the process back in the day)

    The Police/CPS would decide about any action to be taken on the criminal side.
  • phillw
    phillw Posts: 5,690 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Ubique said:
    He's only just found out that 2 accounts exist in his name only. Is there a responsibility by the creditors to show due diligence and actually check who's name the account is in...?
    Presumably they wrote to him at his address, if someone living at the address is intercepting the mail then it's not something the creditors can do much about. A husband paying for his wife's orders wouldn't be unexpected.

  • phillw
    phillw Posts: 5,690 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    edited 4 February 2021 at 10:31PM
    Deleted_User said:
    Yes if they want the debt to go away from their own account. Not a chance in hell they will be able to "play" any card - either report for fraud or pay the debt. Plenty of spouses are involved in criminal proceedings against their partner.
    ex partner. It's unlikely you would have your partner prosecuted while maintaining a relationship with them.

    She might be using shopping as a way of dealing with stress of lockdown or buying things that he also gets the benefit from. I would certainly be sitting down and asking why the f you did it without telling me.

    Being in a committed relationship means you should be sharing when you do something the other person needs to know about.

  • Thrugelmir
    Thrugelmir Posts: 89,546 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    edited 4 February 2021 at 10:57PM
    Ubique said:
    but she used her own bank account. 
    Which presumably means that she's repaying the credit with "her" money.  

    Your thread title says MY. Are you the son? 
  • phillw said:
    Deleted_User said:
    Yes if they want the debt to go away from their own account. Not a chance in hell they will be able to "play" any card - either report for fraud or pay the debt. Plenty of spouses are involved in criminal proceedings against their partner.
    ex partner. It's unlikely you would have your partner prosecuted while maintaining a relationship with them.

    She might be using shopping as a way of dealing with stress of lockdown or buying things that he also gets the benefit from. I would certainly be sitting down and asking why the f you did it without telling me.

    Being in a committed relationship means you should be sharing when you do something the other person needs to know about.

    Don't be a pedant, the point is perfectly valid and plenty of couples move on and stay together after various problems whether it's cheating or hiding debts or whatever. Not a prosecution but this woman even lied to her partner about their house sale and gambled all the money away and they are back together,
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 352.4K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.7K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454.4K Spending & Discounts
  • 245.4K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 601.2K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.6K Life & Family
  • 259.3K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.