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Saving for pension vs saving for children’s uni fees or property down payment

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Can people share their thoughts on how to strike a balance between saving for pension vs saving for children’s uni fees or a down payment for them buying a property?
would you maximise pension and let the child take a student loan until you retire and then you can help them repay the loan?
would you maximise pension and let the child take a student loan until you retire and then you can help them repay the loan?
Helping for property purchase might be a little easier as many parents reach retirement age (55 / 57) before children buy a property. So taking some money out of tax free lumpsum shouldn’t be a problem?
Or would you save in ISA to cover these expenses and not touch pension at all? That’s a nice one if possible, but not all can do it?
Or would you save in ISA to cover these expenses and not touch pension at all? That’s a nice one if possible, but not all can do it?
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Regarding UNi Fees, MSE has a good guide
https://www.moneysavingexpert.com/students/repay-post-2012-student-loan/
In short for most people it is best to take out a Student Loan for the fees and for the spending money , as it is likely it will never have to be paid back , not in full anyway .
Usually some help is still needed from parents for rent etc . and this typically will be in the range from £3k to £6K pa
For help with a first time property purchase, they should look at opening Lifetime ISA's once they are 18 and you can give them the max £4Kpa to put in these ( if you can afford it ) https://www.moneysavingexpert.com/savings/lifetime-isas/
Although we all like to help our children , you should also make sure you have enough income in retirement , so do not be too much in a rush to take some of your pension or reduce your contributions .
The above are just suggestions as you have not given enough info about you to say anything more specific ( age , salary, pension pot size, other savings childrens age etc )2 -
I am having to top up daughter's maintenance loan as she only gets the minimum - it costs me £4.5k pa to make up the difference to the maximum. She is taking all the loans available as its a 6 year course so she knows she is never going to pay it all back - there is a handy calculator on here that demonstrates this.
I plan to retire at 58 and she will still have 1 more year at uni at that point. I am putting max in pension but also some in ISA - none of the income withdrawal plan is based around her. My pension is for me - well our pensions are for us might be more accurate.
I will help her where I can, and I gave her a pot of the child benefit I had saved away when she turned 18. We call it her opportunity money as it might allow her to say yes to some fab opportunity that presents - if not then it will be for a house deposit. Once we retire we might choose to give her more as a lump sum as she's an only child so it will all be hers in the end - but not if it means that we can't live our retirement life as we planned when we saved for it.I’m a Senior Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Pensions, Annuities & Retirement Planning, Loans
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Right from the start, we put our child allowance into a savings account. This, plus the ocassional gifts from friends and family added up to a little over £15k by the time junior was 18. This paid for driving lessons, a first car and uni living costs.
In hindsight, we should have probably invested the money somewhere other than a simple savings account, but it was 'free' money and it added up to a handy windfall around uni time.2 -
Uni fees are £9250 a year and they need about £10k a year to live. So about £80k for a four course. They are better having that money as a house deposit and paying a little bit extra income tax. (Student loan repayment)2
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fred246 said:Uni fees are £9250 a year and they need about £10k a year to live. So about £80k for a four course. They are better having that money as a house deposit and paying a little bit extra income tax. (Student loan repayment)
So either the student lives at home ; works or is subsidised by family .1 -
figures are a little out. Parents have to be earning less than £25k or so for student to get the full maintenance loan which is currently £9,203k if outside London. Once parents earn over that it is a sliding scale down to £4,289 (the minimum) when household income is just over £62k.I’m a Senior Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Pensions, Annuities & Retirement Planning, Loans
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MallyGirl said:figures are a little out. Parents have to be earning less than £25k or so for student to get the full maintenance loan which is currently £9,203k if outside London. Once parents earn over that it is a sliding scale down to £4,289 (the minimum) when household income is just over £62k.
eg1 three children at university at the same time
eg2 three children, one at University and two still at school
This may affect my FIRE plans so would be interested to know. Assume income of £30k.0 -
There is no allowance made for the fact that you are supporting other children as far as I am aware - I don't have any others but all they ask is household income and nothing on any sort of affordability.
There is a useful table at nearly half way down this page:
https://www.savethestudent.org/student-finance/maintenance-loans.html
which shows what the student will likely get so you can work out what top up to plan for.
If it is tight then start prepping them now to not want to study in London - when my daughter was considering this I could see that she would get £5,981 maintenance loan but the uni accomodation was £10,403 self cateringObviously there were less convenient accommodation options but still ...
I’m a Senior Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Pensions, Annuities & Retirement Planning, Loans
& Credit Cards boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com.
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MallyGirl said:There is no allowance made for the fact that you are supporting other children as far as I am aware - I don't have any others but all they ask is household income and nothing on any sort of affordability.
There is a useful table at nearly half way down this page:
https://www.savethestudent.org/student-finance/maintenance-loans.html
which shows what the student will likely get so you can work out what top up to plan for.
If it is tight then start prepping them now to not want to study in London - when my daughter was considering this I could see that she would get £5,981 maintenance loan but the uni accomodation was £10,403 self cateringObviously there were less convenient accommodation options but still ...
I presume that income from ISAs are excluded and it is only taxable income that counts?0 -
ISAs are savings not income so they wouldn't count. It is just taxable income.
It is a good idea to think about this as early as possible. A quick look at The Student Room forum shows many threads where students cannot get the full maintenance loan but parents can't or won't top up.I’m a Senior Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Pensions, Annuities & Retirement Planning, Loans
& Credit Cards boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com.
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