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Rules on family living in property when you are not there
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bdubs32 said:Thanks for the replies. I know I have had professional advice, but it never hurts to get a second opinion, and this is a very knowledgeable community in my experience
To answer some questions about why my mum would do this: she has had a lot of bad luck financially and doesn't have much saved nor a house of her own, so I figured this would be a way she could help to actually pay towards some kind of equity (e.g. if the house price rises, I can sell in five years and buy her a flat), rather than just paying rent outside of the family.
What if you don't sell for more and/or you need the equity to buy your next home?
What would your rent & bill contributions (her 60/70%) v her rent & bills now offer her a saving of a month?1 -
OP why are you setting up another duplicate post, what info did you already receive were you not happy with?
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6227521/rules-on-buying-a-house-and-not-living-in-it#latest
"It is prudent when shopping for something important, not to limit yourself to Pound land/Estate Agents"
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bdubs32 said:To answer some questions about why my mum would do this: she has had a lot of bad luck financially and doesn't have much saved nor a house of her own, so I figured this would be a way she could help to actually pay towards some kind of equity (e.g. if the house price rises, I can sell in five years and buy her a flat), rather than just paying rent outside of the family.Surely if you're really looking to help mum out, you wouldnt accept 60-70% mortage payment from her and actually allow her to stay for less than 50% to allow her to save as much as possible?It is sounding like you really can't afford this without mum?0
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