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My sister in law has power of attorney over mother in laws money
She has stopped mums bank cards removed cheque book and redirected bank statements 
Need advice on what to do next , I have informed of but no help

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  • [Deleted User]
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    My sister in law has power of attorney over mother in laws money
    She has stopped mums bank cards removed cheque book and redirected bank statements 
    Need advice on what to do next , I have informed of but no help
     She is entitled to do that. What type of advice are you looking for? 
  • 68ComebackSpecial
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    Has your MIL lost capacity so that the power of attorney is now active?
  • Pollycat
    Pollycat Posts: 34,687 Forumite
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    My sister in law has power of attorney over mother in laws money
    She has stopped mums bank cards removed cheque book and redirected bank statements 
    Need advice on what to do next , I have informed of but no help
    What does this mean?
    Who have you informed and why are they not helping?

    If you have concerns about the attorney who is managing your MIL's money, there are ways to report them:

    I'm not sure if the rules are different in Scotland.



  • Keep_pedalling
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    My sister in law has power of attorney over mother in laws money
    She has stopped mums bank cards removed cheque book and redirected bank statements 
    Need advice on what to do next.
    That is exactly what an attorney should do when a donor loses mental capacity. When I first had POA for my mother we had joint control, but once her dementia got so bad she was no longer able do even the simplest financial transaction, all cards with her name on and her cheque books had to be destroyed leaving me with sole control over her finances. 
  • lr1277
    lr1277 Posts: 1,682 Forumite
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    Has your mother in law (the donor) lost capacity? If so, then as suggested above is correct.
    If the donor still has capacity, the attorney can make financial arrangements with the consent of the donor.
    So is the attorney (your SIL) acting in the donor's interest or her own?
  • 74jax
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    I had PoA for mam and did all this, even when she hadn't lost 'all' capacity. It was so much easier.
    Is there a reason you don't think this is correct in this case. Am I right in thinking it is your husbands sister?  Has his mum told him she is not happy with this new arrangement? 
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