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Advice re private sale

Private sale .. short version.

Sold laptop on gumtree, item was like new as was only 2 months old and only used for a week but wasn’t much use for what we needed it for work. 

Couldn’t send back as threw all box and bits away. 


Someone messaged to buy it said be here in half hour, turned up came in looked at laptop I turned it on and showed it was fully working in excellent condition. I put it back in a box with some of that giant air  bubble wrap stuff. 


They took it away happily, next day claiming laptop is damaged and that it was actually his friend who collected item not himself. 

Now he is saying he wants money back. I said he’s not having money back as it was looked at and checked it was working and excellent condition before he left.

Now he’s sending messages and turning up at my house trying to get his money. 


I’m assuming as they came and inspected item before leaving they can’t demand money back? 


Stupidly yes I let them collect from my house! Lesson learned won’t be doing that again. 


Thank you. 

Comments

  • cattie
    cattie Posts: 8,844 Forumite
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    I'm assuming they paid cash on collection? In allowing collection with cash payment, you actually did the right thing! 
    With cash on collection you don't have to refund. As you say, buyer was able to check item over first before taking item away. It's obviously a chancer, ignore them completely if you can, or tell then you'll report them to police for harrasment & do this if necessary.
    The bigger the bargain, the better I feel.

    I should mention that there's only one of me, don't confuse me with others of the same name.
  • Thank you, yes they paid cash when they collected.  They had a good 5 or so minutes with the item. 
    I’ve just been ignoring messages since yesterday. But will report if they keep turning up at house. 

    Thank you. 

  • If it's a private sale then the goods should only match the description. 

    What is the damage the buyer is claiming? As they inspected it they can't claim that there is a smashed screen or broken hinge for example as it would have been obvious. 

    If it's something small that may have not been noticeable then it would depend on the exact wording of the advert. 
    In the game of chess you can never let your adversary see your pieces
  • soolin
    soolin Posts: 74,446 Ambassador
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    A private sale for cash leaves you safe, it is buyer beware and as buyer (or his representative) checked and paid for the item they don’t have any real rights. If the buyer starts to worry you with harassment or calls to any serious extent report them to the police. 
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  • If it's a private sale then the goods should only match the description. 

    What is the damage the buyer is claiming? As they inspected it they can't claim that there is a smashed screen or broken hinge for example as it would have been obvious. 

    If it's something small that may have not been noticeable then it would depend on the exact wording of the advert. 
    Not small damage and very obvious deep scratches to the lid and side and a dent on one of the side. Like it had been dropped on the floor outside. 

    I’m hoping they won’t turn up at house again if I carry on ignoring them but will report if they do. 
  • In that case follow Soolin's advice above :) 
    In the game of chess you can never let your adversary see your pieces
  • Great, thank you for your help all :) 
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