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Bank Lied to Prevent Me Closing Account - What Rules or Legislation Does This Breach?
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Malthusian said:As Sailtheworld says, that ship has sailed. If he doesn't have your permission to allow other people to handle his affairs you need to wind up your handling of his affairs and then leave him to it.Handling his affairs and voluntarily making it more difficult for both of you by not completing a Power of Attorney is the worst of both worlds.To get really philosophical, if somebody has no proof of identity then they don't legally exist.Getting a passport is not acquiring proof of identity, it's just converting the proof of identity you already have (the documents that you give the Passport Office) into a form that more people will accept without further checks.The practical point I'm making is that it's fine to have no passport or other commonly accepted proof of ID, you just don't get to complain it makes your life more difficult. It's like refusing to own a tin-opener.0
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Do you mind me asking, what are you hoping to get from the bank by making a complaint?
Based on what you have written, my opinion is that you deserve an apology for the insinuation from the bank that you were going to do or have done something 'wrong'...0 -
Paragraphs please, your posts are unreadable
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peskydaisydoodle said:I guess the debit card will act as a piece of ID so that's fine.
Proof of ID usually requires a photo ID.
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Cus said:Do you mind me asking, what are you hoping to get from the bank by making a complaint?
Based on what you have written, my opinion is that you deserve an apology for the insinuation from the bank that you were going to do or have done something 'wrong'...
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colsten said:
Proof of ID usually requires a photo ID.
After reading through the thread I can't decide whether the person who told you the incorrect details made a genuine mistake, or whether they wonder if your son actually existed and went down a route that would force you to prove it. You may gave triggered an anti money laundering warning in their system, which they aren't allowed to tell you about & so may panic and make up something instead.
Raising a complaint is unlikely to go very far if they've been telling you that you've been operating the account outside the terms. You might get a "sorry, here is £30".
Unless he is mentally impaired then it's about time he dealt with his own banking as you could be open to legal problems. If he doesn't have capacity then you need to apply to the court of protection.
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phillw said:colsten said:
Proof of ID usually requires a photo ID.0 -
colsten said:
Banks aren't the only ones requiring proof of ID. And yes, I do realise not everyone has a DL or a passport. It is a fact of life, though, that proving your ID with either of them is generally the easiest, least hassle-prone method.
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phillw said:colsten said:
Proof of ID usually requires a photo ID.
After reading through the thread I can't decide whether the person who told you the incorrect details made a genuine mistake, or whether they wonder if your son actually existed and went down a route that would force you to prove it. You may gave triggered an anti money laundering warning in their system, which they aren't allowed to tell you about & so may panic and make up something instead.
Raising a complaint is unlikely to go very far if they've been telling you that you've been operating the account outside the terms. You might get a "sorry, here is £30".
Unless he is mentally impaired then it's about time he dealt with his own banking as you could be open to legal problems. If he doesn't have capacity then you need to apply to the court of protection.
As for being told I was operating the account outside their terms - I kept offering to close it and she kept saying she would try to find an alternative and eventually I said the time had come where I had to close it as the branch was closing in any case.
The member of staff had been quite lazy about the whole thing - she would appear from her office now and then for a brief discussion and would then tell me she was going to look into the possibility of other forms of id for him and get back to me. She never did because she would forget about me until my next visit.
There is absolutely no way she was mistaken in what she told me - she told me a stream of lies about how she had found a solution - and when, days later I went into the branch to confirm that everything was still in hand and that no further action was required from me, she lied again. I was so convinced by the spiel she gave me, that when I received a letter to say the ITF account would close 8 weeks later, I genuinely believed that was just a formality - that it was just the ITF part dropping off of the account so that the account officially became my son's.
I'm kicking myself for being so gullible - but I've been dealing with this member of staff for years and had no reason to suspect she would be telling me anything other than the truth. Even when the cheque arrived in the post I assumed there had been a genuine mistake - it wasn't until she denied that our conversations had taken place - and that it was confirmed to me that what I said I had been offered as a solution could never, ever have come to fruition, that I realised I had been completely taken in.
The account for my son is in hand and will all be sorted out it the next week or so - providing the assistant manager is correct in telling me I only need to provide a written statement from myself confirming that my son lives at my address, a letter confirming his NI number, and as a backup, a letter from the benefits agency.
Thankyou for your input - it is the first answer I've had that points toward a possible explanation of why the bank staff behaved in the manner they did.
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As we travel along life's road we meet many problems, more so at this time.
You may be right and end up with £30, as previously posted, and lots of self satisfaction. Will it be worth all the energy, and sleeplessness.
When you come up against rules and regs, just find an easy way to comply and win.
Your son is probably entitled to a bus pass. No need to use it, but it's photographic ID.
Open a joint account for the cheque. Just look for simple solutions to problem's.
Have you considered water co, council tax etc help, that you may well be eligible for.
Good luck.
(Please compare reading my post and other posts to yours).
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