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gross misconduct - need advice for a friend.
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Beepeear said:AskAsk said:steampowered said:Beepeear said:My friend works in a food store, they told me that before, everyone used to take products to have on their break and then they would usually pay for it at the end of the day, or if forgetting to do so, pay the next possible opportunity, usually the next day.
I doubt many of these items that people "forget" to pay for - get paid for the following day !!!!
It sounds like a final warning is the best outcome that can be hoped for. A dismissal is possible. Though it sounds unlikely that the police would be involved.
i saw a program last night about steve wright, the suffolk strangler, and he was reported to the police for stealing £80 from the cash register of the pub where he worked. so for a small theft, the pub decided to report him.
as he has been cautioned before, he is not exactly an exemplary employee, so i think the likelihood is that they will get rid of him, as this is perfect timing for them to do so as they now have legitimate reason to sack him and employ someone else who is more honest and who is less of a headache. the choice is big in this pandemic as so many people are looking for jobs at the moment.
so i think your friend has had it, is my crystal ball analysis on the little bit of information that i have read from this thread.0 -
theft is theft
mortui non mordent0 -
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Beepeear said:AskAsk said:0
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Thrugelmir said:Beepeear said:AskAsk said:0
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Beepeear said:Thrugelmir said:Beepeear said:AskAsk said:
Dismissal would also need to be "within the range of sanctions a reasonable employer might choose". If they have a reasonable belief of theft then dismissal certainly would be a reasonable sanction.
Frankly I don't believe a word of the lame excuses you have trotted out on here on "your friend's" behalf.
All "your friend" can do is apologise profusely for his "accidental oversights" and hope that the employer is either totally gullible or feeling very generous.1 -
I believe the only evidence they would have is CCTV. He said to me that he has forgot to pay for items on more than one occasion but majority of the time the items were paid for the following day.
So "he" took things without paying on a number of occasions but when remembering "he" hadn't paid for them "he" only then paid some of the time and didn't bother the rest?
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KatrinaWaves said:steampowered said:Beepeear said:My friend works in a food store, they told me that before, everyone used to take products to have on their break and then they would usually pay for it at the end of the day, or if forgetting to do so, pay the next possible opportunity, usually the next day.
I doubt many of these items that people "forget" to pay for - get paid for the following day !!!!
It sounds like a final warning is the best outcome that can be hoped for. A dismissal is possible. Though it sounds unlikely that the police would be involved.3
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