Eharmony

Hi, I have recently signed up to eharmony dating site but cancelled my subscription within the 14 day cooling off period. In fact I cancelled the same day. The fee for initially signing up was approx £14 so i expected to lose this fee, however they have withdrawn £50 from my account quoting a value compensation fee for the eharmony personality test which is basically a tick list. I have complained to eharmony that this is an excessive fee for being a member of the site for less that 24 hours and they replied saying that they class it as a reasonable amount for the service as stated in the T&C's. I have checked the page they indicated and it doesn't state an amount just a 'reasonable amount for the service'. I can no longer use the site as my membership is cancelled as I requested so the 24 hours on eharmony has cost me £64!!!
I read the T&C's before signing but as it was indicated there is a cooling off period i didn't expect to have this amount charged to me. Any advice? Do I have a case to complain further or should I reluctantly write it off!!! Thanks

Replies

  • Aylesbury_DuckAylesbury_Duck Forumite
    12.7K Posts
    Tenth Anniversary 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Forumite
    As I understand it, cooling off periods for services end when you start using the service or after 14 days, whichever is sooner.  Otherwise, people would simply use things like two weeks free insurance, two weeks free subscription,etc in perpetuity and keep switching service provider.   It looks like you used the service so the cooling off period ended at that point.

    In your case, you can dispute the value of the service you used in that day because it would have to be reasonable.  Only you can decide how far you want to take it for £50.
  • BraddenBradden Forumite
    871 Posts
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Forumite
    Initiailly I thought the OP was trying to obtain the maximum discount rate but  only pay for a short period.. I've used other dating sites who charge considerably more for one month compared to 12. I was wrong .. It seems eharmoy only offer 6,12 & 24 month options. Whick makes me wonder why @jlpear10 didn't sign up for 6?

    However.. I still think the OP may have an argument perhaps someone more knowedagle could comment on the following.

    I cannot find anywhere on thier site the cost for preium membership.


    or maybe hidden in a support page called  WHAT ARE THE EHARMONY MEMBERSHIP OPTIONS? sorry cant link to it.

    Is this lawful? I'm thinking it potentially falls foul of Advertising Standards. Whislt not related directly I have used tihis lever in negotiations previously to my advantage. 
  • BraddenBradden Forumite
    871 Posts
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Forumite
    @jlpear10 when you say you dinlt use the platform.. you presumably completed their personality tests which they consider the service. Did you then proceed to view any matches after this? I think that it could be argued if you backed out before seeing any potential matches.. or swiping on them 😘
  • edited 25 February at 10:25PM
    the_lunatic_is_in_my_headthe_lunatic_is_in_my_head Forumite
    5.5K Posts
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Forumite
    edited 25 February at 10:25PM
    As I understand it, cooling off periods for services end when you start using the service or after 14 days, whichever is sooner.  Otherwise, people would simply use things like two weeks free insurance, two weeks free subscription,etc in perpetuity and keep switching service provider.   It looks like you used the service so the cooling off period ended at that point.

    In your case, you can dispute the value of the service you used in that day because it would have to be reasonable.  Only you can decide how far you want to take it for £50.
    Assuming one exists, the cancellation period doesn’t expire early (unless the service is completed) but the consumer would be due to pay for what they had received from the time the service began to the time they cancelled (subject to required info being provided) :) And I now see your post was 2 years old! 

    So someone who cancelled would have to pay for x days which is easy to work out when you have a monthly/yearly subscription fee.

    This assumes eharmony are covered by UK or EU regs (haven’t checked so don’t know).

    It seems they claim OP (and Beckyuk) has used a second service and is now charging them for it because they cancelled, that doesn’t really sound right to me (as it appears to be a penalty for cancelling assuming the fee wouldn’t be charged if you didn’t cancel) but not sure if it would be legal.

    Under UK regs where no price is given for a service the price must be reasonable and what is reasonable is a matter of fact (whatever that happens to mean). 

    @beckyuk the amount isn’t worth the headache of small claims, you could have a chat with  your card provider to see if they can help or send a letter before action as a bluff but the strength of that bluff is going to be significantly weakened if the contact was governed by laws outside the UK. 
  • born_againborn_again Forumite
    10K Posts
    1,000 Posts Third Anniversary Name Dropper
    Forumite
    Bradden said:
    Initiailly I thought the OP was trying to obtain the maximum discount rate but  only pay for a short period.. I've used other dating sites who charge considerably more for one month compared to 12. I was wrong .. It seems eharmoy only offer 6,12 & 24 month options. Whick makes me wonder why @jlpear10 didn't sign up for 6?

    However.. I still think the OP may have an argument perhaps someone more knowedagle could comment on the following.

    I cannot find anywhere on thier site the cost for preium membership.


    or maybe hidden in a support page called  WHAT ARE THE EHARMONY MEMBERSHIP OPTIONS? sorry cant link to it.

    Is this lawful? I'm thinking it potentially falls foul of Advertising Standards. Whislt not related directly I have used tihis lever in negotiations previously to my advantage. 
    Where did the Op mention "Premium" service?
    Life in the slow lane
  • edited 26 February at 4:20PM
    BraddenBradden Forumite
    871 Posts
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Forumite
    edited 26 February at 4:20PM
    Bradden said:
    Initiailly I thought the OP was trying to obtain the maximum discount rate but  only pay for a short period.. I've used other dating sites who charge considerably more for one month compared to 12. I was wrong .. It seems eharmoy only offer 6,12 & 24 month options. Whick makes me wonder why @jlpear10 didn't sign up for 6?

    However.. I still think the OP may have an argument perhaps someone more knowedagle could comment on the following.

    I cannot find anywhere on thier site the cost for preium membership.


    or maybe hidden in a support page called  WHAT ARE THE EHARMONY MEMBERSHIP OPTIONS? sorry cant link to it.

    Is this lawful? I'm thinking it potentially falls foul of Advertising Standards. Whislt not related directly I have used tihis lever in negotiations previously to my advantage. 
    Where did the Op mention "Premium" service?
    Sorry it seems I got my wires crossed I was replying to the OP after @beckyuk resurrected the thread.

    The premium service is the paid for subscription the OP signed up for. They offer two tiers.. free.. which is essentially useless and the "premium" subscription. I still wonder if not having any pricing available on their website is lawful. 

Sign In or Register to comment.
Latest MSE News and Guides

Did you know there's an MSE app?

It's free & available on iOS & Android

MSE App

Regifting: good idea or not?

Add your two cents to the discussion

MSE Forum

Energy Price Guarantee calculator

How much you'll likely pay from April

MSE Tools