Freedom of Info Request

74jax

Your message gave me shivers.  I am so sorry you go this call.  Its detailed on here (going back 13+ years) I was in a horrible relationship, it ended in court with a restraining order and police alerts set up in my house, it was horrendous.  I am now married, settled but I still get that 'sleeping with the enemy' feeling every now and again - reading your message was one of them.
I can only imagine you going about your day without a care and then getting that call, out of the blue, throwing you back to the most horrendous time.  
I can't offer advice on your question about being connected etc, but I wanted to let you know that I understand how you will be feeling and the anxiety you will have now for a few weeks until 'normality' comes back.  
Go about your usual day as you would - if he's in prision (not sure if he is or not) then you can sleep easier, if he's not, for you mental health just change the time of day you leave the house by a little bit, it will mean nothing to anyone else, but you;ll feel a little better.  I understand you thinking he could turn up at work and it affecting your job, that was a huge issue with me and sadly he did turn up, BUT it's unlikely he will now after all this time.  Remember the police called you, not him.  Hopefully you don't even feature in his mind anymore.
Seriously change your number and email if you think for one moment he may have it.  No not answer unknown numbers and turn off your voicemail.
It must be horrible to go through, but you have been through the worst, this is a blip and you need to focus on the facts and what YOU can control, which is how you react to this.

TonyMMM

It won' t be on the PNC - there will be information about your ex stored on a criminal intelligence system relating to the previous abuse incidents - and completely appropriate for the information to be stored ( if only in case of him turning up and threatening you/you parents in the future.)
If they had revealed your number to your ex (or anyone else) then you would have grounds for complaint...but not really in this case.